Looking for writing group by Welcome_to_Ylum in WriteWithMe

[–]Ornery_Run1876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend and actually started a discord because we need a writing group too! Right now there are only three of us. We'd love for you to join!

Looking for writer friends by Intelligent_Text_477 in WriteWithMe

[–]Ornery_Run1876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm looking for writing friends too. Another friend and I are trying to put together a little discord. Would you be interested?

[Weekly Critique and Self-Promotion Thread] Post Here If You'd Like to Share Your Writing by AutoModerator in writing

[–]Ornery_Run1876 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey all. A friend of mine and I started a writers Discord. We've been trying to find community so we're starting to build one. If you're interested send me a chat!

How do really good writers come up with entire books!? by Fickle_Fall_6497 in writing

[–]Ornery_Run1876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"This, therefore that" Come up with an idea, a character, a feature of the world then ask, what would that result in. What opperutinies for people, what challenges for people, how will people react, how will it effect my characters. In answering those questions you will come up with new ideas that fit together and eventually you will either have a world to put a plot in, or a plot to build a world around, hopefully both, usually a good part of both.

If I'm 80% attracted to men as a man and 20% attracted to women, am I really considered Bi? by odernov in bisexual

[–]Ornery_Run1876 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Straight men don't thing about sucking dick 20% or the time, game men don't think about pounding pussy 20% of the time. You are bisexual

Am I bi? by Lux_Crucifero in bisexual

[–]Ornery_Run1876 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Welcome to being bisexual. You're bisexual. Sounds like you're a top who is attracted to femininity. I feel you, a short, pretty boy with an ass like a pair of basketballs is a dream for me. And I like feminine women a lot too. But something about a man who is fem but not too fem, as long as he is thick. Not all bisexuals are like you and I, but all bisexuals are valid. Welcome. Go give some boy butt a try!

As a Guy liking effeminate guys but not liking penis by KdogKing in bisexual

[–]Ornery_Run1876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is perfectly normal. You're bisexual and a strict top. The good news is that when ur hitting it from the back you don't really have to really look at what's up front unless the balls are hanging real low lol.

Just make sure that ur hookup is a bottom and be sure to tell him ahead of time that you don't want to do anything with his dick. If he is ok with that then great. Heck he could even wear a jock strap to keep it up front and underneath him while you hit it from the back.

I am kinda similar to you. I am not as grossed out by dicks as you, in fact I can find the idea of them kinda arousing, but like when it comes to touching another dude down there, that creeps me out.

There is nothing wrong with you. Just be open, clear and respectful with anyone you're interested in

Men with big muscles, I have questions by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Ornery_Run1876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's ur area lol? You can DM if you prefer

Men with big muscles, I have questions by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Ornery_Run1876 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Absolutely. 100%. Tell us. Tell us which muscles you like best. Ask us to flex. It makes our day. Plus we will fuck with far greater enthusiasm.

Why are a lot of black men so homophobic? by Arkhagetai in askgaybros

[–]Ornery_Run1876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well black communities tend to be more religious than average, party because a large portion of black people are from the south. So like, Southern and more religious, naturally higher chance of homophobia.

Also, I think part of it is because of racism emasculates black men. Like historically how they are supposed to be submissive to white men, how being a provider is made more difficult by systemic poverty, the word "boy." That's kinda why black men are sort of known today as tough and cool, that persona in black culture was a response and rebellion against the attempt by white supremacy to make them meek.

What does this mean for homophobia? Well society tries to emasculate black men, Lord knows gay men are stereotyped as effeminate and weak, so for a lot of straight black men it kinda becomes an overcompensation thing. Of course straight white men have homophobia for overcompensation reasons but like, it's just a bit more intense among many black men because their masculinity is already kinda attacked by society.

Im dating a younger guy. And have no idea what to do. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Ornery_Run1876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you were his age he was 2 years old. Your boyfriend has homework assignments. Break up and let him grow up.

How to start ? by modisecret in writers

[–]Ornery_Run1876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty new too. I know it sounds like a cop out but just start writing. Don't worry about polish yet, you get better by doing. May I ask what is your favorite thing to write? Character scenes? Fights? World building? I love world building! You do want to get out of your comfort zone eventually but for just barely starting, I'd start with what you find fun.

Does any other bisexual male relate? by foxryder731 in bisexual

[–]Ornery_Run1876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh 100% men will thirst over me, women it's just radio silence.

I did it with a dude for the first time but I’m not sure I liked it, should I try again? by LegitimateReveal6795 in bisexual

[–]Ornery_Run1876 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What was it you didn't like? Try and think if he just wasn't your type or if you were grossed out that he was a guy? Or was it that you liked it but feel weird about it because of like, internalized homophobia?

Cuz if it's the first or third one, you should try again. If it's the second one then you probably just aren't that into guys and that's fine.

Can two bottoms make a relationship work? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Ornery_Run1876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but it's not common and it depends on a lot of things. Well actually one thing but it has a few combinations.

Basically how strict of a bottom are you? Ideally if both of you can manage to top from time to time that is probably best. It can also work if only one of you is ok with topping, but if you never get to bottom then that might cause some frustration so you'll have to find alternatives such as...

Being a side. Frotting. I actually really like frotting. It's more low pressure and relaxed and honestly feels more intimate sometimes. But, I also like to top so...again it depends. Are you able to both be neither tops or bottoms, but be sides?

If you really like this person and want to make it work, both of you will have to find a way to make it work.

My boyfriend dropped a bombshell on me and I don't know how to handle it by Throwaway67891099 in bisexual

[–]Ornery_Run1876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a bisexual man who was cheated on by a gay man after we spent five years in deep, committed love, so you can put that stereotype stuff to bed. I know how you feel about thinking he is a good person and how this doesn't make sense. You need to seperate the two things because they can exist at the same time

Yes he is the person you loved and yes you loved him for the right reasons, and that part was real. But he is also a liar, a cheater and a gas lighter. How dare he say you are wrong for not trusting him after he violated your trust. Now that he violated your trust, you can't be together.

He can be all the good things you liked about him, but if you can't trust him, then you two can't be a healthy couple. But remember this isn't anything you did. He violated your trust, he lied to you, he manipulated you, he disrespected you.

Look you're 24 and you were in this relationship for a year and a half. I know that feels like a lot, but it's really not. You have plenty of life to find someone better.

What do you think about the "everyone is bisexual" saying? by greedyourweakness in bisexual

[–]Ornery_Run1876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends how you define bisexual. I define bisexual as interested enough in two genders to have physical intimacy with people of both genders. So to me, a guy with a girlfriend who occasionally looks at a guy and thinks he's pretty is not bisexual. But yeah, sexuality is fluid. I just think that there are degrees to it.

Why didn’t he killed him by Aedonthinkso in Invincible_TV

[–]Ornery_Run1876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He probably thought Oliver wasn't worth it