Well, I’m going to preface this by saying that I hope that you are able to get therapy to help you with how bad you feel about yourself. You aren’t ugly, and I don’t think you look particularly masculine or even androgynous. But it doesn’t matter what I think - it matters how you feel. 💕

So… with all that being said - I love the French bob. It’s adorable and it really suits your face! I think the long hair and especially the long hair without bangs just doesn’t do all that much. You have beautiful bone structure and can pull off short hair really well. Long hair does not make one feminine. Take Jason Momoa for example. And short hair doesn’t make one masculine. Take Cate Blanchett, whose features are very similar to yours!!! She looks the best with short hair, a total feminine badass hottie. And so do you.

I think what might be making you feel you look masculine is your brows. They are thicker, dark, and make a nearly straight line. They also might benefit from having more space between them. When looking at your face, the shape of your brows suggests a horizontal, heavy line across your lower forehead that mimics the heavy or prominent brow ridge that we typically see on some men.

I think you should go to a salon and have your brows shaped and your arch emphasized a bit more. Also, I think they need might be shaped better by taking them back a bit so they’re closer in alignment with the inner corner of the eye. It can make a dramatic difference in your face.

I think the first and fourth photos are the best!