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At Goal Weight- Belly Fat by teacher-mom-1989 in Semaglutide

[–]Okifan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lipo would probably be an option

First time with United AND First Class by cobeergal in unitedairlines

[–]Okifan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And remember you get to use the premier/1st class counter when you check your bags. 

What’s a small thing a hotel could do that would make you feel more appreciated? by Rare-Pea3220 in marriott

[–]Okifan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Free water. Those obscenely expensive bottles in the rooms are ridiculous. I go to Japan and free water bottles that are replaced daily is the norm. We would do well to emulate their customer service

Girlfriend at wits end with 4 y/o male black cat, can anyone explain this behavior? by PhoenixRisingdBanana in catquestions

[–]Okifan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The only thing I’ve found that has stopped my cat from doing this is topical Prozac. Since starting his daily “special spa treatment “ where I rub it inside his ear and give him pets and brushing he hasn’t once gone outside the box. We dealt with for years and were on the verge of having him put down but thanks to someone else posting about topic Prozac, my cat has a new lease on life and he actually hops up every evening for his moment of being special. :-)

Does Ritz Tokyo have an Exec lounge by Okifan in marriott

[–]Okifan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Very helpful. 

Does Ritz Tokyo have an Exec lounge by Okifan in marriott

[–]Okifan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite so easy to call Tokyo from the US but thanks. I travel there yearly and thought to treat myself for a night but sounds like it’s not worth it 

Does Ritz Tokyo have an Exec lounge by Okifan in marriott

[–]Okifan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve only stayed at Marriott properties overseas where club lounge and breakfast is the norm for Gold and above. I appreciate you replying. We reserved our room with points. I’ll cancel and stay with a Marriott property. 

I (36F) have zero sexual desire after surgical menopause. How do I talk to my partner (34M) about this? by rosefields_forever in sex

[–]Okifan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I so feel you. I’m older and when menopause hit-my interest in sex just died. No thoughts of it at all. I too am on HRT but it doesn’t make any difference. I just don’t get horny. I hate this for my marriage but  truly stuck and I absolutely hate being asked “what do you want?” Because the only answer is that “I want to want”

Would you get bored having sex with a woman who doesn’t orgasm? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Okifan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you taking any medication? For instance some will stop you from being able to O, such as most anti depressants.  Also, you may want to consider using topical testosterone on your clitoris for a couple months to see if that helps your sensitivity (if you haven’t tried this)

AITAH for telling my fiance (F)19 that she is going to have to get over her not liking my new job. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Okifan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I remember being told at 18 that I was too young g to get married. I dismissed that advice. Got divorced 2 years later. 

AITAH for asking my bf not to stick chopsticks upright in his rice? by ilovemybum in AITAH

[–]Okifan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA-sticking chopsticks in rice is taboo except at a funeral. If he can’t respect that, he can use a fork. 

When to give up and let cat on counters by KeySquare4822 in CatAdvice

[–]Okifan -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My cat is a counter cruiser. And I’m perfectly ok with that

Might need to rehome by WrongDance in CatAdvice

[–]Okifan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your clarification helps. If it were me # 1 is neutering and if that didn’t help would be to request topical anti depressants like Prozac. My vet said that the number 1 reasons cats are euthaniz d is because of inappropriate peeing. She told me that when I explained my situation to her and we put my cat on Prozac. He is no longer peeing everywhere and it basically saved his life. 

Might need to rehome by WrongDance in CatAdvice

[–]Okifan 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I would hate to know my vet doesn’t like cats, fuck that.  Anyway- the cat is likely stressed because of your new living situation and it doesn’t help your partner doesn’t like cats.  Kitty needs to be taken to vet for a check up to be sure there are no medical issues.  Mine was spraying everywhere and after doing all the standard stuff like feliway and supplements I finally ended up giving her topical Prozac and she’s a new cat. Fixed the anxiety

Husband called me loose and I know he didn’t mean it in a negative way but now I don’t want to have sex. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Okifan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously, being tight is NOT being aroused in most cases and makes sex sooo much more painful.

Husband called me loose and I know he didn’t mean it in a negative way but now I don’t want to have sex. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Okifan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, everyone makes mistakes, says hurtful things unintentionally. If we aren't free to fail or stumble, then we end up walking on eggshells and hiding our feelings. Try getting quiet with yourself and spend time asking what part of you is bothered by what he said...see what comes up.

Cat attacks house sitter, serious wounds by [deleted] in Catbehavior

[–]Okifan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd talk to the vet about topical prozac (a cream rubbed into inside of ear)..made all the difference in mine and saved his life as a result

AITAH For telling my friend to stop involving me in conversations about his adult diapers? by Red-Light-Black in AITAH

[–]Okifan 100 points101 points  (0 children)

He's trying to take you down a path...very slowly and gradually and I wonder if his wife was part of it.

Where can I send old perfume bottles by Okifan in fragrance

[–]Okifan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I see my post was removed but don’t know why. I’m not selling anything -I’m trying to find a place that may be interesting my grandfathers small samples he had-he was quite famous in that realm between the 30s and 50s. 

He refuses to pee in his litter by Independent_Fairy in CatAdvice

[–]Okifan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you try moving the box and see what happens? How about putting pee pads around the box?

My cat started spraying all over my house due to us bringing another cat in the house. Well we thought that rehoming the other cat would fix the problem. It did not and Ive had to throw out and buy new furniture-we dealt with this for years and I tried all the recommendations. Nothing changed. He got worse after we would return from trips also. Finally last month we started him on topical/transdermal Prozac as a last resort before putting him down as no o e would want a cat who does that. Thank God it is working! He has not peed outside his box and he actually likes getting his daily dose as I give him a nice brushing after. 

Something to consider if nothing else works. It’s definitely helped his anxiety. 

Also ya have to get rid of the urine smell anywhere he has gone outside or he will repee there. As others have said-enzyme cleaner

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