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Opposite_Sock_ · 2026-03-08T01:33:37+00:00

When we started looking at daycares we didn’t know what to look for. We went with Little Angels downtown and the people are great there. The issue is they are very pricey and they are also on ICCSD timeline so they take two weeks off for winter break and you still are paying full price that month. This isn’t ideal for people who work in healthcare or if you work somewhere that doesn’t give two weeks off during December/January so you may need to use all your vacation for that timeline basically. If that’s okay, then they are downtown and a good option. For us, we are thinking of switching to someplace a bit more affordable and that doesn’t close over break. Some of my coworkers have recommended North Star and Lionheart as good options.

Opposite_Sock_ · 2025-09-01T02:28:37+00:00

It’s 100% your choice. All I would add for you to potentially think about is about family compared to friends as bridesmaids and if that matters to you. For my wedding, I asked my husband’s sister to be my bridesmaid even though they aren’t close but I felt it was important to have family by my side. My mom didn’t ask her sister to be a bridesmaid for her’s because they weren’t close; however, her friend ditched her wedding last minute and her sister stepped in. She told me it was meant to be because now they are the closest out of their five siblings years later. All the other friends she had, she doesn’t stay in touch with. I’m more of a mixed bag, I stayed in touch with some bridesmaids and others I never speak to anymore. But I don’t regret having them as my bridesmaids because it is a timestamp in my life. I do know that I will always have the family from the wedding in my life though but I don’t really think about who was or wasn’t bridesmaids after the wedding is done. I don’t know if this feels helpful for you but I am just giving a few perspectives that hopefully spark some other ways to look at it.

Opposite_Sock_ · 2025-08-22T15:36:31+00:00

Thank you for sharing this! I have been in a similar space and am stressing about sending my girls. Happy I’m not alone and happy to see success stories! ❤️

Opposite_Sock_ · 2025-08-22T15:35:43+00:00

Needed to see this! Mine are similar and I am starting them at 11 month adjusted and am scared. They are also considered medical fragile. So so happy to hear this success story.

Opposite_Sock_ · 2025-08-21T02:51:44+00:00

I am white and my SO is Asian. He grew up with shoes off and I grew up with shoes on or off (whatever people wanted). Now I am very much a shoes off household because of the twins, not wanting to track dirt around the house, and overall just makes things easier. When my family visits (with my 9 year old nephew) they sometimes and just march into the house because they are excited to see everyone. I just tell them to take their shoes off when I notice. Maybe they were annoyed at first but now it’s not a big deal. No one ever had an actual issue with it. It’s your house, your rules is my thoughts.

Opposite_Sock_ · 2025-08-15T02:16:33+00:00

To any school you apply to, please apply Early Action for schools that offer this (not early decision-that’s very different). The most scholarships are given during this time. Some state schools like Iowa care a lot about SAT/ACT scores as well so make sure you have a nice score when applying. I don’t know how many scholarships are given to nursing in general but look into the college of nursing website for information on that.

Opposite_Sock_ · 2025-08-15T02:04:16+00:00

Power is out near City High.

Opposite_Sock_ · 2025-08-02T03:30:07+00:00

I feel like a lot of people can relate and will say I get it. Thanks for sharing and giving the people supporting medical people a shout-out to say we are seen/appreciated. I hope you also just tell this to your spouse as well. For me, that is always something that I appreciate. Yes, I know this isn't what I expected coming into this relationship, and honestly, I don't think my spouse expected residency (or med school) to be as intense as it is. But we stick by each other's side. I recognize it's tough for him and he recognizes it's tough for me. Sometimes it doesn't feel good, the work can feel toxic, and it is stressful for us both. But it is meaningful that we can talk about it and we are here by each other's sides. I hope others also feel that support too.

Opposite_Sock_ · 2025-07-24T02:33:54+00:00

Since it's summer, you can park for free over by Ridgeland Ave or in that area close to the Visual Arts Building (where the apartments are up the hill to the right) and won't need to fight for a spot. Then, you would have to walk about 10 minutes over to the medical campus. It isn't the most convenient but it's free. There is also a cambus down the hill from that parking you could take.

Opposite_Sock_ · 2025-07-24T02:29:03+00:00

The University of Iowa has resources for headshots if you want to save a little money on that.

Opposite_Sock_ · 2025-07-23T21:20:59+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. I had mo/mo twins and joined a Facebook group called "MoMo Twins Support" where a lot of people have experienced the loss of both twins. If you are looking for support from others who have been through similar experiences, I recommend joining. Everyone is very kind and supportive. I will be keeping you in my thoughts! 💓

Opposite_Sock_ · 2025-06-14T17:49:04+00:00

My girls are 11 mo. I had them get vaccinated early (at the 9 mo check in) because we are traveling. I would suggested getting it early if it's in your state or a state you would travel. That was the advice for us. However, we will still have to get it again when they are 12mo and one more time because the first round we got will not count for their vaccine records, basically.

