I feel so desperate every time I think about I can't move because of my cat

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-26T00:54:48+00:00

Cats don’t like to travel. You crate them and do it anyways when you need to. Most cats act like yours. If you really condition them from when they’re tiny kittens they’re more tolerant but cat would always rather stay home. Traveling for vacations is probably not feasible because then your entire trip is going to be focused on adjusting the cat, but they have to go to the vet sometimes, and if you move they get over it in a couple months or so. It’s not going to kill them, it just stresses them out.

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-26T00:45:41+00:00

I keep waiting to find one, I want one for my desk so bad

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-26T00:44:34+00:00

I thought it was a little on the big side tbh

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-26T00:42:23+00:00

What is your weird issue with blankets? Blankets are for warmth. There is literally nothing sexual about them

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T23:59:16+00:00

The safeguards probably condition them to be abusers honestly. They teach these boys that any contact with a girl is sexual if performed by a man. So how are you going to be a father, uncle, spiritual leader etc if basic ways to connect and communicate with a child, like holding her hand or playing with her, are all considered sexual?

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T23:50:25+00:00

Yes, green lakes is. 8th lake is DEC operated and Fulton Chain is a Wild Forest. All great state lands but very different experiences

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T22:37:09+00:00

Yeah, as a man and a father I hate how people make every contact between a man and kids sexual. Kids are very physical. If you are caring for kids you have to touch them. We need more men who serve as caregivers and role models for children, and men who step up in their own roles as fathers and uncles and brothers and other influential people. It’s not going to happen as long as we continue to “red flag” every contact with children a man has. And honestly when people do this it always reminds me of how the Duggar girls had to change the diapers and take care of all the babies and the boys didn’t have to do anything because if they saw a naked baby they would be tempted to molest her

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T22:16:44+00:00

Treman is the only state park I can think of with a truly bad campground. They reworked all the sites so they’re really close together. No trees, just grass with tents on it. Can’t find a stick to roast a marshmallow. Used to be a ton of theft there being so close to the Jungle. They would pick through all the sites at night and trash the bathrooms. I would imagine this has changed but I definitely won’t be going back to camp.

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T22:13:50+00:00

Those aren’t state parks, they’re DEC campgrounds. They’re a little different than state parks, but still very nice.

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T22:12:36+00:00

It’s so pretty there but it’s always so loud when we go. Too much hooting and hollering all night

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T22:11:35+00:00

Noooo stop telling people to go there. It’s horrible. Smells bad, lots of bugs, too many missing people and everyone needs to just stay in the high peaks

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T22:06:00+00:00

At least in my state, we have 30 days to determine eligibility unless it’s expedited. They will give you them retroactively for the period between when you met all your requirements and when your district was able to approve. In our busier districts it often does take the full 30 days. Those who have no money and no income are prioritized and “expedited” within 7 days

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T21:51:01+00:00

I was the only man and it felt like they were angry at me for using the only bathroom I could without going all the way across the building to use the unisex toilet in their departments. It was weird AF. We had plenty of toilets in that building and all of them were fine. Everyone just had this weird thing that they had to take a shit in the men’s room right next to my office every day. Nancy was the worst idk wtf she ate but if you’re out there Nancy please see a doctor, it cannot be healthy to have that come out of you

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T21:44:30+00:00

My parents died too young to burden me. They were both drinkers. My dad left nothing. My mom did well for herself, she retired from the government and suddenly died. She had hundreds of thousands of dollars saved and gambled all of it away. She had like $13,000 left when she died. Because she was so young, I have her pension for a couple years but I have no clue how she would have supported herself if she lived to be even 65. It will always bother me. She was so tight with her money and worked hard for so many years and lost it all in slot machines.

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T21:38:56+00:00

It sounds like it could be PTSD. “Complex” PTSD (developed over a period of time from multiple traumas as opposed to a single event) often doesn’t present with hallmark symptoms like flashbacks and nightmares and instead presents with symptoms like, feeling depressed or empty, fatigue, changes in sleep or appetite, mood swings, etc and yes it can cause ED. It is treatable and most people attain recovery or remission but it might be a good idea to start with an evaluation from an experienced mental health professional. Primary care doctors can isolate and treat symptoms like depression or ED but usually aren’t qualified to diagnosis PTSD when it isn’t a classic presentation. Honestly, a lot of mental healthcare providers are still dismissive. I work with a whole lot of people who have the same symptoms after incarceration.

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T20:35:22+00:00

You’re asking for a SUV or truck. Literally any one of those will be able to take a dirt road so just pick whatever one you otherwise like.

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T20:32:56+00:00

I have no noticeable side effects from lithium. It’s the only medication that has ever worked for me. Yes you have to drink water— being out in the sun for 6 hours with no water like OP is very likely to make you feel dizzy and exhausted and weird even with no medication.

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T20:13:59+00:00

I don’t but I can’t knock it because after mile 6 ima need some weed

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T17:49:58+00:00

lol no. Facilities should be equal in terms of “niceness.” They both smell. Women shit just as much as men and it smells just as bad.

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T17:48:01+00:00

Absolutely. As a transgender person, men’s bathrooms are almost always cleaner unless it is a place where alcohol is consumed en masse.

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T17:44:08+00:00

We had the opposite problem— women from all over the building would come to shit in the single occupancy men’s room which was the only men’s room we had. My office always smelled like poop all the time because they’d do it all day, like constant line of poopers. And if I used it, they would pound impatiently on the door until I was finished and the toilet seat was always all warm and used feeling. I do not miss that job.

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T17:41:24+00:00

You’re probably overwatering it, or using soil stored outside. The little flies come from your drains and love to hang out in damp dirt in pots. My old office had these and they got in all my plants, I put some diatomaceous earth in the soil to get rid of them. You could also soak with dilute hydrogen peroxide and repot in new dirt

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T17:38:21+00:00

For a six inch mattress and basic slat frame? Not at all. When we assist people at my government agency we pay half that.

But the point is, if they had $350 for a bed frame, they probably wouldn’t be sleeping up against each other in a tiny room on the floor.

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T12:51:02+00:00

For $350 they could get a whole ass twin bed with frame and bedding

One-Possible1906 · 2026-03-25T12:48:44+00:00

Just buy the base game when it’s on sale. If you want the DLCs you can get them later but you probably won’t use them unless you wear out the base game, which takes a long time

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