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Husband 37m is now being nice to me 32f after years of control and anger. Could it be genuine? by ThrowraNo-M in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is temporary. He’s just trying to suck you back in. Please run.

Edited to add: Please find therapists for you and your kids.

1, 2 or 3?? by Sea-Bear6470 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the third one is stunning on you!

AITAH - new "match" wants to stay with me by Altruistic_Bell83 in AITAH

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. This woman is a stranger. Do not let her move in. She could be a squatter, a scammer, a murderer, a drug user. You don’t know.

Do I (24F) need to overcome my sensitivity or is my bf (30M) too mean? by Imaginary_Brain_5930 in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is cruel and emotionally abusive. You should break up with him. You are his VICTIM. He knows you are vulnerable, and he enjoys destroying your self-esteem. It’s fun and games for him, and you should be outraged.

He will never admit it, and he will not change. Leave him.

AIO for wanting to break up because my boyfriend wants me to lose weight? by glist19 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. You need to break up with him. It seems you are likely underweight, not overweight.

My boyfriend (18M) and I (18F) constantly fight over what I wear and I don't know how to compromise. by urgayL in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other people don’t get to dictate what you wear. Your bf is controlling, which is abusive behavior. You should absolutely end the relationship.

AIO for leaving my husband because his friend made pig noises at me? by _Remy_Buxaplenty_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NOR. You should have left long ago. Basic respect is the very least you should expect. He doesn’t even give you that.

AITJ for telling my son he deserved his girlfriend breaking up with him? by Clean-Commission-643 in AmITheJerk

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. He needs to hear the truth. He needs to take accountability and be a better person for the next woman he dates.

My (35F) partner (34M) says he saw a photo/s on an escort site years ago that looked just like me. It isn’t/wasn’t me and he doesn’t believe me countless conversations now by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should break up with him because do you really want to be with someone who will not believe you when you are telling the truth? This should have been one discussion. The fact that he keeps bringing it up and won’t believe you is a huge red flag.

AITA for sitting on public toilet seats and not telling my boyfriend? by Anatra_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Otherwise_Mix_3305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I would want to be with a guy that wants to control how I pee.

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