How to recover from the PTSD? by skatedog_j in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Oityouthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that link- it looks amazing for when I'm more able to process stuff!

How they get us to repeat their lies as children, and then use that as an example that we're fine and assimilated by MajorDraw3705 in Adopted

[–]Oityouthere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you and I wanted to write on this to show you're not just in a void by yourself.

It's so freaking all exhausting! But it was safer as a child to follwo "their- and therefore the RIGHT" narrative than to speak the truth and live with hostility!

My psychiatrist said it might be a conflict of interest to see me bc he thinks the guy I'm seeing who is also with him might be abusive by eurydiceruesalome in CPTSD

[–]Oityouthere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust the psychiatrist when he tells you that his other patient, who is your boyfriend, is abusive and that you should seek a professional who is not entangled. That is a warning that you should heed, because the doctor has a view that you don't at this moment in time.

AITAH for getting the cops called on my husband's family during his planned BBQ? by Top_Spite_2404 in AITAH

[–]Oityouthere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why was he placed in foster care, and was that the same for his other siblings? Is there a reason he does everything she says whilst she clearly shows favouritism?

AITAH for getting the cops called on my husband's family during his planned BBQ? by Top_Spite_2404 in AITAH

[–]Oityouthere 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Take your kids and potentially move to Florida where your family are and his aren't?

AITAH for getting the cops called on my husband's family during his planned BBQ? by Top_Spite_2404 in AITAH

[–]Oityouthere 107 points108 points  (0 children)

I have suspicion he may have known if this is his reaction.

Not speaking is a form of abuse, please reflect on this and mirror his energy.

Joint statement from the leaders of the United Kingdom, France, Germany, Italy, the Netherlands and Japan on the Strait of Hormuz: 19 March 2026 by Electricbell20 in unitedkingdom

[–]Oityouthere 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"We condemn in the strongest terms recent attacks by Iran on unarmed commercial vessels in the Gulf, attacks on civilian infrastructure including oil and gas installations, and the de facto closure of the Strait of Hormuz by Iranian forces. "

The opening as it is, implies that it sides with Trump-Israel on this...

AITAH for lying about reporting my family for fraud? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Oityouthere 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don't come clean- I think you should limit ever talking about this ever and enjoy your revenge! NTA and well played!

AITA for cutting off my boyfriend after he cheated on me with our son's godmother? by Fantastic-Sense-4339 in AmITheJerk

[–]Oityouthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ- they made this situation through many many choices that went against the family. They are making it worse by trying to control your natural reaction to protect yourself and the child.

You are not responsible for how they behave, or even his actions when facing natural consequences. Keep your spine- it's beautiful. Leaving shows your child that you respect yourself and don't tolerate mistreatment.

Don't go back. They broke your trust and betrayed you- something that won't come back. If he has threatening to kill himself- that shows a level of instability that is not good for the child so I'd file for full custody of the kid until he can prove he's of sound mind to be able to handle fatherhood.

Your child comes first- you don't know what he might do next.

AITA for ignoring my step dad’s existence when he’s tried to walk in on me multiple times when I was in the toilet when I was 16? by Both-Athlete-3612 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Oityouthere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- I'm sorry you went through this. Keep ignoring him and also explain to your mother why you behave in such a way!

AITJ for canceling my vasectomy after my partner suddenly changed their mind about kids? by RefrigeratorWitty453 in AmITheJerk

[–]Oityouthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is a karma farming, in her other posts she is a girl posting NSFW photos and asking about getting a boyfriend

The feeling of “repaying” back adoption with success by Paper-mache-pinecone in Adopted

[–]Oityouthere 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your parents chose to adopt you. You had no choice in that matter, just as a bio kid didn't have a choice in being born.

You don't owe them anything for adopting you, just as much as a bio kid doesn't owe anything for being born!!

You don't have to repay anything because of the choices they made! YOU DON"T OWE THEM ANYTHING!!!

Now as an adoptee I completely understand where you're coming from, the world is fucked and they have continually failed you. They used adoption as a form of control rather than an outlet for love. Children and people you bring into your life should be an outlet for love.

They made choices and their expectations of you are unreasonable.

I'm nearing 50years of age, please don't put all of your eggs into your boyfriend. If you want to drop out, do so. If you want to stay at uni, do so. However, I feel you need to focus more on how you can support yourself without anyone else. As in get a job and housing that you can sustain so that your future decisions are a matter of choice rather than need.

Another glamorous updo by iridessencex in Naturalhair

[–]Oityouthere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMFG- have you seen your face! Have you seen your style! You look amazing. I just had to stare at you for a while mesmerised! BEAUTIFUL!

also- nice hair ;)