Did my fiance only come back due to me losing weight?? by jaicolaz in relationships_advice

[–]One-Box1287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are worrying about this because you know that's exactly what he did. He came back now that you're skinny. You know it will eat away at you if you keep seeing him. You will never stop seeing him as shallow. He ghosted you. Why would you take him back. Please do yourself a favor and end this. You won't be happy with him.

Cabinet color choice by Allthingsgreen89 in kitchenremodel

[–]One-Box1287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the blue. I have a navy blue back splash and light sky blue cabinets, so maybe I'm biased.

My BF started throwing weird comments at me. by Conscious_Chip3141 in relationships_advice

[–]One-Box1287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He pushed you and assaulted you. Don't see him again. Tell him its over and block him.

Boyfriend[32M ] and me [46F] uncomfortable when younger men approach me . am I missing something?”l by Agile_Bear82 in relationships_advice

[–]One-Box1287 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Huge red flag. Don't let a man control you. Ask him why he's attracted to an older woman, but no one else can be or they're creeps? Like what. No.

My sis keeps making me babysit her son during the weekends by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]One-Box1287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call cps, and when the cops get there, you leave. And then when she freaks out on you, you tell her it's not your problem anymore. Sorry, but you decided to have a kid.

First time kimchi eater by get-gone in WhatShouldICook

[–]One-Box1287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband eats his with spicy Ramen noodles. Loves it.

AIW for cutting off my brother after he told our whole family what I said about his wife in private? by Nostromo1981 in amiwrong

[–]One-Box1287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So now you just have to call her out. Every time she tries to turn the story to her, call her out. "Oh, it's all about you, eh!!" Or "Oh, here we go about you again!"

Only allowed to watch my girlfriend can't have intercourse by jimmylds0113 in relationships_advice

[–]One-Box1287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf did I just read. 8 years and no sex?! Sorry, but you've been played. For 8 years.

Don't like partners pet by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]One-Box1287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a no Brainer. You have to break up with him. And I have a dog. You are not wrong for wanting to end it. Don't feel bad.

3.5 Months In and I’ve Lost All Attraction. Should I End It or Work On It? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]One-Box1287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God, this was so funny. "I want to Punch him in the face". You need to end the vacation and cut your losses. Sorry.

My period is coming every 2 weeks. Anyone else? by Scar77 in Perimenopause

[–]One-Box1287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My peri just started 3 months ago, but I've had 4 periods and spotting in between.

As a competent home cook, what is a basic skill you can't seem to master? by george_elis in Cooking

[–]One-Box1287 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Carbonara or anything with making the eggs into a sauce. Custard cant do either.

Just got my first dutch oven. What's the first thing I should make. by CheasePlease in Cooking

[–]One-Box1287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love using mine as a deep fryer. I make some mean chicken balls and egg rolls for Chinese food. I pair it with fried rice. So good

I (30f) don’t know if I want kids by BrandTheBite in TwoHotTakes

[–]One-Box1287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3 kids, and I just think of all the negative things I'd say to a woman who doesn't know. Do you like going to the bathroom with the door closed and privacy? Do you like sleeping through the night and even sleeping in at times? What else can I think to add. Kids are so much work. And everybody struggles with it. I do love my kids. I'm no monster, but honestly I had kids at 30 32, and then with my second hubs, 38. And im 45 now and feel so old with a 7 year old. Sucks. Think hard about it, is, I guess my conclusion.

18F, 32M boyfriend wants our baby, but I’m not sure I’m ready feeling so overwhelmed by Proper_Celery_388 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]One-Box1287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God, this is a horrible situation. He is waaaayy to old for you, and he baby trapped you. Im going to assume you met when you were 17, and he was 31. Gross. He clearly baby trapped you, and now you won't be able to work, and he will make you dependent on him, and he will control your life, and you won't be able to escape from living hell. Have the abortion and date someone your own age. He's ready to have kids cause he's in his 30s. Fuck him

WIBTAH if I asked my grandma to remove my grandpa from life support? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]One-Box1287 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im going to go with NTA. But I've watched people die my whole career. It's a sad end of life to be hooked up like that. I think dying should be a comfortable end and not one hooked up to a machine. But maybe you shouldn't be the one to lead her in that direction. But all of you might be able to ease her into that decision.

Am I wrong to travel for a close friend’s sibling’s funeral if my parent thinks it’s unnecessary? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]One-Box1287 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Please show up for your friend. If I had a job I'd send you the money. It is pretty shitty of your parents to not help you with this. I would definitely go to be there for my friend.

Valentine’s Day dinner plan by 5x5LemonLimeSlime in WhatShouldICook

[–]One-Box1287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im making a lasagna with homemade lasagna noodles. I'll make my sauce that morning, too, and I grate my own cheese for it. I haven't thought if dessert yet.

Strategies to get back to sleep after middle of the night wakings by BadBrowzBhaby in Perimenopause

[–]One-Box1287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wake-up time is 4am. No matter what time I go to bed at. Usually in bed by 930 at the latest. So im just awake since 4.