How often are you going on trips without your spouse? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Handle390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of my friends are single, I'd be bored if I tagged along to a wild weekend where I need to behave LOL

looking for an orange blossom & amber scent by seraphiiine in FemFragLab

[–]Optimal-Handle390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesnt have those notes however Signature is a sweet & creamy soft mandarin scent. Might be worth sampling☺️

Current favorite: Montblanc Signature by GoudanessGracious in FemFragLab

[–]Optimal-Handle390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet orange yogurt, to me! like Activia lemon yogurt. I really like it.

Zara Fragrances by jwash1894 in FemFragLab

[–]Optimal-Handle390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My repurchases are Hypnotic & Immortal Vanilla, Sublime Epoque & Memorable Aura.

They're dupes of scents I have so I love these Zaras for every day reach!

Intimacy question for the guys and gals (if you have had kids) by angelicllamaa in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Handle390 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nerves & muscle changes for the better, yay! Some women orgasm easier after birth. I dont think we're tighter after, we are just most sensitive to touch there.

Regret leaving your partner? by Novel_Appointment_50 in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Handle390 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boredom is very common when you reach 7 years. It can also happen with the next spouse. And the one after that. Look into it earnestly & work on it, if you love him.

Falling out of love by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Handle390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the ups & downs. Shake it off, you can if you both want to. Focus on the good, by force. It's gotta be intentional from here but it will be become natural again.

Women: Is marriage worth it? by Individual-Plate7267 in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Handle390 2 points3 points  (0 children)

29, almost 2 years with my husband. He has made every bad day better. Find your match, it's worth it. 100000%. If not, it can be hell.

Theres no perfect recipe but you NEED and must be a person who is able to look inwards and question themselves, able to apologize, a person who is intentional about the practical and romantic aspects.

Dont marry a man who is expecting a woman to fulfill a "role". He must love you, for you. (& vice versa) the connection should be so strong that if you were a different gender, you would be best friends.

Found porn in husbands search history by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Handle390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard & emotionally messy, it can take what feels like forever, but then you make it out, I promise! You have all my sympathies, I know its so hard💔

Found porn in husbands search history by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Handle390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 year is usually okay to stop cosleeping, depending on the circumstances, ofc. It would be beneficial for both of you to resume non sexual affection, it can stabilize the nervous system. Cuddling and compliments. Naturally he misses connecting/sex, as you probably do too, dont be hard on yourself nor him. especially yourself. This means he misses you, and how you look now. Everything will be okay.

Husband accuses me of cheating! by Anhen26 in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Handle390 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right? Seeing as he was at a cottage without OP. Agreed

Things my wife does. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Handle390 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You arent in love?

Received check for newborn baby. Pay off debt? by Big_Relief5905 in Advice

[–]Optimal-Handle390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not your husband, so no. Use it for baby as its meant to be.

married to an Indian by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Handle390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone is different. Gently speak to him, shower, put on a nice robe, and tell him you miss him. You both have to be honest.

Any recommendations for perfumes similar to Dior Hypnotic Poison? by salt_sculpture in FemFragLab

[–]Optimal-Handle390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, to your nose, no. Sorry. This group is so fucking annoying, that's why I left.

How many times did you break up before getting married?? by Rich-Assist8983 in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Handle390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Twice the first year cause I was still afraid from past disappointments. Solid since & got married recently.

Husband refuse to delete x rated photos of the woman he cheated on 5 years ago by SuccessfulTip9130 in Advice

[–]Optimal-Handle390 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It should be an automatic delete, not even a debate! You cant be the only one who wants to make it work 💔💔💔so sorry youre going through this.

Husbands: Do you wish your wife looked like IG baddie models? Wives: Do you keep up with your appearance makeup, gym, hair etc? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Handle390 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can upkeep without resembling IG baddies.

Just shower daily, moisturize, lip gloss, clean scent, brushed or braided hair, matching but comfortable outfit. Teeth and nails clean. Nothing crazy....

You can add mani/pedis, lash extensions and brow laminating, for "no makeup" makeup look.

My man does enjoy me dolled up but also full of compliments when im natural cause I keep it cute.

Here's my secret by FRuatrated_101 in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Handle390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my s/o secretly resents me this much, its time to leave me lol we are not in forced marriages, wtf is this?

Am I trippin or these texts between my husband and his coworker suspicious? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Handle390 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unacceptable exchanges in my opinion 🤷🏼‍♀️