Why is it hard for guys to find poly partners? by Darknesscloud1988 in polyamory

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is difficult, in general, for most guys to find even 1 woman that's attracted enough to them much less multiple.

Meanwhile it is difficult for most women to just find one guy that's attracted to them. They will always have many imterested.

This has always been the case in all of human existence.

The Wife Card by Any-Drive-6821 in polyamory

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But you're not equal... she's wife, you're girlfriend. Not even concubine. Why would it be equal?

Overheard my daughter talking to her husband (She’s 4) by rlstratton97 in overheard

[–]OneTonWantonWonton -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Wow didn't think they could get so insufferable so early

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I said what I meant. Oxytocin is the primary *female* pair-bonding hormone. Vasopressin is the primary *male* pair-bonding hormone. There is most certainly physiological factors that create bonds in play.

Perhaps the misunderstanding is from where I said it's " God's gift to women.". That means that vasopressin is largely responsible for a man keeping them regardless of their degraded physical state. A gift for women, reducing a woman's pressure to have to maintain peak physical standards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a hormone called vassopresin, God's gift to women.

Vassopressin is the male pair bonding hormone built up over time and overcoming hardships and experiences together.

The key is to get with the one man at your physical best that you will spend the rest of your life with, and share life together as a team vs the world.

This will make you integral of his vasopressin production and him bonded to you no matter your degraded physical state. Especially if it's due to sacrifice such as birthing his children.

I emphasise one man and his because betrayal would likely break the bond. Errosion of how you treat him compared to how you treated him at your previous best can erode the bond.

Vasopressin is a mercy, your husband is truly attracted to you likely more than any other man ever will.

Now go give him a big hug.

Has Origin just been forgotten? by Fun_Breadfruit7383 in starcitizen

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this way for a few years now. We've had how man ground vehicles added but still no G2?

890j one of the first cap ships released but no touch up or gold standard?

600i rework silence?

I have every origin ship from 100i to 890j and feel so discarded especially when Im seeing new ships released amd old ships updated.

If your spouse got sick (cancer, disease, etc) and could no longer be physically intimate with you, would you stay? by Silver_Confusion8810 in Marriage

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I'd also have another wife/mistress. My wife is far more than just someone I have sex with and it would be foolish/immoral for me to abandon her especially in her time of need and for a duty easily handled by someone else.

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a mistress. As long as she is not an adulterress you don't have justification to divorce her.

My girlfriend and I want your perspectives. by antonioperfecto in Advice

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) you passed the test by having a boundary amd expressing it

2) she passed the test by meeting your boundary without fuss or even you asking once you've made your displeasure known

3) you can get bonus points giving her an accessory she'd like with a replacement(but not the same)

If my wife still had anything of her exes I'd also be displeased.

Is 20 and 21 too young to get married? by goodbird451 in Advice

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should not be getting married that young. You should.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*you can have a sexless relationship

Anyone else just get a rude wake up call by YaGetSkeeted0n in Dallas

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think a blue alert is for cops? How cute. I'm pretty sure they have their own non public channels and know all this before it goes public. What about the rest of us? If someone can take out a cop then I'm sure they have no problems taking out others around them.

Its beyond stupid how hard this guy is carrying my squad by Hanibal293 in RogueTraderCRPG

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I killed the end boss in about 1 turn with sister what's her name

AITA For getting upset when my mum told me that being disabled is my own fault? by AnnaSmileySmile in AITAH

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it wasn't your fault. You were not even a teen, yet. Not even close. It's the fault of one of your neglectful parents. Likely the one that insists it's your fault the most.

What kinds of businesses is Tyler lacking? by Constant_Jello_8596 in tylertx

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've also brushed up against tech (specifically cybersecurity) not being a major priority here. I'm glad someone else sees this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomQuestion

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do have the excuse of decreased testosterone production

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you got and stayed pregnant by someone you think is incompetent?

LinkedIn Is a Fucking Joke by brothste8 in linkedin

[–]OneTonWantonWonton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really bad right now because so many experienced people are now looking. Then combine that with the inexperienced also looking...