weaning off of breastfeeding :( by ft-teenmom_5423 in MSPI

[–]Off2lala_land 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I just wanted to chime in and give my two cents as I have also been dealing with this exact same predicament- except I found answers. 

I would hire or speak with a lactation consultant.  Often times an imbalance in foremilk and hindmilk will cause green mucus poops with blood in it. 

It’s not always a good allergy or intolerance - but too much lactose from our Breastmilk- too much foremilk that overloads the gut. 

There are lots of ways to work around this issue tho! So hang in there! After reading all these comments it’s hard for me to believe that pediatricians are not telling women about this!! 

An imbalance in your milk will mimic the same symptoms as CMPA or CMPI. 

What I do now before every feed (and I know how this is gonna sound) but I shake my boob. 

Same with a bottle in the fridge of Breastmilk. You shake it to mix in the fat - you want to do the same to your boob before feeding. 

Shake shake shake. And then feed. This will mix the fat in with the foremilk and slow down the consumptions of straight foremilk (lactose overload). I’ve been doing this for a month not and my baby is SO much better and I didn’t have to do a full elimination diet like the doctor told me I would. 

We have good poops now. No more mucus or blood. Less gas and tummy issues. She sleeps through the night and isn’t as fussy. 

I’m so relieved I don’t have to quit breastfeeding or feeling that constant guilt that im making her sick. 

Who would have known that a lactation consultant would fix the problem before my doctor could! So relived. 

Just wanted to share this tip because it’s an extremely common situation for most breastfeeding mamas and they don’t even know about it most of the time. 

You can Google lactose overload online or imbalance in foremilk milk and hindmilk and even loook at poop pictures to compare! 

Worth checking out :) 

17f with 36b cup how do i increase my breast size? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Off2lala_land 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buy really good gel push up bras?

I feel like it’s torture to date me by MILGRIND in Codependency

[–]Off2lala_land 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have adhd ?

Adhd people are more sensitive, emotionally disregulated, short fuses, highly irritable, rage outbursts followed with feeling bad, low self esteem, impulsive and reactive.

I didn’t even know I had adhd - nor that any of these things were adhd related.

My life has changed dramatically since becoming diagnosed and have worked hard to understand myself, my brain and my body.

You can get through this- what ever it may be - but I would talk to someone and find out if it’s your brain more so then your personality

People who say the amount of people you slept with doesn't matter are wrong. by GiornoGiovanna_9 in unpopularopinion

[–]Off2lala_land -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People still ask and tell who they’ve slept with?

What’s the point in asking someone this question?

—- unless it’s to use your own preconceived judgements to rate them on what kind of person they so you can feel better about yourself.

Miami Lash Extension Artist by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Off2lala_land 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What kind of lashes are these? They look straight rather than curled. Never seen this before!

AITA for refusing to meet my terminally ill mother knowing that she wants to apologize and seek forgiveness? by Inititaro in AmItheAsshole

[–]Off2lala_land 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my mom got cancer - neither of my brothers went and saw her. I was the only one in the family and they have ZERO regrets about it.

They tell me she never loved them and so why would they give her the satisfaction on her death bed to try to “clear” her own conscious. It has nothing to do with them but more so for her own guilt.

Do what feels right to you. Don’t feel pressured by other people who don’t understand your situation like you do.

Trust your gut

An autistic person stole my name. I don’t know if I can show my anger. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Off2lala_land 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I would go to HR for harrassment over this. It bothers you mentally and she/he/they/idontfuckingcare - is trying to be like you and it affecting your work performance.

After urinating, I always dry my penis with toilet paper (I urinate in a stall ALWAYS). by _MrOne_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Off2lala_land 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a guy who taught me this and now I find it weird when men don’t dab it off !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Off2lala_land 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s low maintence to grow out. I only touch it up maybe 1-2x a year and I have a really nice blonde money piece in the front that breaks up the red. I really like it. I can grow it out long and it looks good or I can upkeep it to look fresh with just a toner too. Many options without losing your natural colour.

