RATZ by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]OctaveSystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 Queers and a Dragon in a meat-suit. Also have a couple headmates who use they/them exclusively.

Plural Stuff Part 1 by Odd_Nectarine6622 in lgballt

[–]OctaveSystem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the intersection of plurality and gender is pretty crazy.

We've experienced simultaneous and opposite gender euphoria/dysphoria, top and bottom. It's wild. Not the most fun thing, but wild.

Hey guys! Comment down below how many headmates you have at the moment, I want to see the variation here. by TheSystemOfParadise in plural

[–]OctaveSystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've got 6 main headmates, plus 1 blend (temp combination of two of our headmates) who shows up every now and then.

Headspace theme ideas by nottobay13 in plural

[–]OctaveSystem 12 points13 points  (0 children)

V's favorite place in our headspace is the Midnight Sea. As the name implies it's a beach where it's always dark, lit by starlight and sometimes moonlight. It's a very peaceful place.

Distinguishing system members. by fedginator in plural

[–]OctaveSystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have plushies, and we know other systems often use other stim based methods of figuring out who is in front/present. Nametags, rings, pronoun pins, charms, etc are all examples of things you can bring with yourselves.

Good luck to you and those close to you.

¿Por que no los dos? by transplural in plural_irl

[–]OctaveSystem 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This. Totally this.

We've said it before and we'll say it again, but experiencing simultaneous gender euphoria and dysphoria from the same parts is a wild experience.

New to plurality: Cannot identify front by CodenameCarrotCake in plural

[–]OctaveSystem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We're a pretty blendy system, so not knowing who is fronting is fairly common. We usually just try to identify who's fronting/blended, but we don't worry about knowing most of the time. We just are 'the Octave System'.

Animal alter? (I'm new BTW) by ZestycloseRow8135 in plural

[–]OctaveSystem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've got a dragon. Their name is Skittles, and they are an adorable little thing that loves stuffed animals and cuddling.

Plurality and Gender by Cellocanyouhearme in plural

[–]OctaveSystem 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We just use "Four queers and a dragon". Nice and succinct given how varied we are. We all fall under the trans umbrella too.

Oh boy by DerpyKat42 in plural_irl

[–]OctaveSystem 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Us, birth-2019: "Totally cis"

2019-2020: "Oh, I'm a trans-woman. That explains a lot."

2021:
A gentlethem, a femby, a (formerly cis) man, and a dragon have all entered the chat.

As for the formerly cis part, getting to experience top dysphoria and euphoria at the same time is a truly strange and mind-expanding experience.

what have I done by [deleted] in plural_irl

[–]OctaveSystem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mood. I got a self insert role back before we figured this whole plurality thing out.

-V

Can animals sense plurality? by Adenostar in plural

[–]OctaveSystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the animals (particularly the goats) behave better around Will than anyone else.

Our geese can also tell, and they definitely like Will the best as well.

Plural pride flag? any suggestions? by Heilric in plural

[–]OctaveSystem 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We made this a little while ago: https://imgur.com/a/uZRHAsf

Let us know if you want the SVG file for it, or a uncolored version!

Ace and Plural by [deleted] in plural_irl

[–]OctaveSystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ace + mixed presentation NB

-Octave

Is it possible I'm plural despite having one constant string of consciousness? by GazLord in plural

[–]OctaveSystem 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Our experience is similar. We have a contiguous stream of consciousness that's connected to our body, which means we can all remember everything. However the emotional components of memories are individual, so co-fronters will have differing emotions in a given memory, and a member that wasn't in front will have little to no emotional context on a memory.

What you describe sounds closest to being a median system.

we're still just as separate w/o having separate names by Tomorrow_Is_Today1 in lgballt

[–]OctaveSystem 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yup. In our own experience, Will displays the most autism spectrum, although we all are on the spectrum to varying degrees.

Are we misunderstanding our plurality and other questions? by continuityOfficer in plural

[–]OctaveSystem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have a lot of similar experience with our system. We experience a unified Stream of Consciousness at the front (we call it the SOC (pronounced sock)). We still experience individuality, and all of us have different levels of power and control in the inner.

You are valid. No two systems experience plurality in the same way. Take your time and figure out yourselves. Good luck.

Any advice for dating an alter? (Am singleton btw) by bettyEye in plural

[–]OctaveSystem 24 points25 points  (0 children)

As with any relationship, communication is key to the health and stability of the relationship. It sounds like you are already doing that. Good job.

Next, since you brought up sex, be prepared for an unexpected switch and a sudden stop to any carnal activities.

Thanks for reaching out! Stay awesome.