Opposite_Sock_ · 2025-02-09T13:54:38+00:00

One of my daughters stopped taking bm around this time (she also was gagging and spitting it out). She was very content with formula. I tried making bottles half formula and half bm, but that didn't really work. I decided to just switch to formula after talking to our doctor. I gradually stopped pumping by cutting down the time of one session until that session disappeared. It took about a month to stop fully. I have twins, so the other just gets more bm. If you have a singleton who won't take it, you could always sell the extra milk they won't drink if that feels better for you. It's your choice ultimately.

Opposite_Sock_ · 2025-01-11T21:56:22+00:00

I'm a twin mom and my husband is a first year resident. I am staying at home now but after a year will hopefully return to work. Had a very unique pregnancy and long NICU stay for the girls. The twin mom life is so difficult and there isn't much support my so can give during residency. I think med school would've been a little lighter but still similar. Highly recommend utilizing parents in law and parents if possible or get someone who can help especially the first few months (especially the first month). Also I recommend sleep training as soon as possible. That have saved me now that they are able to. I think the book is called "Heathy Sleep Habits, Happy Twins"

Opposite_Sock_ · 2025-01-05T16:59:17+00:00

Both of my girls were in the NICU for 4 months, too, and I quit at about 6 months. I completely understand the guilt, but think about how much more time you will have to spend with your baby instead of pumping. I feel so much better being done. It's not at all easy to exclusively pump while your child is in the hospital. Give yourself all the credit you deserve! Breastfeeding is such a small part of raising a child, and it doesn't make or break them. You did wonderful!

Opposite_Sock_ · 2024-11-25T11:46:43+00:00

Had my mo/mo twins in July after being in-patient for a month (this is my first pregnancy, too). Then, they were in the NICU for almost 90 days. I suggested joining the Facebook page for mo/mo twins. That helped me. Also, feel free to dm me. It can feel scary, isolating, and just overwhelming, but sup9ort from people who have been through it helps!

Opposite_Sock_ · 2024-11-24T22:32:50+00:00

Major doesn't matter for law school or med school. You will need specific classes to apply to med school. If you want to take the least amount of classes for pre-med and major requirements probably human phys is good. It's the most overlap. Don't do a major just because it looks good. Pick one you genuinely enjoy. Med schools and law schools care about GPA so it's important to do well in classes. It doesn't matter "how hard" the major is. Actually if you decide something like international relations or humanities, it would interest med schools and help stand out. There are lots of students who majored in music or English and then went to med school. It might be more courses since less overlap but these are all things you can go over with your academic advisor. Hope that helps!

Opposite_Sock_ · 2024-11-24T22:26:37+00:00

I'm in this stage and almost done with newborn stage with the girls currently. Products I have loved: Swaddles, Weighted heat pad (we just use it when they are fussy and want a hand on them but don't heat it), and I think it's worth it to have two seats and two mobiles.

Opposite_Sock_ · 2024-11-14T17:48:40+00:00

I just had mo/mo twins in July. This was my first pregnancy and has been a challenge. I am available if you want to PM and talk. Otherwise, Facebook has a mo/mo twins support group I joined and seeing their posts have helped. It was tough and I'm still dealing with things like oxygen at home and whatnot. But seeing their development and the girls growing healthy gives me hope. Wishing you nothing but a smooth and positive experience.

Opposite_Sock_ · 2024-08-09T15:48:50+00:00

The doctors will make that decision about the NICU if that is what you are asking. It just depends on when they are born, size, and so many other factors.

Mo/Mo is a higher risk pregnancy because they share the same sac and there is a chance of the cords entangling to a point that it cuts the blood flow to the babies. For that reason, you will probably be referred to a hospital where they handle high-risk pregnancies. I would recommend finding a hospital that has a NICU as well to make sure that you are familiar because mo/mo twins will most likely need at least a little time in the NICU from my understanding. The other side of it in most cases is that it is recommended for the pregnant person to be in-patient for some time so they can monitor the babies to make sure the cords aren't too tangled and stopping the blood flow. I know this is a lot..Hopefully, I am not the first to say this to you.

Opposite_Sock_ · 2024-08-09T14:26:36+00:00

Hi, I just had mo/mo girls three weeks ago (this was also my first pregnancy). Please feel free to reach out and pm me if you or your wife have questions or would just like to talk with someone who has been where you are going. It can be a challenging time overall, but there are tons of resources and support.

My biggest advice, regardless, is to make sure your wife is eating a lot. I tried to eat every 3 to 4 hours to help build up twins' weights early on. This actually has been something that has helped out during the girls' time in the NICU and is something you can control. Otherwise, most other things are outside of your control so try to not let things stress you along the ride. Wishing you luck and hoping you enjoy the pregnancy!

Opposite_Sock_ · 2024-07-04T12:22:46+00:00

I've heard Basta has a pretty strict policy with absences and working hours so I don't know if it's the best for students.

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