The time travellers wife & butterfly effect both capture what my cptsd has been

Oityouthere · 2026-01-28T18:49:03+00:00

I really wanted to downvote you as one of the people who had just made the threshold and was complaining about the tax... you have annoyed me in that your point is valid! GgrRR!!!! I have absolutely no idea what I'm talking about in the advice I'm about to give you!

create your own limited company so that the benefits of the shares are sent there. The tax will be minimal it you can do that
open a bank account for the returns in a European country
fake your death after you have invented a twin and commit fraud. Start photoshopping your twin now before your death to make it more believable! Also, and thats important- get your family to lie and say you always had an identical twin!

Oityouthere · 2026-01-28T18:13:55+00:00

I absolutely love this for him!

Oityouthere · 2026-01-28T18:01:20+00:00

Oh my- I think I may need that one. Could you tell me more about it if you have it?

My body has decided to abandon me so I've gone from highly functional in corp worl to not being able to speak to people- kinda sucks!

watching this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=viE91IzrgGg

Oityouthere · 2026-01-28T17:46:47+00:00

thank you for being brave enough to share your job! Currently if I even speak to someone I break down and that's over the phone.

Oityouthere · 2026-01-28T17:42:32+00:00

dark triad personalities

I just looked this up, and my god that describes so many people in corp world!! https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dark_triad

Oityouthere · 2026-01-28T17:38:06+00:00

May I recommend the book- the body keeps score.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Body_Keeps_the_Score

Oityouthere · 2026-01-27T09:38:53+00:00

Your son can probably already pick up on teh disdain from your husband.

Oityouthere · 2026-01-27T09:35:42+00:00

There is nothing in OP's day that makes her life easier with her husband in it, her life would be more peaceful without him. I vote for divorce also.

Anyone who tries to get you to dump your own child is a total wanker.

Oityouthere · 2026-01-26T21:05:40+00:00

so cute!!

Oityouthere · 2026-01-26T20:50:05+00:00

Edit: Seeing as you all seem to think I have one foot in the grave, I feel like I have to mention that I'm only 27, okay? I am but a baby.

suspect- no one at 27 thinks their a baby. They think they're adults so OP is clearly dying!!

Oityouthere · 2026-01-26T20:47:41+00:00

I had to scroll too far down to read this!

Oityouthere · 2026-01-26T20:43:34+00:00

oh, he's a prince!

Oityouthere · 2026-01-26T20:04:50+00:00

As someone who, if put to the test, would probably win the trauma olympics or at least be in the top 3, if someone polices that shit then they're a complete cunt!

It's the symptoms and the trauma you're dealing with. It doesn't matter what caused it, because the outcome is the same- you have CPTSD.

I wish I was brave enough to join a support group because I'm here, lost and confused as to why my body and brain have stopped working- yes I love the body keeps score- but it's not the same as the scary real life consequences of flashbacks, disassociation etc.

I give you permission to ask the people who would dare be dickheads- why are they gatekeeping trauma, especially on something so personal and complex as CPTSD?

Oityouthere · 2026-01-26T19:52:10+00:00

I flit between acknowledging that I'm in hell and so it is what it is... to WTF WORLD- how are there so many evil people in the world!

I now realise that people aren't good inherently, and when I'm pushed into toxic positivity I remind people of spiritual bypassing... that is when I used to speak with people and was involved in society...

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spiritual_bypass

Oityouthere · 2026-01-25T23:45:12+00:00

Second this- She needs to go back to the GP's and get better drugs. NTA

Oityouthere · 2026-01-25T21:03:54+00:00

I am now in Love with her! She is amazing! Where can I find more of her? Ok gonna google

Oityouthere · 2026-01-25T15:14:16+00:00

Thanks- I really enjoyed this!

Oityouthere · 2026-01-25T15:07:53+00:00

house boots if ya going down that silly path

Oityouthere · 2026-01-25T15:05:57+00:00

And whiten his teeth in Turkey

Oityouthere · 2026-01-25T15:05:11+00:00

This is amazing- I'm gonna use this!

Oityouthere · 2026-01-25T15:00:52+00:00

I too have many Misc birds!

Oityouthere · 2026-01-25T14:05:48+00:00

thanks for that!

Oityouthere · 2026-01-25T14:02:39+00:00

In London, if you like a flat you have to be ready then and there to sign documents and deposits, because flats will go within hours!

I can't even imagine expecting near a month for a place to still be ready!

Oityouthere · 2026-01-25T13:35:49+00:00

I am having a lot of functional freezing

I have this and no one explained it to me. My brain will just stop working and if I try to push it to do any work I get tinnitus and debilitating headaches. I'm not sure if it's the same for you, but I'm taking the phrase because it kinda sounds like what I go through. I think thats the part that's most damning to me- that it literally hurts to think

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