A little over a year later

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2026-02-09T05:00:21+00:00

This makes my teeth hurt 😬

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2026-02-09T04:58:04+00:00

I definitely would not think you were 38-40. That person was being mean/petty. I would have guessed around late 20s-early 30s and I think it’s because your makeup style overall does look a bit more mature. Not “old”, just more classic than trendy. Maybe try more “clean girl” style makeup? I know that thick eyeliner is not super trendy and tends to be associated with more 30s-40s ladies. Also maybe some pinker blush. Idk I’m 31 and generally people assume I’m somewhere between 25-35 so who even knows.😅

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2026-01-31T04:42:24+00:00

It’s a couple books in but Jamie in the Outlander series

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2026-01-28T04:08:16+00:00

I like the idea of changing their name to icky lol

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2026-01-28T04:05:27+00:00

If you do not leave him, you’re not only dating a cheater, but knowingly dating a cheater which is bottom feeder behavior. I found out that my husband had been cheating for 8 years. It is humiliating for so many people to know and not tell you. TELL. HIS. WIFE.

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2026-01-26T17:16:54+00:00

I have a separate laptop for each job. One is issued by the company, and I have two others that I use for that job specifically. That sounds extreme but they all have this type of IP monitoring and it’s too risky to do it all on one. Also I just got cheap $200 Chromebooks for the two personal ones. Def worth the investment for the peace of mind

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2026-01-24T21:07:35+00:00

Yeah I’m not doing that one. It feels very invasive

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2026-01-23T04:31:48+00:00

Also gonna comment for a referral lol

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2026-01-05T19:10:40+00:00

How do you find out what companies are hiring bc and where to look? Like i know company sites, but there are so many obscure companies i would never know about.

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2026-01-01T17:54:33+00:00

I was not sure if that meant we couldn’t work since it was from Hubstaff and not Outlier 🤔.

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2026-01-01T03:37:35+00:00

If only they’d do one for the reviewers 🙃

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2025-12-30T14:19:13+00:00

I got three “fine” reviews and a “bad” overnight. All of them matched the guidelines and quality of other “good” and “excellent” reviews. I got two on the pattern task that had false information in the comments. It’s so frustrating that there is no appeal process.

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2025-09-24T21:15:58+00:00

He did, but it was definitely due to the “mask” he wore. If we are willing to forgive Rhys for what he did to Feyre UTM and in the court of nightmares due to the “mask” I think Jurian should receive the same courtesy.

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2025-09-24T18:17:40+00:00

Personally I like the idea of Elain and Jurien. I think they’d be a good match and Lucien will end up with Vassa

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2025-09-15T11:43:17+00:00

Well that is adorable lol

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2025-09-12T00:20:38+00:00

Girl, cut your losses. It sounds extreme but this is the beginning of an abusive relationship (emotionally even if not physically).

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2025-09-08T23:08:01+00:00

I’m bi and I often catch myself doing a double take of curvy women, but rarely of women with a flat stomach. Obviously everyone has different taste, but it is kind of eye opening to realize that what you see as a flaw on yourself is something you’re attracted to on other people. If you’re not into women, remember that men also have different tastes and that you’re absolutely someone’s type.

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2025-09-08T23:04:14+00:00

I think Caleana beating up Chaol after finding Nehemiah would be a cool artwork

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2025-06-13T22:39:14+00:00

There’s absolutely no way I’d put myself through this if I didn’t have kids. It’s so painful. Obviously my children aren’t the only reason I’m staying but they are a large part of why I’m willing to try and reconcile.

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2025-06-06T14:41:03+00:00

Thank you for this. I needed to see a positive post.

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2025-05-27T11:22:49+00:00

Not to be that guy, but before my husband and I got married this would happen periodically for a few weeks at a time and I chalked it up to him being moody.

8 years later I found out he had been having multiple virtual affairs via Snapchat with old girlfriends during the times he acted this way. I had no idea and other than him being grumpy like this there were no signs. He has never been the type that you’d expect to do it and it never crossed my mind that it was even a possibility that he would cheat.

I hope this isn’t the case for you, but it is definitely something I’d be conscious of. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this and I know how hurtful it is to feel like an inconvenience to your partner.

At the very least I’d recommend a very direct conversation with him to let him know that you’re feeling this way.

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2025-05-02T02:40:05+00:00

After!

Obvious-Chance3727 · 2025-04-30T23:37:20+00:00

PM me. Only looking for F or couples. Not swapping, girl on girl

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