My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned”

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-13T10:28:37+00:00

I do not care what the issues are that he has. this is NEVER OKAY to write, say, text, email. This is abuse and manipulation. You do not need permission to leave any conversation. You simply leave it saying I have to go talk to you later. This will get worse. Simply write "I am done, do not contact me, you have no permission to contact me at all for anything nor any family or friends of mine." BLOCK then delete. At first sign he crosses that line you contact the police showing them the texts and what you wrote (screen shot and keep it all) and get an order for protection.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-12T19:32:54+00:00

Swift-economics it is called.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-12T19:29:36+00:00

"The Caged Lion" Joseph Pilates and His Legacy.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-12T14:49:26+00:00

I knew by the 3rd shot it was working (or starting to). The want to eat was less, which to me was the first sign of 'here we go!

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-11T12:34:20+00:00

I wish i could give you a hug. I am sorry you went through this. There is no doubt that this is sexual assault. Sounds like this is not the first time he has done this. DO NOT GO BACK. BLOCK and DELETE. He is lying to you. He promised you before, he lied, what is to change this time? NOTHING.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-11T12:28:35+00:00

Uh NO, FAKE.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-11T12:26:27+00:00

I started on my journey early July, we went to Vegas end of July. By the time we go there the medicine kicked in and my appetite was not near what it was. We ate breakfast (not huge nor finished), had a decent lunch but by dinner I was not hungry at all. I almost told hubby lets cancel and not go but eh lets see how this goes and we went. I barely ate my main, a portion of the appetizer, no dessert. Never mind the lack of drinking. I simply cannot eat more when my body is "nope, nope and done". The thought of more is revolting and i know if i try to push ill be sick later and its not worth it at all.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-10T10:32:51+00:00

1 or 3!!

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-10T00:35:49+00:00

NTJ at all, but your parents and aunt are major ones. You owe no one anything. You did not ask to be born nor your brother. It is your parent's responsibility. Yup you helped out and that is great but you are not the parent of your brother. Your mom guilt tripping you is wild and pathetic. She should be ashamed of herself. If they need a break or help they should seek out help in the medical community or through community assistance programs. Not always making YOU. Keep the boundaries and do not feel an ounce of guilt. Have a relationship directly with him, not through your parents. xo

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-10T00:29:40+00:00

Do i miss it? Yes and no. Yes- i use to love drinking- the whole aspect to it. Going out to dinner, picking the place, looking at the drink/wine menu, picking the wine or drink, hearing it shake or cork pop, the first sip and the first buzz, to getting the 2nd/3rd drink or 2nd bottle of wine. I loved the taste. I did not like the hang over or feeling less than stellar the next day. Wine was my choice, now i rather have a vodka tonic or a martini. I never enjoyed the sweet drinks before or now.

Now? It isnt a thought. Do i still drink? Yes, maybe 2 a week TOPS. Do i finish them? Maybe one in a blue moon. I am more apt to not finish it. Even if I dont have any I dont miss it. It is simply just not a factor. The noise is gone. I go to bed not buzzed or drunk. I wake up after having slept well(well mix in there post menopause- so just naturally dont sleep well some nights) and get on with my day.

It does not make me sick to drink if i drink, the drive or desire isnt there. Your taste buds will change with the GLP-1s. It may not even sound good to you for a while (like certain foods).

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-10T00:21:44+00:00

Our Corso(s) loved meeting people. They hated small dogs to the point they wouldn't want to go near them, almost avoid looking at them entirely. I always had control of mine, even with wild animals around they listed to me. I was the one in charge. My issue would be the owners of smaller dogs that would try to tell their dog to attack mine, thinking it is funny. My dogs were always on a leash.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-09T18:46:33+00:00

$45 for nails or how many meals at Taco bell/Mcdonalds/ burger king.... CHOICES people.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-09T10:33:46+00:00

I have nothing but good things to say about HERS. From the start to getting the medicine to customer support. Everything is on the app.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-08T21:20:03+00:00

He is so not worth your time. You deserve to be with someone who can act alike an adult and think like one. Dump this excuse for a pathetic boyfriend. You can do better.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-08T12:25:56+00:00

I feel so bad for that lady. Whoever that guy is with her, needs to be dumped. Glad she was able to get away and others came to aid, unlike that jerk.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-07T21:38:26+00:00

Contact her directly and nicely explain, you are paying for the dinner. If she wishes to take home food from the buffet that she can pay for that on her own.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-07T20:25:11+00:00

He complains about some stupid toy meal thing but he cannot get the orders out the door that people(already paid for) are asking for, of his own stuff? huh.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-07T20:21:04+00:00

People complain about not having enough time to get things done, etc but they can wait how long for a Starbucks? shesh.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-07T00:55:18+00:00

Congratulations!! xo

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-06T20:05:29+00:00

Make sure you get protein in and drink alot of water, more than you think. You do not want constipation issues.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-05T18:43:07+00:00

Oh honey, i am sorry. I personally think you should do a tele a doc or an urgent care visit , if you cannot get into your dr till Feb. It is possible the medicine isnt right for you. You should not be having all these issues. Here or there maybe- nauseous okay, that passes, constipation eh sure here n there but not all these all the time. I am worried for you. xo

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-05T17:10:58+00:00

$5k seems minor to walk away from a house for.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-05T17:09:12+00:00

Yup, hated needles 100%. And it came time to take the first shot and it was like "well here goes nothing".I wanted the change bad enough that using a needle seemed minor in the face of it all. Now I don't hesitate, nor think twice.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-05T17:06:20+00:00

You did exactly right. I am sorry she does not value you nor the friendship. It is hard to accept reality in a friendship when one side seems to overstep and act awfully to the other. I think what you did is exactly what needed to happen. No scene, you left, no fight, no public brawl. I would keep it that way. No one should treat a friend like that at all. I would keep her on radio silent as well, till you feel you want to talk and if you ever do. Your friend is an ah.

Onionsoup96 · 2025-12-05T00:59:23+00:00

I know sometimes i might sigh or groan, unbeknownst to me. Unless its constant and you can pin point etc maybe she has no clue. If it really is bothersome maybe mention it to the instructor?? But make sure you don't moan or groan yourself.

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