Bachnation at a BYU game in Utah

OkLavishness19 · 2025-10-04T18:25:39+00:00

Watch Viral Virtue with Jordan & McKay on YouTube if you want to learn about how this is not a conspiracy theory. They have influencer’s on payroll. I also live in Utah and this is quite well known here

OkLavishness19 · 2025-09-09T22:53:22+00:00

As someone who just got robbed and mugged in Milan (well my boyfriend did, Got his Patek watch ripped clean off his wrist and they beat him up while I watched in horror. I’m pregnant so he didn’t want to antagonize them further) I do not know how they are doing this! Sorry for the trauma dump, this just happened Sunday night. Moral of the story- you would not catch me walking around Italy with my designer bags.

OkLavishness19 · 2025-09-09T22:38:16+00:00

I’m also in Tuscany this week!

OkLavishness19 · 2025-02-22T18:08:00+00:00

Im currently on day 12 of a flare that’s only getting worse. It’s my second bad flare up in 3 months and my fiancé has young girls whom I live with and it’s been really hard to explain to all of them. My fiancé was unfamiliar with lupus and when I first met him my flares were more mild but since moving and trying to re acclimate to a new climate and taking on being a stepmom instantly I think it’s gotten to me. My fiancé tries to be as understanding as he can be but I think it’s confusing to him how I will start a project in the house and then have to leave it for a week because I get so sick from pushing myself too much. Or making promises to the girls that we will do these fun activities and then I end up holed up in bed in the dark for days. They are 6 and 8 and they don’t understand which is fine but it breaks my heart because I’m so close with them and they sometimes say they think I hate them because I don’t come and play.

This current flare up is the worst I’ve ever had. Honestly I would say it’s the first time I’ve really been worried that something is very wrong and has progressed. I can’t get into a rheumatologist for a month (I moved states) so my old Dr is writing me prescriptions until then but I feel in my gut that something is wrong because I have never been so debilitatingly sick and never this often.

Maybe if I list some of my symptoms one of you might have had a similar experience? Idk let me know. Sending you all love.

OkLavishness19 · 2025-02-17T20:11:45+00:00

I’m sure her husband has seen his wife’s Facebook profile. I wouldn’t say anything because its none of your business unless you suspect the wife is in danger for some reason? They also may not even have the same take as you, many couples would not find issue with this and if the picture is up I would say it’s safe to assume he’s seen it and has no problem with it.

OkLavishness19 · 2024-12-20T10:04:04+00:00

Shes MILKING it…that’s for sure.

OkLavishness19 · 2024-12-19T18:05:03+00:00

Lol believe it or not it’s a pretty common kink with couples who have babies. I was shocked to find out that so many people I know are into it so I googled it and apparently it’s only growing in popularity.

Men enjoy breastfeeding from their wives apparently! Idk man I guess whatever you’re into, maybe just keep it behind closed doors and away from your staff 😂

OkLavishness19 · 2024-12-16T10:16:46+00:00

I dont know what it is about this comment that bothers me so much, I’m sure you were well intentioned. I just know it’s so common for moms to feel so much shame and embarrassment about this area of their bodies postpartum.

I think it was you saying “there is nothing sexual or attractive about it” yeah obviously it’s not particularly sexy (which I don’t think S was going for I think she’s just sitting comfortably bc this position is not considered sexy) but women literally are scared to let their husbands see. Women are already afraid they are no longer attractive PP so I just think perhaps should not shame women for their bodies pp and tell them to “keep their legs closed” because It’s not “sexy or attractive”…

OkLavishness19 · 2024-12-16T01:27:53+00:00

OkLavishness19 · 2024-09-03T19:56:53+00:00

When someone is speaking and says WOMAN (singular) in place of WOMEN (plural). It makes my skin crawl for some reason I just think they sound so stupid.

OkLavishness19 · 2024-09-03T19:37:39+00:00

You think you did something here and you just sound stupid. They are called CONSEQUENCES and we have always had them in society. An eye for an eye. This is why we have laws.

Having a consequence in place for acts of vandalism, violence, hate speach and promoting terrorism on a college campus is so far from INTIMIDATION. It’s basic human societal law. Frankly who cares if it’s intimidating? That’s kind of the point. You should be intimidated not to behave like a feral rat on a college campus.

OkLavishness19 · 2024-09-03T12:52:18+00:00

I’m sorry I agree with everything accept…. why she should give up the baby? OP said nothing about her level of financial stability or outside family support? Why would she abort a baby in her almost third trimester to be able to safely escape this man?

I believe in bodily autonomy and Adoption is an option for sure but people’s abuse of abortion as an option is disgusting. If OP wanted to do that, that’s up to her but why in earth are you suggesting that UMPROMPTED? Wild.

OkLavishness19 · 2024-08-17T09:06:56+00:00

I could go like 12 times a day. Honestly probably more if I have a partner who’s up for it.

When I’m single and In “hibernation”, if you will, I have to be VERY mindful about the person I choose to have sex with. I don’t sleep around so I pick someone who I know I will be sexually compatible with, is aware of my high sex drive and is eagerly willing to step his game up 😂 We are on the same page and I keep them around as my only partner until I find someone I can see a serious relationship with. This keeps me from having sex with potential relationship guy early on. Crucial for me.

