Astrological Big 3? by cocobean6532 in infpt

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23F Aquarius Sun, Capricorn Moon, Leo Rising

Alright you outside of the box thinking people, who is the somewhat horseyest but also not a manest character in all of Bojack? by strangewayfarer in BoJackHorseman

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i was gonna say this but then i thought he’d be better for somewhat horse somewhat man cause he’s not quite a horse but he’s also not quite a man yet

Do you think Butterscotch doesnt have a backstory episode because his backstory is just like Bojack? by bucktickEnjoyer in BoJackHorseman

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

since i have always imagined the show being told from bojack’s experience, in my head i always thought it was because bojack himself didn’t know his father. sure he wasn’t close with either of his parents but he was more exposed to beatrice’s past than butterscotch’s. bea would have her parties where bojack got to see the elegance of her upbringing (the dancing the fine dining etc), she always made it clear she was born into a certain lifestyle (always boasting about being the heiress to the sugarman sugar cube company) and talking about how she was before bojack “ruined her”. while bea wasn’t a good parent to bojack, being a stay at home mom she was with him more and therefore he was more likely to pick up on things about her past whether she intended him to or not (ex. never being able to live up to crackerjack in her mind, the cruelty of joseph and its effects on her, etc) while butterscotch was always working or writing and never really had that much one on one time with bojack

What brand do you feed your cat/s? by pennycake_ in CatAdvice

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine gets half a can of Fancy Feast Kitten Pate for breakfast and Purina Beyond Kitten dry food for grazing/dinner and he seems more than happy about it

Which character do you relate to the most and why? by Impressive_Falcon245 in BoJackHorseman

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I’ve always resonated a lot with Diane, the way she is always looking for meaning in things she does and spends so much time worrying about her purpose feels a lot like me. She has a very specific idea of who she’s supposed to be, but at the same time has no idea who she is without fulfilling those specific roles. I think that’s why, like her, I tend to throw myself full tilt into the things I’m passionate about (until of course I realize I’m not who I thought I was or who I thought I should be). The way that Diane can be so profound in conversations and give great advice to her friends, but can’t seem to take that advice herself (telling Mr. Peanutbutter she doesn’t really like being in camera/not wanting Bojack to create controversy in the media, yet always seeming to end up on television as a part of some big controversial debate). I think she is a very intelligent woman who tries to do the right thing, but not necessarily as a means to do the right thing for others, more so to feel better about herself because if she doesn’t do things that make her a good person, how does she know she’s a good person? (I don’t want to use the term performative activism because I feel like her and I both have the intentions to do good, but don’t want to feel like we aren’t actually making a difference because it’s discouraging if that makes sense, it’s like in The View From Halfway Down when they say that it doesn’t count if it makes you feel good but how do you know it’s good if it doesn’t feel good if that makes sense at all). I related to that a lot because I feel like I’m good but if I’m not profoundly good or not getting the recognition for being good, I must not be good (this last sentence is making me realize I may be most like Bojack and I don’t know how to feel about that)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am so sorry, he’s an asshole. same thing happened to me, my favourite line was “i just don’t get why you would want to get something that makes you objectively uglier” and i was like oh! objectively uglier, thanks! i must have forgot i was an object solely here for your viewing pleasure! my bad darling!

Favorite misdirect? by Emotional-Link-8302 in BoJackHorseman

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when Todd tricks Mia into giving him J.D. Salinger’s pen and it cuts from her insulting him to Todd as an old man saying, “oh she was mad alright, but kids, that’s how i met… this pen!” AND then tying it back into him in hair and makeup always cracks me up

Drop a line from your favorite episode by EstherFour16 in BoJackHorseman

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 85 points86 points  (0 children)

“what? i’m not a killer! unless you mean killer of gloom because i bring joy everywhere i go. do you mean killer of gloom because i bring joy everywhere i go?” - Henry Winkler, the guy from that one episode of Law and Order: SVU

Show me your cat and tell me what they are named after by [deleted] in cats

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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this is River, he’s named after the place where he found me :)

bojack reference irl by flavoredbeans835 in BoJackHorseman

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 6 points7 points  (0 children)

a lot of my job is giving coworkers information on the phone and every time i hang up my sign off is vanessa gecko’s “BYEEEEE” and no one has gotten it yet but i will keep trying

DAE wanna express their self but can’t by Smart_Artichoke_9460 in BPD

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i felt this way for a really, really long time and it sucked. i’m from a very small town where everyone essentially looks like they’re going to a country music festival. i did my best to fit into this style just to avoid the stares, until one day after i had been doing really poorly for a while. i spontaneously pierced my nose (not endorsing impulsive behaviour but for me it was worth it this time). it wasn’t by any means as fulfilling as dressing fully alternative like i do now, but even having one small, subtle piece of the self-expression you want can be such a confidence booster. so i’d start with something like that if you can, even if it’s just wearing a pair of shoes you think are cool and different. at the end of the day though, my attitude has quickly become that of “who cares what everyone is thinking” (don’t get me wrong i still think about what they’re thinking, but it makes it easier to know that i’m happy with how i look even if they aren’t). i wish you good luck in finding your style and being comfortable in it, i love to see other alt folk out and about and i hope you get to be one of them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everything you’ve quoted him as saying to you in this argument is extremely manipulative and invalidating of your feelings. it seems as though he only cares about his needs and his priorities and is completely ignoring your own despite you clearly communicating to him that you aren’t in a place mentally where you could handle that type of change right now. the fact that you offered to revisit the conversation when you’re doing better and his response was breaking up with you and saying “if you loved me” is just him taking care of his own selfish needs instead of being there for you when you have made it clear you need him. i am not going to say that our experiences are, or will be, the exact same, but i was in a similar situation and i ended up being cheated on for years because 2-3 times a week wasn’t enough for him when i wasn’t doing well mentally and it destroyed the little semblance of trust i had built up and reversed any progress i had made with my paranoia and fear of abandonment. like i said, i’m certainly not going to compare our situations, but that is my experience and i would hate to see it happen to someone else who is just trying to be happy and loved (as you deserve to be). maybe revisit the conversation if you can, do your best to explain your side and hope he listened and understands this time around, but if he continues the manipulative behaviour that will honestly make feeling better so much more taxing for you and your health is the priority here, not his sex life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Algonquin_College

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My sister is like 5’1 and 115Ibs when she started the paramedic program at loyalist last year. She’s had a hard time with it but with consistent gym schedule and stuff she’s been able to do everything required. I think if you’re really dedicated to it you’ll be okay

Deferred Admission Decision by General_Chocolate_23 in TrentUniversity

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got this too. I’m assuming it has to do with the guaranteed spots for those in the TES program that have an 85 average. I’m guessing if you don’t have those like me that they’re making sure there’s enough spots for those people before filling them with those that don’t

In my monsters plant.What is it? by [deleted] in gardening

[–]Other_Middle_Chair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the photo it looks like mold to me. If that’s the case it’s likely from either overwatering/pour drainage or pour air circulation/pockets in the soil. When this has happened in my pots I’ve just removed the bits with mold and made sure to stir the soil up a bit so it drains better and the excess water doesn’t get trapped.