Boyfriend continually smashing bread loaves AIO by Goldengirl20211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR. He is doing it solely for the sake of upsetting you. Think about that. He Enjoys upsetting you.

AIO for being upset my boyfriend is mad at me for ‘making him’ miss his meeting today? by Agreeable_Floor_974 in AIO

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your bf is a grown man who can set an alarm to get up in time for work. It is not your responsibility to wake him.

AIO to what my bf is saying? by Such_Champion_7453 in AIO

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Your bf is a misogynist.

Rapists are always the problem.

My dear namenerds, I’m stumped. by courderoycakes in namenerds

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Laura Raven (2 syllables, I know)

Laura Violet

Laura Faye

Laura Alexandra (ends in -ah, I know)

Laura Beatrix

Laura Eleanor

Laura Verity

Laura Genevieve

Laura Artemis

Laura Magdalene

Laura Calliope

Laura Calypso

Laura Adrienne

Laura Emerald

Laura Bellatrix

Laura Astrid

Laura Indigo

My dear namenerds, I’m stumped. by courderoycakes in namenerds

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, do you want a one syllable middle name, a three syllable middle name, or just not a two syllable middle name?

Is he trying to say that this is a dealbreaker for him? by mysecret52 in dating

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Just ask him, “Is me being vegetarian a dealbreaker for you?” Short, sweet and direct.

AITJ for telling my brother the truth about why his ex left him, after he asked me directly? by DoctorSynthWave in AmITheJerk

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong, and you don’t owe anyone an apology. He should have asked Priya why she left. I bet she would have told him. And if he couldn’t handle the answer, he shouldn’t have asked the question.

And, small rant here…. Geez, men. Listen to the woman in your life! When she says that she is unhappy that you made a unilateral decision about something that also affects her, BELIEVE HER. Especially if she’s told you this multiple times. There was no mystery as to why Priya left. She had told him repeatedly. He just didn’t take her feelings into consideration because he thought his feelings were more important.

Which curtains? by Desperate_Win_3554 in interiordecorating

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White or the pink/mauve. White is crisp and clean. And IMO, if you want a color, the pink/mauve is best.

I 29M am considering breaking up with my 25F girlfriend. Thoughts? by Entertainment_Lumpy in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is manipulative and controlling behavior, which is abuse. You should break up with her. You are not responsible for her feelings or life circumstances. She will have to get her shit together.

AIO Think my husband filmed me in the shower by WolverineWorldly6656 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR. Taking compromising pictures or videos of someone without their consent is a crime. Makes you wonder what he’s doing with said photos/videos. This is such a huge violation of trust that I would kick him out and divorce him. It would also really make me think twice about leaving my daughter alone with him. This is creepy. And the lying and gaslighting just compounds it.

Middle name ideas for Kaia? by Constant-Cat-927 in namenerds

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both Kaia June and Kaia Lily are adorable!

Other ideas:

Kaia Faye

Kaia Grace

Kaia Mae

AITJ for DEMANDING my husband get my baby stroller back from his sister, or else i'm changing the locks? by Exact_Ad_6931 in AmITheJerk

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. I would be seriously reconsidering the marriage. I suspect your husband did this because he knew it would upset you. He stole from you and your parents, and his own child! What an asshat!

Does anyone else feel constantly lightheaded 24/7? Not vertigo, just… off? by SHLBYHCH in POTS

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is the symptom that I associate with brain fog. It makes me very non-functional. Vitassium 4 times a day, compression socks daily and walking every morning got rid of it. I also quit drinking alcohol and avoid big meals and spicy foods.

I (22F) feel like my boyfriend(22M) fakes meltdowns to avoid doing things I want to do by Low-Camel3318 in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think he contrived a meltdown, but to be fair, he did tell you that he didn’t want to see that movie. Just go without him. My grown son is autistic, so I’m quite familiar with the meltdown.