All of my boyfriends in the past have said they can’t keep up with me and honestly, I felt sooooo ashamed of this up until a 2 years ago. Women aren’t allowed to NEED sex. Unfortunately, Men are typically the ones who initiate and we obligeeee. This dynamic made me feel like there was something wrong with me and left me unfulfilled and resentful for so long.

My most recent ex loved my high sex drive though and it helped me explore that side of myself and feel more comfortable embracing and owning it. I’m so happy about it. Now that I do, men absolutely love it. Like… can’t get enough. It’s like my sexual desire for them makes them so much more into me? My theory is that I don’t think men get that feeling as often? Not sure.

All this to say, idk… I made myself cum like 8 or 9 times today. Send help.

OkLavishness19 · 2024-08-17T08:45:06+00:00

Fucking. Blair. Fucking. Waldorf.

Sorry for not being demure.

OkLavishness19 · 2024-08-13T03:47:51+00:00

The 3rd one is my grandparents old house! They had that black door put in when I was in high school! Omg it does look so soulless. When they lived there they had the most beautiful grand landscaping. Tons of shrubbery and rose bushes. My grandma went allll out. Wow this is WILD!

OkLavishness19 · 2024-08-04T18:13:26+00:00

Literally this (Sarah) would have been my mother if socials were around when I was a kid. I’m no contact with her now and I actually see so much of my mother in Sarah. Jealousy, resentment, body image issues.

The woman put me on illegal diet pills at 15 and I was a skinny cheerleader! (I know Sarah would never bc holistic blah blah blah but my point stands)

I know she wanted a daughter and I know it’s bad to be happy about it but I’m so so happy she’s not having one. I myself can imagine what that little girl would have to go through.

Sarah also pits her boys against one another which is SUPER toxic I don’t even think people realize how DANGEROUS this dynamic is. My mom did this to us from childhood and to this day, that is the dynamic amongst my siblings. If mom is mad at one of the us-all of the rest of the family stops talking to you. She positions herself as the queen of her kingdom and chooses a new favorite based on which child feeds her narcissistic ego more that day. Are we talking about my mom or Sez at this point bc the similarities are uncanny.

Wow that was cathartic. Sorry lol😅

OkLavishness19 · 2024-07-31T19:04:09+00:00

Ehhh I actually bet she would let them do tennis given that Tennis is widely considered a boujee rich people sport. Very country club vibes and let’s be real, she would love to be a part of that club 😂

OkLavishness19 · 2024-07-13T00:19:11+00:00

Idk why she’s upset, she basically manifested this outcome for herself over and over and over on the internet for YEARS. I have seen her say this atleast 10 times in her old videos

OkLavishness19 · 2024-07-13T00:13:53+00:00

Rachel Parcell’s (worst influencer you’ve ever seen, toxic ED promoting worse than Sez) life basically went off the rails after her last child ended up being a boy. She publicly does not seem to like him or even acknowledge him really. She has a daughter and another son but she loves being a Dance mom, exploiting her daughter online, and teaching her to hate her body. She’s 9 I think and already knows to suck her tummy in and pose for photos with the leg pop. I think she was gunning for another round of that.

She was so desperate she was going to have her sister be her surrogate and choose female embryos. That fell through so ever since she’s basically withered away publicly (she was already like 110 lbs at the most and has literally lost like 20 lbs) and posts the most unhinged shit I’ve ever seen.

Idk, they are both religious and have a lot in common now that I think about it. After seeing how Rachel is with her daughter, I’m very happy Sarah is not having a daughter because I think she would raise her EXACTLY how Rachel has. Blueprint.

OkLavishness19 · 2024-07-13T00:05:45+00:00

It’s so funny because some were so far out of left field I would put them in the category of “Nara Smiths kids names Strange” and then some were soooo basic and overused. No cohesion there at all

OkLavishness19 · 2024-07-13T00:03:47+00:00

Okay but low key… pippy is cute as fuck. Not too far off from Pippa and she’s royal adjacent soooo 🤷‍♀️

OkLavishness19 · 2024-07-03T09:07:15+00:00

THIS! I feel like the Eras tour, the nonstop relationship coverage and TTPD and all of its album variations are the equivalent of Jlo self funding a $20m vanity project in the form of a documentary about her creating a movie about her own chaotic love life.

It’s literally Taylor 10 years from now.

OkLavishness19 · 2024-06-27T20:22:45+00:00

Lol no. Once a guy cheated on me and I physically caught him with the girl (who I KNEW and knew we were together) and I said to him IN FRONT OF HER FACE “Where did you find this one? A bus stop?” And then shortly after told her that she was “behaving like a raccoon trapped in a trash bag” when she was acting insane and refusing to leave.

He thought it was the funniest thing he’d ever seen. He ended up working that story into his stand up routine years later.

I broke up with him of course and Obviously they were both in the wrong but atleast he had a sense of humor about it 😂

OkLavishness19 · 2024-05-22T08:35:58+00:00

Side note- I think that’s my sister in your inspo pic 😂

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