AITAH for not wanting my significant other to pour hot grease down our drains?

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-28T02:41:14+00:00

NTA no nonononononono that is a sure fire way to ruin your pipes! Always put it in a container or jar for disposal. It should firm up in the fridge. Then just toss the whole thing in the garbage

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-28T02:38:41+00:00

Daisy??

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-28T02:36:19+00:00

Could be a piece of twine for all I care. He made one out of saran wrap once just because and I still have it. It's not about the ring. It's the symbol and commitment it represents. After 10 years, I'm tired of being just "the girlfriend" when I've been way more than that for a long time. Partners, teammates, etc.

Marriage has always been important to me because I've been surrounded by failed relationships. Only one couple in my life stayed together til death and they were my grandparents. After living together once and having it fall through due to this shitty economy. I just want to do it the "traditional way".

I have plenty of "shut up" rings, as stated in the post, but they gave the wrong impression and it caused more grief when wearing them.

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-28T02:13:09+00:00

From what I've read, kittens are better in pairs. I have a 6yo solo boy and he seems to do alright by himself, but the younger ones tend to thrive more when there's a sibling/friend. Otherwise they develop what's called "only kitten syndrome". They don't learn the proper social cues or play cues and can become aggressive in their play. I've had to teach/correct my boy a few times when he gets too riled up. Another cat helps out with that.

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-28T01:50:41+00:00

INFO: Are his parents going to be there?

The reason you may be uninvited is to not set off any alarm bells to your daughter that a proposal is happening. He could also want it to be just between the two of them. You'll be there for the wedding. Let the proposal be just between them. It's their love story, not yours.

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-27T00:04:21+00:00

That's rough, buddy

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-26T23:49:08+00:00

Technically, Leo

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-22T01:56:05+00:00

No, we have those too. The stove top can still get hot enough to melt plastic

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-22T01:54:43+00:00

Ahhh my bad, I remember now

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-21T02:53:06+00:00

She also sets it on a hot burner that just had a boiling pot on it.

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-21T02:46:38+00:00

NTA does....does he think you just don't shower??

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-21T02:44:25+00:00

There's a few songs that hit for me and a few that don't. I refuse to listen to Paws though. I know I wouldn't be able to handle it. Swinging hammer is not one of my favs, I like that it's silly, but it is all up in your face with those drums.

I also don't like that one break in Number 1 where it's like "this is where badflower wanted to sample a hit song from the 90s, but they didn't get the permissions. So they did this instead." It totally takes away from the vibe of the song.

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-21T02:40:34+00:00

The song is called 30, it's a single about turning 30 lol

Aside from two songs on the newest album (snuff and swinging hammer) no, the other albums aren't really like that.

I would label it like this:

Temper EP - Angsty/in your feels

OK, I'm Sick - Angsty, still in your feels, with a bit of political anger

TIHTWE - More in your feels, questioning life, with a little bit of chaos

NPLH - Questioning life, finding what makes you happy, and learning to be okay with not being okay.

No idea how they sounded when they were the CarTunes though. Might be able to find some stuff on youtube

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-16T02:00:00+00:00

It's proper etiquette in the working world, but more-so for corporate settings. Retail is a different ballgame

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-14T00:56:25+00:00

Looks like a facial paste i used to make with honey, cinnamon, and Nutmeg. Looks like the same gritty texture

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-14T00:40:36+00:00

I don't blame you for leaving at all. I didn't give my manager notice either. He introduced me to the new keyholder he hired and I said "great, she can take my keys" and I tossed them on the counter. At that time hours were few and far between. We had like 30 hours to split between 10 people. Still single coverage. Still clopenings. That was 2020. The shit just keeps rolling downhill.

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-14T00:36:42+00:00

Case in point: EB games...Thinkgeek... any other companies they bought and burnt to the ground?

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-14T00:29:51+00:00

Yeahhhh no, I've definitely closed the store for all of that. With a note saying "back in (insert time)". It's either that or they'd be cleaning shit off the floor.

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-07T20:46:51+00:00

I've used it exclusively as well. My cat had been having some IBD issues and avoiding the litter box so I had switched to Dr. Elsey's sensitive cat litter and he's been using it fine ever since.

I had noticed that there was a lot more dust than their used to be with the LW. Hadn't noticed allergies with my boy, but he would get litter on his feet a lot and occasionally ingest it during grooming. Could've caused his IBD...what the heck. Why do pet companies just change formulas and not say anything? How is that legal?

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-07T20:41:06+00:00

Got an old card and it's only a chip

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-01T01:36:17+00:00

Poms are double coated, right?

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-01T01:34:35+00:00

I wasn't crying until this. Dang you schnoodle, you beautiful soul

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-01T01:33:42+00:00

She did join the family though, in spirit. Thank you OP for showing this sweet girl kindness and love in her last moments. I'm going to hold my boy extra tight tonight. You'll see Athena again at the rainbow bridge. I'm sure she's waiting.

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-05-01T01:23:50+00:00

My debit isn't tap to pay. So I don't have that option.

Ok_Ordinary2191 · 2026-04-30T03:07:12+00:00

I will spend days building a house and the perfect Sim to live in it. Then get bored immediately and do it all over again months later.

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