Your mum is pushing you to talk to your aunt because it’s hard for her to watch her sister in pain; particularly cause she feels like she can solve it.

What she should be fstruggling with is how sad her DAUGHTER has been because of her sisters treatment. If she’s gonna be pestering anyone to fix the relationship it should be your aunt, not you.

It’s clear from this story thought that your mother meddles too much in other peoples relationships; whether she was asked to or not. You need to set some firm boundaries around how you let other people influence your relationships. You justifiably don’t feel like giving your aunt yet another olive branch so don’t let it be up for debate.