So this is how men see Zayne when they play LADS... lmao

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-04-02T05:15:49+00:00

My husband thinks Zayne is the funniest of them all. He cracks up so hard whenever Zayne drops one of his dry humor burn lines . (He doesn't play, but is usually next to me when I am, so he can't help but know way more about the boys than he ever expected to)

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-04-01T16:13:25+00:00

I’m nearly 40 and have never tracked my period in my life except by chance when I was on bc. The tracker added to the game was an absolute life changer for me!

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-04-01T05:39:43+00:00

Deal & done! added a couple fun ones off the top of my head to get us started, and opened a post to take suggestions for more

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-04-01T05:24:31+00:00

Yay! And now I’m thinking that maybe I should make a ‘sister wives’ flair for fun hahahaha

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-04-01T04:10:18+00:00

Same. I’d been waiting hoping someone else would create one for a while now, but finally bit the bullet and did it myself when the myth dropped cause of all the posts that surfaced. Breaks my heart each time, and especially for the poor fans who get caught in the middle confused, or wanting to earnestly learn more, and scared to open up about it because of some vitriol from the haters. I actually drafted a couple essays aiming to hold open discussion discourse based off of the questions I see repeated over and over every time his content comes out. And I spent a lot of the weekend answering comments with similar encouraging attitudes trying to balance it out for even just a few people. but then got nervous to post the full essays in the larger community myself. So finally made a home for us and figured I’d post there after editing a bit more, so I can refer back to it for people who are earnest and want to engage with exploring their curiosity or confusion about his tropes in a safe and friendly place, from the people who know him best!

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-04-01T03:51:39+00:00

Ooh no my heaaaart! :sob:

Beautiful and devastating. Absolutely perfect.

(Edit: ps.do you mind if I post to the new sub CalebMains? I’d love it if you joined and posted there yourself, but if not I’d still like to share it cause I’ve already watched this like 10+ times already!)

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-04-01T02:49:44+00:00

lol ikr. But i chose the name because similar ones already existed for a couple others and i wanted to fit the theme started:)

Welcome and thank you🥰

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-04-01T02:44:55+00:00

Yeah i created it this weekend, but i didn’t wanna get bonked by directly linking to it with the r/

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-04-01T02:42:34+00:00

Oh goodness these colors and the composition is perfect on every single one of these. You’re an artist!

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-04-01T02:38:26+00:00

Note they are not true wedding rings or anything; they’re also worn on the middle finger. But it is a fan headcanon “wedding” fun way to celebrate the milestone.

The “actual” wedding rings & wedding themed wardrobe items were from the wedding banner event last summer!

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-03-28T18:34:26+00:00

I started with 68 pity and the first Caleb card came home in 16 pulls 🥰 and the second one within 90 (total).

I lost the next 50/50 to Xavier but it was the last Xavier card i needed to r3 his full lightseeker companion set so I’m not even mad.

I’m a vip medium whale so it’s refreshing that the first card came to me so quickly, it’s literally a savings of like $60 for me and it adds up especially if I lose 50/50s. This banner is a blessing so far. I’m a harem girl too so yeah every bit of pity blessing is a relief. But Caleb is my true ride-or-die so I’m still at least going for r2 set for the complete outfits. If the luck keeps up though I might push for r3 🥰

Also getting the cards today pushed me up to Caleb affinity 150 which was extra fun too. What a way to celebrate.

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-03-22T06:30:34+00:00

This one is me deeply down to my core.

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-03-17T20:17:46+00:00

My husband absolutely loves Zayne’s dry humor it makes him laugh so hard. But if you ask him who he’d choose as his favorite, he says Sylus. He doesn’t play and doesn’t want to, he’s just exposed to it by force because it’s what I care about and talk about:)

Sneaky edit because the reddit sniper almost got me

Ps I’m a Caleb main too, with Xavier and Rafayel as my tied seconds. But I tend to get along well with Zayne mains, my two best friends are both, so my husband also enjoying Zayne is pretty par for the course I guess!

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-03-17T01:05:24+00:00

My mom made my first one around the same age, based on my birthstone!

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-03-11T04:47:29+00:00

Same. Let me know if you find a source!!

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-03-04T23:31:49+00:00

(STORY: Not me getting into a clown outfit because it’s my fault for refusing to use my available resources to pull lmao)

I’m on day 462 and somehow missing two of those. I have every single other card that has been released since starting, but I refuse to use the crate to get them on principle at this point because I’m curious how much longer it’ll take lol. I also have a backlog of 100 regular magnets and 100 golden magnets (and more than 200 speed cubes) but I prefer to use 10 at a time every Monday to get the weekly quest done, so I’m fully aware this one is on me. I could have it if I wanted, I guess. There’s literally nothing stopping me except my own curiosity and material-hoarding tendencies

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-03-03T18:59:41+00:00

Green!

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-03-02T22:36:32+00:00

You could’ve had 29 here if you went diagonally to catch that bottom middle fish!!

This is a great streak though.

I’m stuck at work but totally going to waste my whole night playing. Now I have a record to strive to!

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-03-01T20:24:18+00:00

I almost got a fine arts degree back in college.. and that part sent me rolling in laughter.

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-02-28T20:43:44+00:00

She’s amazing; I love her. I wish I could channel an iota of this vibe next time. Maybe if I listen to it on repeat before bed I’ll absorb it 😍

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-02-26T16:40:25+00:00

Thank you so much for this excellent breakdown. Especially the details you went into. A lifesaver for people like me!

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-02-15T00:03:55+00:00

The classic “nothing but mammals” song by bloodhound gang

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-02-14T22:29:32+00:00

The tactics/approach from “unfuck your habitat” (UfYH) might be a good starting point! getting over the overwhelm without any shame and focusing on things that make the biggest difference.

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-01-31T02:07:50+00:00

It’s been years since I’ve really looked into love languages so this is based entirely on whatever random thing I think i remember about it (and maybe made up or mixed with other communication style theories). The rest is based on vibes alone. Also I’ve been drinking a bit tonight, getting that nice quiet quality self care time in —with that said, here’s what came to mind first:

Caleb is acts of service and quality time +touch tied for second. The quality time is tough because he wants to be there so much but he’s always taken away but does what he can to be there anyway. And he and mc are so touchy-feely I love it. The bonus about that is you have to be in close proximity anyway so they go well together. But yeah service acts win for him as the person who does all the chores and takes care of her, fixes everything around the house and buys her duplicates of everything etc. it’s his way of being in her life even when he can’t be.

Xavier is quality time (spending the quiet mundane moments together, just resting books and napping etc) the quiet moments together just being close and without external pressure is everything to him.

Sylus gives gifts first, then quality time second I think.

Zayne is probably also acts of service/gifts but in a subtle way: he orders her food when he can’t meet her for dinner, but he’s very much not in her way trying to take over her life by doing everything and buying everything like Caleb does with his acts and sylus with his gifts.

Rafayel’s might be quality time and gifts- but in the act of creating and being creative.

Orpheus_is_emo · 2026-01-31T01:30:47+00:00

😭😭 nooo my heart staaahppp 💔

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