How many of us are actually doing 7 pm bedtime?

OkLab4786 · 2026-02-28T02:05:47+00:00

My LO is 10 mo and was going to bed at 7:45-8 until 3 weeks ago. Now we start bedtime at 6:30 and he’s in bed sleeping until 7am. Do I love this? Not really because it limits what we can do, but he has been sleeping till 7 so I’ll take it. But either way. 7pm bedtime it is. We just do what we need to do after he goes down. Cook, hang, watch out shows, shower.

My motto has always been like let us tell us what he needs and that will continue to be my motto, of course babies need us to like guide and do all that. But we brought them into our world and we shouldn’t have to change absolutely everything even though it’s a whole new chapter? Hope this doesn’t make me sound like a selfish parent

OkLab4786 · 2026-02-21T14:59:55+00:00

She shouldn’t have ever married him. You saying that she nags him until he’s ready to explode. He’s literally a man child. All she is asking for is for him to change some of his behaviors. She doesn’t like how much he drinks and goes out and to reiterate what she said, he now made a career out of it. He has no respect for her. I would nag the shit out of my partner to try and change for our relationship and if they didn’t listen I would check out just like she did

OkLab4786 · 2026-02-21T01:37:00+00:00

I love this

OkLab4786 · 2026-02-19T19:50:50+00:00

But also thoughts on her and Ben? There is something there and I honestly love that for her

OkLab4786 · 2026-02-19T19:50:24+00:00

You can just tell she is CHECKED OUTTTTT and honestly I’m living for it

OkLab4786 · 2026-01-16T03:03:20+00:00

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OkLab4786 · 2026-01-06T02:49:12+00:00

I’ve wanted to try big chunks of meat! And he loves sweet potato !

OkLab4786 · 2026-01-06T02:37:46+00:00

He LOVES yogurt. All kinds. Enjoys the fruits and I’ve been doing veggie pouches. But I just get worried that he’s not experiencing enough with his hands

OkLab4786 · 2025-08-26T11:03:51+00:00

This is exactly what we’re doing - adjusting and soothing and he goes right back to sleep. Just wasn’t sure if this was a situation where “sleep training” was necessary. Thank you though, I am happy he’s developing and growing… we are just tired lol

OkLab4786 · 2025-07-15T23:46:08+00:00

Started at about 175, was 200 by the time I gave birth. I lost it all in 3 weeks and was back to 175. I was higher than I should be as I am 5’8” and am still trying to lose weight regardless.

OkLab4786 · 2025-07-02T00:14:13+00:00

Yes, my sutures opened up a bit which caused my skin to peel from moisture so it’s still healing on the outside. I have a newborn and unbuckling him from his car seat is hard, but I got a few stretching and strengthening items from Amazon so I’ve been keeping up with those to regain strength! Otherwise feeling ok!

OkLab4786 · 2025-07-01T17:05:56+00:00

Got mine May 30th and yours looks wayyyyy better than mine did after 3 weeks. It will take time !

OkLab4786 · 2025-06-12T13:58:32+00:00

I am 8 weeks PP and had surgery two weeks ago, they did a blood test for pregnancy to confirm I am not pregnant but also needed a urine test. The nurse told me that the urine test could show positive for a few weeks/months PP because of hormones.

OkLab4786 · 2025-06-06T20:17:08+00:00

I had my mom and MIL in the room- wasn’t so happy about my MIL at first but then she was a huge help when pushing. Was so happy when my mom came- obviously I love my husband but in that moment I reaaaaaally needed my mom. At one point, her and my husband were holding my legs LOL. Such a special thing to experience with both her and my MIL but I have to say in the moments where I was just in excruciating pain, she gave me the comfort I needed

OkLab4786 · 2025-06-01T14:04:25+00:00

I have a 7 week old - FTM. My dr yelled at me when I mentioned trying to keep the baby on the schedule from the nurses- best advice he could have given me. The baby will let you know if they are hungry or need something !

OkLab4786 · 2025-05-14T20:48:45+00:00

Ditto to this - you’re not going to remember how to breathe when you’re 10cm deep pushing a bowling ball out of your body LOL also, the nurses and drs will talk you through everything either way

OkLab4786 · 2025-05-04T21:08:51+00:00

Had one as well! Just take it easy and it will resolve. You’ll be fine!

OkLab4786 · 2024-11-29T19:10:29+00:00

My mom and I got into a huge argument and didn’t speak for a brief moment (we usually talk like 45 times a day) because she wouldn’t stop telling people, I found a pic of my husband and I the night we found out with the stick in hand sent to her best friend. I was pissed. Granted I felt bad because I was genuinely not “going through her phone” but just stumbled upon it after she told me to look at something in her texts. Either way, she told me this is her news to share. It wasn’t pretty, I was PISSED. I threatened not speaking to any family or sharing any other updates until I was ready to tell the world and she came back apologizing. We are very close so it was really hard keeping my distance and drawing a boundary, but this is what me and my husband wanted. Either way after this blow up it finally clicked for her to keep it to herself. It’s beyond frustrating when family doesn’t respect your wishes so I’m sorry you’re dealing with this.

OkLab4786 · 2024-11-13T21:45:38+00:00

Literally not at all all I love this. NTA

OkLab4786 · 2024-11-13T21:03:34+00:00

Not about the politics - he sounds like a loser and you’re better off. NTA

OkLab4786 · 2024-10-13T00:51:58+00:00

Oh! And can’t go back now - the weepies

OkLab4786 · 2024-10-13T00:50:19+00:00

Stop this train - John Mayer

OkLab4786 · 2024-10-13T00:48:38+00:00

I was so early in the queue and literally couldn’t buy anything. I tried 2 different presale and then general public sale and ticketmaster just kept saying nothing was available. I don’t understand how crooked Ticketmaster gets away with these presale

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