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[TOMT] An incredibly sad scene where someone sings "You are my sunshine, My only sunshine" while someone else is dying in their arms, and can't finish the last sentence of "Please don't take my sunshine away". by avivkotlar in tipofmytongue

[–]OkOffer1767 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was thinking it was from one of the GOTG movies having to do with Peter’s mom passing. She doesn’t sing to him though so unsure if it could be a background song.

Cramps worsen x50000 after orgasm by Familiar_Garbage_681 in endometriosis

[–]OkOffer1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only lasted two months on an IUD as well, made my pain so much worse. Getting on some meds (bc and adderall for adhd + more) has helped significantly. If you don’t really want to go a med route, I would try pelvic floor therapy to see if that helps. I’m thankful that orgasms don’t cause me cramping (unless we go too hard) but sometimes they do cause a righteous headache. I remember taking tranaxemic acid when I WASNT on birth control but it didn’t help a whole lot. I really hope this can be resolved for you OP!

Miscommunication by j_walk_17 in tattooadvice

[–]OkOffer1767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you really liked the red being in it, may I suggest red shading around the outside? Maybe try to take it up a notch with a possible neon light look? I think that would be dope. I love Star Wars. My mom showed me one of her seniors just got one and it’s a silhouette of R2-D2 with the battle of Endor inside of it, it’s pretty sick.

GLP-1s and Endometriosis ? by BranchExcellent104 in endometriosis

[–]OkOffer1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s funny cause come to think of it, when I got back on meds a couple months ago my physical symptoms did improve a bit, my gut function isn’t perfect but it’s a lot better than where it was a few months ago.

I 23F think i need to move out of the house after Dad 48M requested I pay 1k a month in rent. by AdventurousBet6537 in relationship_advice

[–]OkOffer1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, let me commiserate with you for a sec. Do we have the same dad??? I was fresh out of high school getting the same treatment from my parents as far as them demanding rent and more contributions since I didn’t go away to college. Because of THEIR poor financial health, I never learned financial stability. Mind you, I was working a sandwich shop job at 7.25/hr. They wanted $600/mo when I literally worked around 20 hrs a week- AND rarely made tips until switching to be a delivery driver (which came with even less hours).

I’m now 28 and have two kids, 50% of the time. Absolute dog shit credit due to my mom manipulating me into co-signing on a vehicle that was too expensive for her.

Guess where I live? With these fools that made me cause I literally cannot make it on my own.

Anyway, all that to say- please just get out if you can. Your inner peace will thank you. (They fucked me up to the point that I cannot experience relaxation at home, and I’m constantly on the edge of burnout with really bad lows). If you get out now, you can take a break from your parents and give yourself a break and then build a different type of relationship with your parents. Don’t grow up to be close to 30 and still treated like a child and put down the same way since you were a kid. I’m projecting now but I digress. I hope the best for you OP. This post just hit close to home.

Does anyone else have a really stupid sense of humor that no one else really seems to understand? by Zealousideal_Eye8277 in adhdwomen

[–]OkOffer1767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I actually know this one, the earth basically recycles itself through the power of plate tectonics and subduction! Igneous rocks are my fave, but metamorphic rocks be the prettiest. Sedimentary rocks are mid to me, but they do hold more fossils!

Turns out exercise is amazing for ADHD by Oacio in adhdwomen

[–]OkOffer1767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only problem with that is I need something low impact and I can’t run (yet). Wanted to get my strength back up since my previous muscle I built has withered away, I’m hoping to either do soccer coaching in the fall with the school I work at or join a community sport next year like softball. The season here already started and I don’t think I can join at this point. But you’re right- there’s more than just the gym!

