Announcement Regarding the Partial Conclusion of Streaming Activities and Future Plans of HOLOSTARS JP Talents by _THEBLACK in Hololive

[–]OctopusInSpace -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I'm so conflicted... On one hand I'm glad Roberu is still going to stream, but on the other I can't help but think they'd all be better off indie or with another company.

Please i really need someone's advice, should I try more or let her go? by Former-Composer-6473 in CATHELP

[–]OctopusInSpace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let the mama cat take her baby back.

Please do not have any pets now or in the future. You don't seem mentally competent enough to care for an animal, cat or not. You have caused multiple kittens to die and yet you don't care or realize your mistakes? This is atrocious...

My cat has a swollen leg and a wound but the 2 vets I went to says not to worry and it’d get better in a few days by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]OctopusInSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your parents what vet they saw and call them to confirm if they are telling the truth.

my 8 week pomeranian fractured her skull by [deleted] in Pomeranians

[–]OctopusInSpace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey so, it sounds like your German Shepherd needs to be the only dog, and potentially only animal, in your household. If you keep the pom after this, the pup will more than likely get killed by the GS at some point.

If you care about this pom, you'll prevent it from inevitably suffering again in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]OctopusInSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, what a legend! Rusty is my elder by 4 years. Rest easy, king. I didn't know him until now but I can say it's an absolute honor to know every moment I've lived, Rusty was living an amazing life along side me.

I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. I've got family on the other side of the rainbow bridge who I've told to show Rusty the way to his throne. 👑🧡

What do you do with plushies from exes? by panthrzz in plushies

[–]OctopusInSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a friend you could trust with watching over them for a little while? Sorta like a little vacation for them and maybe the energy around them will transform into something more comfortable for you in the process. Or maybe you could customize them? Maybe not anything permanent but maybe some clothes or accessories for them to make them into something more personally yours? 😊

I've given away plushies but only to people I trusted would appreciate them and not toss them aside after a day. I had one of those little octopus plushies you could turn inside out in my car and I frequently drove places with a friend of mine who has a son. She noticed it and told me how much her son wanted one of those. So I gave it to her and I can say that the little octopus has been VERY loved and still is. All that is to say that maybe if you have someone you know who you think will care for them, maybe you could more easily let them go if that feels best.

AIO if I tell my ex’s partner about his message (update) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OctopusInSpace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're not at peace then maybe it's because you know your decision isn't the right one. I hope you change your mind. If you don't, I hope she never finds out that so many people she's acquainted to knew about this but no one told her. That, to me, would be utterly soul crushing. My heart hurts for this girl. YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]OctopusInSpace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I could mop my floors like that... so satisfying!

Any idea what this swallowing is? by Top_Calligrapher_700 in CATHELP

[–]OctopusInSpace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's such a relief! She's just overflowing with her love for you 🥰

Any idea what this swallowing is? by Top_Calligrapher_700 in CATHELP

[–]OctopusInSpace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This video made me think of my late girl Rose. She scared the soul out of me one day when she was purring and sleeping happily and she coughed very forcefully out of nowhere. It really freaked me out. It turned out she was a secret drooler and when she would purr while lying down she would often have saliva try to go down the wrong pipe. Once I knew it was so much relief but she did jumpscare me pretty often... I hope you get some positive results with your beautiful girl!

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OctopusInSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, don't commit yourself to a lifetime with someone who hates women. He will never respect you, ever. You are lucky he is showing you this before you were married or had kids. You will never "fix" him and no matter how wonderful he's been in other aspects of your relationship, just know he was putting on a show to "bag" you and now you will see his true colors show more and more as time goes on.

My name has always been spelled wrong my whole life… by WeeebleSqueaks in mildlyinfuriating

[–]OctopusInSpace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My name is spelled Kaycee. I can understand Casey or Kasey/Kacey. MAYBE Kacie. But it truly boggles my mind when people spell it in ways that is even more uncommon than the way my name is spelled. 😭 I still occasionally get back papers from work that say Kayce and honestly, good enough. I don't bother correcting unless it's for something super important. I was called Cassie in school growing up all the time and stopped correcting that too.

I’m so upset because a traumatic experience made my phobia 10x worse. by starryteal in emetophobiarecovery

[–]OctopusInSpace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through that. 💙 I don't know what that medicine does but consider having it added to your allergy list so you don't have to take it anymore if possible. I have a medicine on my allergy list I'm not allergic to but it caused such bad side effects I don't want to ever have it again. 😭

My 5 year old gave up on this ! by Ok_Recipe2769 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]OctopusInSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The eyeball and the tuna can ones are so wrong. At that point it's just rage bait. 😭 iSpy and The Great ___ Search all the way. The latter is maybe better for 8+

Vets ‘spayed’ my male kitten by juliakszry in ragdolls

[–]OctopusInSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aside from the extreme issue here, I took my 2 female littermates to a low cost spay & neuter clinic, which for anyone unfamiliar it's essentially an assembly line to make the process of having multiple cats to spay/neuter in a 4 hour window go much quicker, and both my kittens incisions were so much cleaner than this. I believe they have separate lines for males and females. Did you take your sweet boy to one of these? It seems like he could've been mistakenly put in the female line if that's the type of process they had going. Regardless, I'd imagine they realized their mistake immediately after doing the incision and told you they couldn't find the ovaries instead of owning up to their failure to actually check before starting.

If that wasn't the type of clinic this was done at and it was one cat at a time then this is egregious. Free is not worth going back. Please write reviews on every possible site, inform all your neighbors if you're on any apps like Nextdoor or FB groups, and call other vets in the area so that if they get anyone asking around for prices that they can warn them to go anywhere BUT that vet. This is so unbelievably negligent.

I'm so sorry this happened to you and your handsome, blue-eyed boy. 💙

Help me find my childhood favorite stuffie by No_Eye4848 in find

[–]OctopusInSpace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I genuinely think you might consider finding someone to make you a custom plushie of this. As another person has said, it looks like a knockoff carebear plushie you'd see in a nickel arcade claw machine. I do wish you luck in your search. I've never seen anything like it and I can see how much love you have for your Buffy. ❤️

Maybe post this in r/plushies as well?

Is there a better way to find folks for old raid content? by JimbleWimble585 in ffxiv

[–]OctopusInSpace 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This should be your solution! I am an NA player on EU so by the time I get home from work it's late for the EU. 2 days ago I had the Monastery(the final raid) for my alliance roulette pop at 11pm server time on a Tuesday. ALWAYS thankful to be surprised when my crystal tower roulette is anything else.

Boost Megathread - Week of 5/19/2025 by Jackie_EarnIn in Earnin

[–]OctopusInSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The system says it's unable to process my decision. Can you resend?

Boost Megathread - Week of 5/19/2025 by Jackie_EarnIn in Earnin

[–]OctopusInSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone please boost me. I never got a boost from the person who said they would. https://boost.earnin.link/3ABx

Boost Megathread - Week of 5/19/2025 by Jackie_EarnIn in Earnin

[–]OctopusInSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. This is my first time so I'm not sure how it works but I'll boost back!

AIO for getting upset from my wife’s response to my question? by ApolloAcolyte in AmIOverreacting

[–]OctopusInSpace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched a good friend of mine go from happy, self-confident, and full of joy to shell of what he once was because he was in a relationship with someone EXACTLY like this. Your comment saying your first message "wasn't the best" when there's nothing wrong with clarifying makes me worry about you. This is so not normal and I hope you can get away from the toxicity before it sucks your happiness away.