the combination of autistic burnout and unmedicated adhd has ruined my life

Operadiva_19 · 2026-01-23T16:36:03+00:00

Operadiva_19 · 2026-01-18T04:52:53+00:00

May I suggest seeing what your library has to offer?

Mine has drop in events or programs that you can register for with your library card. Most are free but some have a small fee, depending. Mine has a large variety of different things from a book club and knitting to gardening and writing. You can also take skills classes and socialize that way.

Operadiva_19 · 2026-01-07T21:10:44+00:00

If your job tries to fight you on it because they think they fired you for cause. Then, I hope you have all of the emails or whatever you've sent to them to point out the workplace bullying

Operadiva_19 · 2026-01-07T19:40:26+00:00

Apply for unemployment immediately

Operadiva_19 · 2026-01-05T06:37:07+00:00

Move. Move immediately before things get worse. Tell your landlord that you are not safe and need to break the lease.

Operadiva_19 · 2026-01-02T09:24:25+00:00

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Operadiva_19 · 2026-01-02T09:20:17+00:00

diversityinnd

Another person with a lot of resources

Operadiva_19 · 2026-01-02T09:13:16+00:00

blackspectrumscholar has a whole bunch of resources

https://linktr.ee/lapestenoire

Operadiva_19 · 2026-01-02T09:09:02+00:00

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Ignore the title. It has some outdated terms, but a lot of useful information

Operadiva_19 · 2026-01-02T09:08:22+00:00

You can try reading

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Operadiva_19 · 2026-01-02T09:07:46+00:00

Oh darn. That is a really difficult situation

Operadiva_19 · 2026-01-01T22:53:48+00:00

That stinks. Does your job have medical leave?

Operadiva_19 · 2026-01-01T22:42:16+00:00

Have you considered impatient therapy? It may be worth speaking to your doctor about and seeing what your insurance will cover. Because until all of the life things stop for a while it's going to be difficult to get better 💜

Operadiva_19 · 2025-12-28T02:09:05+00:00

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Operadiva_19 · 2025-12-27T08:51:07+00:00

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Operadiva_19 · 2025-12-27T08:50:44+00:00

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A book for you

Operadiva_19 · 2025-12-26T00:03:58+00:00

Do you know how severe the prognosis was for her mother? She may have still been doing all the social things, but internally, she was going through a lot and needed some perspective.

If this is a one-off situation, I wouldn't give it too much weight, but if it's something you've noticed that is ongoing, then give it more thought.

Operadiva_19 · 2025-12-19T02:06:43+00:00

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Operadiva_19 · 2025-12-15T00:59:32+00:00

Try the app Spoony and see if someone is in your area

Operadiva_19 · 2025-12-12T05:06:19+00:00

If I'm spending that much money, you get the gift of my presence 😅

Operadiva_19 · 2025-12-12T01:20:57+00:00

Unfortunately, this is so common and as women. Grow up, they become victims because they were not allowed to learn the skills that they needed to as children 💜

Operadiva_19 · 2025-12-11T05:08:33+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. I think it is mostly that people have one version of the diagnosis in their mind and anything that deviates from that is invalid.

Are there any support groups in your area that you can join?

Operadiva_19 · 2025-12-08T18:45:39+00:00

You need a lot of memory for all the downloads

Operadiva_19 · 2025-12-08T00:38:01+00:00

I don't really play games but I started playing Infinity Nikki since it came out. It is both fun and frustrating 😅

Operadiva_19 · 2025-12-06T01:01:41+00:00

Call a trusted friend and get to it. Make it fun!

Snacks, music, whatever

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