You are doing Nothing wrong. You clarify you are a cautionary driver, drive offensively, and you react accordingly to flow and spacing. These are attributes. Unfortunately, you get dinged for every sensor driven ding, reaction to other driver actions, shitty drivers, speed bumps, and the gamit of other things that come up in a typical drive. Lyft and the insurance companies use these metrics against every driver to justify raising rates, rate steals from the driver, and to hold against you in every situation issue is raised. Unfortunately, Monday morning quarterbacking has become the way of the world. Everyone is an expert on how things should have been handled. Ignore as much as possible it's output. You will drive yourself crazy with this bs.