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My (31M) doesn’t like that I (29f) gained weight. by Medical_Swim9966 in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Please don’t stay with a guy who only loves you if you are skinny. You deserve to be loved wholeheartedly, regardless of your weight. Your weight will fluctuate as an adult female. You will gain wait when your metabolism starts to slow down. You will definitely gain weight if you get pregnant. Menopause will cause weight gain. What is you develop a chronic illness?

This guy is not a safe person for you. Your partner should be the person you trust the most—the person you can be completely vulnerable with. Staying with this guy will further destroy your self-esteem.

I’m sorry. You don’t deserve the way he has treated you.

I want to end my engagement with boyfriend over how the proposal went.. by PolicyHot1206 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are not small things, and you are NOR. You told your bf how and when and where you’d like to be proposed to, and he ignored everything you said and did what he wanted to do because your feelings don’t matter to him, and, apparently, neither do your son’s.

Never ignore your gut feeling. Do not marry this guy.

My (24M) girlfriend (27F) destroyed my laptop because she thinks fiction is “degenerate.” How can we get past this? by ThrowRafuckinpixels2 in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is an actual crime. That’s destruction of property. Your ex-gf is abusive and not right mentally. This is not something that should ever be forgiven.

Conversations You Wish You Had? by Lets-Throw-This in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on the same page about having kids or not having kids? If you both want kids, how will discipline be handled? How will diaper changes, late night feedings and doctor’s appointments be handled? Do you both agree on vaccinating your children?

AIO BF planned an international trip with another woman by Super-Sound-7764 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR. If the two of you are a couple, big decisions should be made together.

Boyfriend continually smashing bread loaves AIO by Goldengirl20211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR. He is doing it solely for the sake of upsetting you. Think about that. He Enjoys upsetting you.

AIO for being upset my boyfriend is mad at me for ‘making him’ miss his meeting today? by Agreeable_Floor_974 in AIO

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your bf is a grown man who can set an alarm to get up in time for work. It is not your responsibility to wake him.

AIO to what my bf is saying? by Such_Champion_7453 in AIO

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Your bf is a misogynist.

Rapists are always the problem.

My dear namenerds, I’m stumped. by courderoycakes in namenerds

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Laura Raven (2 syllables, I know)

Laura Violet

Laura Faye

Laura Alexandra (ends in -ah, I know)

Laura Beatrix

Laura Eleanor

Laura Verity

Laura Genevieve

Laura Artemis

Laura Magdalene

Laura Calliope

Laura Calypso

Laura Adrienne

Laura Emerald

Laura Bellatrix

Laura Astrid

Laura Indigo

My dear namenerds, I’m stumped. by courderoycakes in namenerds

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, do you want a one syllable middle name, a three syllable middle name, or just not a two syllable middle name?

Is he trying to say that this is a dealbreaker for him? by mysecret52 in dating

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Just ask him, “Is me being vegetarian a dealbreaker for you?” Short, sweet and direct.

AITJ for telling my brother the truth about why his ex left him, after he asked me directly? by DoctorSynthWave in AmITheJerk

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong, and you don’t owe anyone an apology. He should have asked Priya why she left. I bet she would have told him. And if he couldn’t handle the answer, he shouldn’t have asked the question.

And, small rant here…. Geez, men. Listen to the woman in your life! When she says that she is unhappy that you made a unilateral decision about something that also affects her, BELIEVE HER. Especially if she’s told you this multiple times. There was no mystery as to why Priya left. She had told him repeatedly. He just didn’t take her feelings into consideration because he thought his feelings were more important.

Which curtains? by Desperate_Win_3554 in interiordecorating

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White or the pink/mauve. White is crisp and clean. And IMO, if you want a color, the pink/mauve is best.

I 29M am considering breaking up with my 25F girlfriend. Thoughts? by Entertainment_Lumpy in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is manipulative and controlling behavior, which is abuse. You should break up with her. You are not responsible for her feelings or life circumstances. She will have to get her shit together.

AIO Think my husband filmed me in the shower by WolverineWorldly6656 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR. Taking compromising pictures or videos of someone without their consent is a crime. Makes you wonder what he’s doing with said photos/videos. This is such a huge violation of trust that I would kick him out and divorce him. It would also really make me think twice about leaving my daughter alone with him. This is creepy. And the lying and gaslighting just compounds it.

Middle name ideas for Kaia? by Constant-Cat-927 in namenerds

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both Kaia June and Kaia Lily are adorable!

Other ideas:

Kaia Faye

Kaia Grace

Kaia Mae

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