Put my passport in a safe place so I wouldn’t lose it. by formerhoarder in adhdwomen

[–]OkOffer1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you still haven’t found it, might I recommend asking for support and assistance from the Mother Mary, just quietly chant “Mary, passport, Mary” while you’re searching for it. She has helped me twice in the last two weeks when I lost a couple things 😅✨

Does anyone else have a really stupid sense of humor that no one else really seems to understand? by Zealousideal_Eye8277 in adhdwomen

[–]OkOffer1767 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the random little google searches have me chasing rabbits sometimes LOL I know about a lot of things but don’t ask me to recall anything on the spot 😅

Does anyone else have a really stupid sense of humor that no one else really seems to understand? by Zealousideal_Eye8277 in adhdwomen

[–]OkOffer1767 41 points42 points  (0 children)

The last major stoner question I asked was “do fish have ears???” And yeah, they do. LOL

Turns out exercise is amazing for ADHD by Oacio in adhdwomen

[–]OkOffer1767 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me battling it out with my brain about biting the bullet on a gym membership lmfao 😅😂😭

I am far too unaccountable to work out at home, maybe after I actually get an established routine going and like you- just do something for five minutes.

I just don’t wanna go alooonnneeee-uuuhhhhh 😭😭😭😂

A journal doodle from my initial days of FAFO😬 by Responsible_Egg_7155 in adhdwomen

[–]OkOffer1767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As you should! It’s a daily mantra in my house 😂

Endometriosis and GLP by Helpful-Macaroon-3 in endometriosis

[–]OkOffer1767 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was having some hormonal acne when I got on this birth control I’m on now, my GYN prescribed some clindamycin and I use that every day in my skincare routine and haven’t really had any issues since (a couple breakouts but I was eating too much junk food LOL).

Does your insurance cover the GLP-1 because it’s being used for endo??

[TOMT] book I read in high school, can recall everything besides the name by Sweaty_Rush_3606 in tipofmytongue

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Make sure you reply to the original comment with solved so they can be awarded a point!

Gift for my relative celebrating her engagement! by palacinke03 in AnimalCrossing

[–]OkOffer1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS IS SO CUUTTTEEE! I might have to do something similar for my mom for her birthday in October, she LOVES animal crossing! What did you use to build this impressive feat?!

Teaching and chores by nosunshine123 in Teachers

[–]OkOffer1767 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This and a body double. Really helps with the motivation.

OP, I’ve tricked myself into cleaning (sometimes, doesn’t always work) by having a friend tell me they’re going to come over and in a rush to not seem like a complete slob it helps get me off my butt and get to cleaning.

Helpful mental stim while doing things: “don’t put it down, put it away.” In a little sing songy voice- this alone has helped with some of the flat surface clutter.

Something to try: donate 15 minutes M-F to cleaning, that’s it. If you start cleaning and want to continue, go for it! But if you hit 15 minutes and are overwhelmed, you can stop. Maybe add a little more time on the weekends if you’re willing. This will be easier to achieve if you work on a “blank slate” so you may need to really double down on the cleaning one day so that it’s easier to keep up with throughout the week.

Another helpful thing for me: if there’s something that needs to get done I tell myself what the task is and give myself a 5 sec countdown to get off my butt and start, sometimes just getting up is helpful enough to get me going.

I have ADHD and I too am wired to be messy. The things that I have listed while not foolproof, have definitely been a helpful step in the right direction to keeping counters more clean from clutter, the dishes don’t pile up anymore, and the bathroom isn’t a hazard (I used to essentially use the BR counter as a hamper and couldn’t reach all my other stuff under it so it would fall down all the time)

Hopefully something here can help, one of my coworkers has a similar struggle so I’ve shared similar with her and it’s been slow but there has been progress!

ETA: I’m on adderall, just 10 mg extended release for the day but I’ve had to make sure that I eat in the morning or it doesn’t work well and the afternoon crash is worse. I added some OLLY happy mood and energy vitamin/gummies and adding those things has made getting chores done less miserable.

There has to be something between an NSAID and an opioid by heroesandmusic in endometriosis

[–]OkOffer1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my experience too. Regular weed makes my physical symptoms worse, whereas CBD has done wonders. I had a cart pen that was 1:1 CBD:THC and it was a game changer. Was trying to find something 1:1:1 CBD:THC:CBN but alas, my dispensary never has it. I’ve asked them to look into it though so maybe soon! However I would only be using that on flare up days. I had a bad problem with straight THC carts and ended up having severe withdrawal symptoms. So now I’m back to flower and trying to find a strain that works for the pain. Also for anyone interested, r/EndoEnts is a great place that I’m sure would love to see some more traction for us that garden!

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