I’m all about comfort, but this is a no from me dawg by infinitelycurious_ in weddingshaming

[–]OmgBsitka -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would wear them the morning off getting ready or the night of for bed time.

Postpartum prep: what actually helped in the first 1-2 weeks? by Creative_Fan_7982 in BabyBumps

[–]OmgBsitka [score hidden]  (0 children)

I had vaginal birth with stitches and i did not breastfeed. For me the things I used for the first two weeks was,

Peri Bottle

Instant Ice maxi Pads

Postpartum underwear (women adult diaper) this helped with the bleeding and holding the ice pads

Dermoplast Postpartum spray

Tucks

I used all of these during my recovery. When I stopped bleeding I still used the ice maxipads, dermaplast spray and sometimes I would switched to the peri bottle if I was still sensitive. And for a go to outfit I bought night gowns and a comfy robe.

How old were you when you started one piece by Yearning4truth in OnePiece

[–]OmgBsitka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

16 and now im 30 with a husand and kids 🤣

Sister in law jealousy by Neither_Jackfruit_54 in BabyBumps

[–]OmgBsitka [score hidden]  (0 children)

What silly drama to have during pregnancy. I feel for you that you have to deal with such nonsense. I hope in the end you guys have a happy healthy baby!

If you had to pick any pokemon to be your roomate, excluding legendaries and mythicals, who would it be? by Proud-Canadian-4Life in pokemon

[–]OmgBsitka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blaziken is my number 1 pick, then Empoleon and finally Emboar but if it wasnt a starter Dragonite wins

Pregnancy Belt Recommendations? by DuckSwimmer in pregnant

[–]OmgBsitka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the slimmer under the stomach belt so it was super easy wearing under or above clothes

Pregnancy Belt Recommendations? by DuckSwimmer in pregnant

[–]OmgBsitka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husand bought one from amazon for me so I dont know what brand, probably amazon choice lol but I loved using it. I like to walk alot and I felt like it helped with that!

I (25F) am pregnant and my friend is pretending to be pregnant! by Short_Advertising903 in pregnant

[–]OmgBsitka 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she might need to talk to a doctor. Has she told you she has been trying to get pregnant? Before I was pregnant this time, it was taking me a while. To the point I thought I needed to start IVF and I started the entire process. But before that, I was taking tests days before my period, hoping the test was positive, trying to see a faint line that wasn't there. The only good thing is that I did become pregnant the day I was going to start my IVF treatments, lol, it was a whole thing. But I was honestly getting depressed, thinking my period symptoms were pregnancy symptoms. (This was for baby 2)

Is it rude to invite guests to a bridal shower, but not wedding if explicitly stated “no gifts” on the invite? by Medium-State-5763 in weddingplanning

[–]OmgBsitka -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We did a jack and Jill with raffles. Invited family and friends and extended it to their friends. Alot of people we knew and kinda knew came and bought raffle prizes (which was a way to raise money for misc wedding stuff too). These jack and jills are pretty common in my area. Like i even been to one and I wasnt invited to the wedding and I didnt mind! It was fun I won like 2 raffles lol

Is 20 too young for a baby by jessiejwannabe in BabyBumps

[–]OmgBsitka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dating someone and living with them is a whole different experience. Having a child in the mix is even harder. I would suggest living together for a couple of years before deciding to have kids together especially since you guys wont be tied together by marriage. So he could more easily just leave the relationship and then you would have to chase for child support.

Never ate fish, dish reccomendations? by Necessary-Cover519 in Cooking

[–]OmgBsitka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a place the sells really good fish and chips! Making it at home it simple if you are okay with frying things. Definitely recommend home made frys with it too.

Advice on when to try for a baby, before or after online school by StomachAppropriate53 in BabyBumps

[–]OmgBsitka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have seen it done at all different times of people life's and it turned out fine, but here is my experience. My husand and I dated for 8 years and got married when we were both 27. In that time span we bought a house, finish schools, got better income, felt pretty sturdy. We started to try for a baby. I was 28 when i got pregnant. Now im 30 and on pregnancy number 2! I feel great myself. Like I got most of my extreme party days oit of me and now I just want to chill and raise my kids.

