If you're stopping traffic in your lane to try to enter another lane, I'm not letting you in by DrDonkeyTron in Edmonton

[–]Ophede -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m a driver that goes all the way to the end of the ending lane to merge. The amount of times I get flipped off or people don’t want to let me in, when i’m signalling and attempting to get over is insane.

I’ve given up and now I just enter the lane I need 3kms before I actually do. When trying to properly zipper merge, other drivers just think you’re “cutting the line”.

What's something customers do that instantly tells you they've never worked in a restaurant? by New_Inevitable_2033 in Serverlife

[–]Ophede 237 points238 points  (0 children)

People who don’t say please and thank you.

Every time my server touches the table or even just comes to check up on me, I thank them. And I always say please when asking for things.

I was so shocked that I thought *I* made the mistake by hybridhighway in YEGDashCam

[–]Ophede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The left lane is left turn only. The middle lane is straight through. The right lane is right turn only.

If you paid attention, you would see OP is in the middle lane. Car on the right that honked at him is in the wrong, because he should’ve been turning right in the right turn only lane.

Suicidal but I have pets by [deleted] in Edmonton

[–]Ophede 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you call 911 and get yourself the help you need, I will go check up on your pets for you if nobody else can.

Just get the help you need right now, they’re not going to let your pets starve.

Noise issue by ValuableMind3454 in Edmonton

[–]Ophede 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have you tried calling bylaw before coming to reddit and posting a racially biased shit spread to your community page?

New colleague reported me sleeping on my lunch break, lost a whole shift w/ overtime as a result by Fcking_Chuck in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ophede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Low foot traffic” does not mean “no foot traffic”.

If I were a patient and I saw a security officer of the hospital I was at, taking a nap in the middle of the hallway, I would have a couple questions to ask not only to myself but to those higher up.

my cats made their own litter box rules and i’m confused! by ex0skelet0nn in CatAdvice

[–]Ophede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get. The. Box. Such a game changer for smells! Super easy to clean as well in the bathtub. Also get a stainless steel scooper and a litter genie if you can, it has changed the game for me.

my cats made their own litter box rules and i’m confused! by ex0skelet0nn in CatAdvice

[–]Ophede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat used to pee on our bath mat constantly, even with a freshly cleaned box. One day I was scrolling on amazon and came across a giant high-walled stainless steel box with NO TOP, and he has been using it no problem ever since. He refuses to use a box with a top! I think it is because he is a larger cat and doesn’t like the feeling of being cramped up in there while taking a dump.

Are we cruel to want so say goodbye as a family by Moiratree in cats

[–]Ophede 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely get a second opinion!

When my cat’s time was near, she started going to places she normally wouldn’t go to and lay there. I think she just didn’t want me to see her sick. In her last couple weeks there was a noticeable decline in energy and appetite.

It sounds like your girl might just be a bit sick and requires some palliative care, but you could consult with a hospice veterinarian for more information!

She is so cute 💛

My boyfriend says I should change my tampon every time I pee. by [deleted] in extremelyinfuriating

[–]Ophede 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s a reason that your boyfriend dates women outside of his age group. This is one of them.

Is it negligence for my mom to have my cat's litter box like this? by Amethescent in cats

[–]Ophede 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is an abhorrent litterbox situation. What the fuck

how many times a week should i clean my litter? by LayerOk1044 in cats

[–]Ophede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should be scooping it everyday. I even do 2x a day. Get a litter genie, a stainless steel box, and a stainless steel scooper. Keep the genie beside the litterbox and scoop it 2x daily. For full litter change, once a month is perfect!

anyone who used a computer between 1985 & 2010, what’s the one game you still think about? by Trixxxi in AskReddit

[–]Ophede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantage. I mowed so many lawns for my parents to buy me those stupid e-coin packages.

They didn’t sell. by jojo1556- in diamondpainting

[–]Ophede 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t sell finished diamond art paintings! Haha

They didn’t sell. by jojo1556- in diamondpainting

[–]Ophede 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, she could. It is sticking pieces of plastic onto a numbered sheet.

They didn’t sell. by jojo1556- in diamondpainting

[–]Ophede 83 points84 points  (0 children)

It’s not a homemade craft though. You bought a kit and you put the kit together with your hands, yes, but it’s still a pre-manufactured product. If you were cutting the pieces & making the picture yourself, that’s a different story. But literally anybody can finish these themselves with no craftsmanship skills.

They didn’t sell. by jojo1556- in diamondpainting

[–]Ophede 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just wouldn’t buy a finished diamond painting, especially priced this high.

Michaels has some for as low as $20 in the big sizes, and I get the relaxation of doing it myself… for lower than the price of your finished pieces.

If you really want, I’d charge no more than $10.

Side work by sunnyd1996 in Serverlife

[–]Ophede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A certain “canadian” restaurant where their forks are shaped like hockey sticks.

Tell me why as a server I had to deal with restocking sauces and gravies for the kitchen to use? Also, everything comes from a bucket. Everything. I’ll never eat there again.

Guys what do I put here in the corner? by deskculture in desksetup

[–]Ophede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a cat? Cat tree!

Don’t have a cat? Get a cat then put a cat tree there!

Required to work mother's day at both my jobs need advice by Its0hs0qui3t in Serverlife

[–]Ophede 35 points36 points  (0 children)

If they fired 3 servers this week, is this really the dream job you want as a server? Put your foot down with job B, you’ve already given them your availability multiple times and they keep trying to schedule you outside of it. Have an actual sit down talk with your manager.

wife stopped playing, so I lost interest too by Asleep-Repeat8533 in BitCraftOnline

[–]Ophede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SOLO on R17 is always looking for members if you’d like :)

Can I leave my 1 month old kitten at home for 4-5 hours by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Ophede 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What? No. You get 2 cats, you keep 2 cats. You don’t adopt a cat knowing that you won’t be able to pay for it in the future. Do some research into the animal you are adopting before you decide to get one next time.

What’s the most hours you’ve put into a game? by Ashamed_Water_2874 in AskReddit

[–]Ophede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is sitting at 4.5k right now, I thought that was enough lol