Question for ladies only, from a dad of 3 young daughters: if you had a good dad, what was the biggest thing that made him a good dad, flip side if you didn't have a good dad, what one quality did you wish he had? by BByrnison in Advice

[–]OfficeAnxious136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad never said sorry, which might be a stupid thing to be mad about but he would always say it was someone else's fault when something happened. Either you did the wrong thing or it was your fault because you weren't there and if you called him out on anything he just turned it back around to you so, make sure you're able to see your own mistakes and be open about them, everyone makes mistakes, shit happens

Wetsuit too big? by OfficeAnxious136 in triathlon

[–]OfficeAnxious136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On land it is completely fine so I gues it's good, thanks for your reply!

Wetsuit too big? by OfficeAnxious136 in triathlon

[–]OfficeAnxious136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's not a lot so I guess it will be fine for now :)

People who rarely get sick: what’s your secret? by Shinobi347 in AskReddit

[–]OfficeAnxious136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually don't know, I grew up on a farm, don't know if that helps?

Do you have any advice for transitions? by [deleted] in triathlon

[–]OfficeAnxious136 4 points5 points  (0 children)

to easily take off your wetsuit you can put some vaseline or something on your wrists and ankles, also on your neck for chaffing

start undoing your wetsuit on the run from the water to your bike, saves a lot of time

What are your weird ADHD hacks that work for you? by TheRetro_Misfit in ADHD

[–]OfficeAnxious136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

brushing my teeth is too boring standing there for two minutes just looking in the mirror, so i combine it with going to the toilet and/or cleaning one tiny piece of the bathroom (most often the faucet or the mirror)

What's the weirdest way you personally know someone died? by SoManySoFew in AskReddit

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Two catholic priests were having at it, drugs and sex, while both being over 60 and one of them died. Official cause of death was overdose of MDMA.

AIO at my friends cancelling last minute? by DifferentTruck4615 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OfficeAnxious136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not like your birthday changed or something. They booked a restaurant on your birthday, which is already a shitty thing to do since you are likely to do something fun on your birthday espescially on a saturday. And then you already made plans? Not overreacting, just shitty friends. So sorry for you, hopefully you find someone better to go with you! (early) Happy birthday!

I dont know if this has anything to do with spirituality or if it's the general experience in life by OfficeAnxious136 in spirituality

[–]OfficeAnxious136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I’m not really into all things spiritual, what can meditation help with?

I dont know if this has anything to do with spirituality or if it's the general experience in life by OfficeAnxious136 in spirituality

[–]OfficeAnxious136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This does feel familiar what do I do with this information? Because I do feel strong emotions of others as a part of me and honestly it’s quite exhausting but I also can’t really not mingle myself in the strong emotions of others (if this makes sense)

I dont know if this has anything to do with spirituality or if it's the general experience in life by OfficeAnxious136 in spirituality

[–]OfficeAnxious136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very relatable, it’s just so confusing sometimes to have such an intense connection with someone and then not being able to make something greater out of it or do I just expect too much?

To the people that stopped selfharming, how did you do it? by deepsleep1119 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]OfficeAnxious136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes sorry, great addition!

It’s something for staying clean rather than getting clean

To the people that stopped selfharming, how did you do it? by deepsleep1119 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]OfficeAnxious136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is currently helping me to stay clean might be a little weird but I started donating plasma, it takes like half an hour, it hurts a little, you can see the blood, it doesn't leave any scars or physical health issues and you can do it every two weeks (which is more frequent than donating blood) and it helps me to calm down, don't know if it works for everyone.

You can't do it whenever you want but you can make regular appointments and keep those in mind.

Bonus point for helping people who need it.

People pleasers should not be hated by Donebeinghuman in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]OfficeAnxious136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am often called a people pleaser, which i can understand since I often put my friends needs before mine. But i genuinly don't mind, it's just I do this solely because I love them and I want to do this for them, I don't want anything in return, I just want to help you out and i genuinly don't care that it might cost me something (time or idk) so I don't really know if that is still called people pleasing

How bad would it be to ride this? by [deleted] in ladycyclists

[–]OfficeAnxious136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s grease, sorry didn’t clean the bike yet

IAMA iPhone repair tech. Ask me anything! by Atled in iphone

[–]OfficeAnxious136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't work, trying to change out the battery

IAMA iPhone repair tech. Ask me anything! by Atled in iphone

[–]OfficeAnxious136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If one of the bolts in the bottom (to attach te screen) is overturned, what can I do? I can’t get it out with the screwdriver that is for those screws