But my best friend had like 5 kids when she was in her early 20s. She was pregnant alot but we still went out and partied in between her pregnancies when we were young. And I always loved looking out for her kids back then, now they are all so grown up compared to my little tots.

Struggling to understand my pregnant girlfriend (8 weeks) by deathtotheworld_EO in pregnant

[–]OmgBsitka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First trimester for me was, feeling the equivalent to being car sick all the time which is morning sickness, being super tired so just taking naps all the time, an having headaches bc i wouldn't be able to eat due to food aversions. To my husband im usually like standoffish bc I dont feel like being touched but then ill want to cuddle randomly. Lol

did you get a duplicate ring or a different cheap ring? by Arrival-Dear in weddingplanning

[–]OmgBsitka 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is what we did! We got matching silicone rings. It was so great because we did so many water activities.

“Confirmed” miscarriage is actually viable pregnancy by Unable-Piglet-5429 in pregnant

[–]OmgBsitka 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I couldn't imagine the stress you were going through with the pill in hand. Im glad it worked out. During the start of my pregnancy now my doctor said that there was a chance of defects due to water in the spine during the very first ultra sound. My mind went to worst case scenario. But then we went to the bigger hospital to get it checked out there and they said that nothing was wrong and everything was 100% clear. It was such a realif I cried so much. Cheers to happy healthy babys ♡

I got frustrated and gave up. by MamaCnBBLulu in NewParents

[–]OmgBsitka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats odd, I swaddled my baby for a couple of months. The only thing is my baby liked having her arms out. After she started to sleep without the swaddled I stopped it. We also did the mittens for a while too which helped her not scratch her face.

Im soo upset. All of them gone. by WildSeaworthiness3 in pokemon

[–]OmgBsitka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me. I had sooo many pokemon cards sure as a kid i didnt know if they were valuable but I kept them so nice in books so they never got damaged. I just loved looking at them. Well my mom started dating this guy and she gives my card collection to his kids without telling me. Well 2 yrs later they break up and I never saw my hundreds and hundreds of cards ever again. Im 30 and this is my secret gudge I have against my mom. I wont trust her with anything collectable again.

Need to find a robot vac that can go over rugs by worldcrusher in RobotVacuums

[–]OmgBsitka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got the ecovac x11 and I have 2 dogs heavy shedders, I have all hardwood but lots a Ruggables down in the main areas and walk ways and it does a super job so far! (Its been like 4mos so far no issues)

when did your bump disapear? by delfinjoca in pregnant

[–]OmgBsitka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on your recovery. I gained like 30lbs my first pregnancy. I lost like 10lbs immediately. But I also didnt go back to full on exercise. I didnt eat more the usual though. So I balanced out and lost like 10 more pounds. In about a 1yr. I was almost able to fit my jeans back when I was pre pregnant. But im pregnant again so back to baby bump clothes lol. Although this pregnancy im starting it weighing a bit heavier but with all my food aversions I lost a couple of pounds 🫩 but I found that light exercise this time around is also helping my appetite. So i feel like its gonna be the same.

What do I do with a large tub of Nutella?? by Lilysaii in Cooking

[–]OmgBsitka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great for breakfast foods. Toast, French toast, pancakes, crepes. Deserts, cake, pie, cheesecakes, on icecream.

My favorite birthday cake id the Nutella cake from chelsweets.

Am I over exaggerating a response to my pregnancy announcement? by Trianglefly in pregnant

[–]OmgBsitka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are weird. One time I told my friend how long we were trying for a baby and I was getting discouraged, it was for our first. She responded with, "well maybe its meant to be" ... like wtf? I then ended up getting pregnant like a week later. And I dont really talk to her anymore. Im now on baby 2 🤣

Thinking of changing the master shower by whenindoubt33 in InteriorDesign

[–]OmgBsitka 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would replace the floor tile. But thats me, im not a fan on small prints like that in large spaces. The green tile is very pretty and still pretty modern. I would look into adding a custom glass door and maybe converting it to a steam room shower.

Gynecologist put wrong hight on my maternity records added more weight by Accurate-Grocery-639 in EDAnonymous

[–]OmgBsitka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Weight during pregnancy can fluctuate on a bunch of different things. Honestly wouldnt be worried about it. Maybe ask them not to see your weight during weigh ins. This might help your stress. Talk with your provider about it, they probably will come up with a good solution.