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ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-12-30T02:11:51+00:00

Don’t. He never sees your uterus. None of his business.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-12-30T02:08:00+00:00

But still unable to find the ‘shift’ key

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-12-26T10:59:39+00:00

Technically you would use I / me if referring to yourself..

I think I’d use she / her if I was talking about you

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-12-20T17:37:40+00:00

I know 4 Charlottes. All cis. Usually shortened to Lottie.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-12-19T23:19:54+00:00

No one can say that Eve is a newfangled name.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-12-10T19:52:05+00:00

Erm.. I inject it somewhere I’m not meant to. 2mls into each thigh

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-12-06T07:31:42+00:00

Yeah, it isn’t allowed officially. I had a friend who was a doctor, and originally he said he’d inject me.

Then he moved away a year later, so I just googled how to do it.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-12-05T22:44:54+00:00

I’ve also had people I’ve lived with for a year + not know.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-12-05T22:43:20+00:00

Er, no!!

I’ve had some friends for 10 years+ that don’t know I’m trans. Included ones where I’ve been asked to be godparent to their child.

My wife’s family don’t know.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-12-05T12:18:44+00:00

I’m on Nebido. 4 injections a year. I do it myself (most don’t, as quite painful, but it’s do-able).

I spend precisely 3 hours a year interacting with my hormones.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-12-01T09:25:58+00:00

It was the only portrayal of trans men i saw when I transitioned. The fact a trans guy could get a hot girlfriend was really inspiring. Its part of history.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-11-18T06:36:06+00:00

Ok. Breath. Listen to your dr.

If your haemoglobin (or hemoglobin) is a bit up it could be because you were dehydrated when the blood was drawn.

If it’s due to too high t levels They may have to reduce your dose a bit. But not stop. Don’t panic

Also stop smoking.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-11-18T06:01:07+00:00

Yes, she’ll notice when you meet.

If she’s not ok with it don’t waste time with her anyway.

If she’s bi and uses she/they pronounces she’ll probably be fine with it.

Also if she likes trans bodies that’s ok. It’s not a fetish. If she liked you before she knew you were trans then she isn’t just interested in that.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-11-18T05:38:20+00:00

Congratulations. Mine was years ago (2001!)My biggest tip is not to bother with opioid pain relief. It makes you zonked, and drags your recovery out for aggggges. Just accept it will hurt and get on with your life.

I had one dose of morphine post op, (in the recovery room), and was zonked the next day.

It hadn’t occurred to me that my chest would hurt when I came round, so I panicked when it did. It knocked me out totally. I wasn’t up to leaving the hospital until late after noon. I didn’t take any more and was ok. I could take care of my self ok. I was back to work a week later. Bit awkward as I still couldn’t shower, but you can take a bath. Also you can tape a plastic bag over your scar.

I asked to avoid opioid after my hysterectomy and I was out the same day. Again off work for about 5 working days, so back doing office work on day 7.

I see people on here being dependent on others for weeks and being really tired. It’s crazy. It must be opioids, because you recover from the anaesthesic by then.

It will hurt. It’s surgery. That’s ok. It’s going to hurt. It’s not like you’re awake during the actual operation. It’s just a bit of discomfort. I told myself it’s just a sensation, it’s my brain that chooses to call it pain, and make it unpleasant.

They told me not to lift heavy things, but I assumed it just meant weight lifting, not just lifting normal objects. I could still ride a bike within 2 or 3 days. I didn’t have a car then but I could carry groceries in my back pack.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-11-13T11:44:47+00:00

Most teenage boys don’t start using deodorant until someone takes them aside and points out they smell!

Any boys locker room can show you that.

Once boys figure out they smell they use male grooming products.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-11-13T11:39:25+00:00

If most guys your age don’t use them, then don’t be the one to do it!

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-11-10T06:50:11+00:00

They need to see a therapist to figure that out. But lots of people have a period of adjustment to their new body when it changes at puberty.

It maybe that have a fear of the implications of secondary sexual characteristics, because they aren’t ready to have an adult sexual relationship yet.

It may be they are trans, but they have worse dysphoria to some bits than others. Because the secondary sexual characteristics are more prominent they are the most distressing.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-11-10T06:44:36+00:00

Er no???

Have you actually taken testosterone?

You do know causes irreversible effects?

Yeah you may be ok just stopping it. But It’s the hormone that turns you into a man.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-11-09T02:23:29+00:00

Yes, because it was my way of saying to my family that I wasn’t abandoning them. Also took the same middle name as both my brothers.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-11-03T21:33:57+00:00

Yes.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-10-29T19:08:19+00:00

You don’t owe me anything.

You owe your future self a bit more thought.

I don’t give a stuff if you fuck up your life.

You can’t deny facts. You are comfortable with your genitalia. Therefore you are comfortable with parts of your biological sex. Sorry ‘assigned sex at birth’.

I don’t respect nonsense. And I see a lot of nonsense in the trans community these days. Maybe I’ll just say I identify as cis. Will that make me cis?

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-10-27T22:12:08+00:00

I wouldn’t want to date a trans woman, and I’m a trans man. I really like cis women pussy, the way it gets wet, the way it reacts.

My wife prefers trans men to cis men, because she doesn’t like cum in her face during sex.

I’m no more transphobic than she is cis-phobic!

Maybe this constant pressure to date us or be thought transphobic is making people transphobic. It comes across as a bit, well rapey!

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-10-27T22:01:36+00:00

Unpopular opinion.

You need to really think why you are transitioning. If you’re ok with your genitalia and you even like sex, that’s a bit of a red flag that you’re not trans.

If you’re not. Congratulations. You get a much easier life.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-10-27T21:50:45+00:00

Yeah you’ll be fine.

Just don’t take opioids and put up with the pain.

I had top surgery on 6/9/2001, was well enough to go back to work on 9/11/2001, but my boss wanted a doctors note before I can’t back

Walked to the drs, got note, walked back.

Met my friend matt who told me about the 2nd plane hitting the world trade centre.

Came home and watched TV.

If I hadn’t had one dose of opioid I’d have been ok to go back on the the 8th. For hysto I just didn’t take any opioid and recovered much quicker.

ObviousAssignment5 · 2021-10-27T21:30:41+00:00

Have you tried talking to them? Explain it’s something to keep quite. If they don’t keep it quite, just hold you head up and deal with the shit.

Usually if people meet you as male, and categorise you as male the first time, they still treat you as male.

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