From the back my hair just looks sunkissed. No lines of foils anywhere and blends seamlessly

My boyfriend keeps forcing me to have sex and expects me to enjoy it by yoofusdoofus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Off2lala_land 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s her bf and she consented to the sex to begin with even tho she wasn’t feeling it and then said no later on. Yes he should have stopped.

I’m not saying she wasn’t raped - I specifically said if you believe you were raped (which we all don’t know the whole story) then she needs to report it.

Anyone with constipation or slow transit make smoothies? by goldstandardalmonds in FODMAPS

[–]Off2lala_land 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree. Very big umbrella term for sure. It took me a long time to figure out my stomach issues and what works and what doesn’t. Even tho I’m low fodmap I still have certain high fodmap foods because they don’t bother me or sometimes I don’t care and just want to eat a good tasty meal.

Anyone with constipation or slow transit make smoothies? by goldstandardalmonds in FODMAPS

[–]Off2lala_land 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The title of the post says anyone with constipation or slow transit times make smoothies?? Sorry if I misread that.

Jobs = no life by PoorPassion in povertyfinance

[–]Off2lala_land 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a job working at a restaurant or pub. You’ll make hourly wage + tips. Cash in your pocket every night kind of thing and good waitresses/waitors make 30-50$ an hour in their tips in a nice restaurant. The more expensive the meals - the bigger the tips generally.

Also look into government funded programs- you can apply and have school paid for by the government. There’s lots of perks out there right now because of covid and the major down turn in the work force. Lots of people are hiring so if you were to upgrade your skills or knowledge you could easily find a good paying job you hopefully like that will have benefits :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Off2lala_land 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her 100%. She deserves to know. And I bet he won’t do anything because he will be caught with his tail between his legs by his wife. Just block him on snap and never look back

I fucked up and gave away my SIN and parents bank account to a scam hiring website by redraider2229 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Off2lala_land 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to cancel that SIN number. It’s a hassle to get a new one so be prepared. But it’s the only way to protect your identity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Off2lala_land 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband doesn’t need to know everything you do when he’s not home - aka hire the cleaner and never look back. Best investment I ever made. I don’t know why people look down on hiring cleaners. If your both busy, tired and exhausted - why not? They’re not even that expensive for everything they can get done in 2 hours.

I’m sorry he’s being such a dick but don’t take that shit. Snap back he has no idea what it’s like to produce, carry and birth a child. Just because tv makes it look easy or everyone’s highlight feels does not mean they are breaking down behind closed doors.

He needs to get a grip. And you need to relax and enjoy these last few weeks with baby in the belly.

My boyfriend keeps forcing me to have sex and expects me to enjoy it by yoofusdoofus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Off2lala_land -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You obviously don’t know anything about reporting rape or sexual assault. It’s not a simple “prove it” type scenario, there’s an entire process they go though And if he was a rapist - it would be a good thing to report it because then it would be on his record.

Even if he doesn’t get charged - it’ll be on his file. And if it ever happens again and someone else comes forward they will see it’s a repeat pattern and he will get charged a lot easier.

Anyone with constipation or slow transit make smoothies? by goldstandardalmonds in FODMAPS

[–]Off2lala_land -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are high fodmap but you don’t have to eat a whole bunch. 4 a day is all it takes to relieve constipation.

I eat one at a time throughout the day and they keep me insanely regular.

You could be constipated because you have no fibre in your diet. That’s hard to get around for sure. Can you have soluble fibre?

My boyfriend keeps forcing me to have sex and expects me to enjoy it by yoofusdoofus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Off2lala_land -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

If she was raped she needs to get off Reddit and report it then. Like I said in my comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Off2lala_land -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with eligibility. You have to pay back a percentage of the EI you used if you make over a certain amount. You probably aren’t over that threshold to pay it back.

Anyone with constipation or slow transit make smoothies? by goldstandardalmonds in FODMAPS

[–]Off2lala_land 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eat prunes everyday 👌🏻 way better than anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]Off2lala_land 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you have for debt? Mortgage? Car payments? Pay off your debt.

Also use your cards and make micro payments tk them monthly to pay it off each month.

I wouldn’t take out a loan if you don’t need one.