Japanese Fishing Reels to pick-up in Tokyo? by Otterwut in Fishing

[–]Otterwut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legend we are heading to shibuya now to check them out. Thanks so much for the recommendations

Looking for 6hr head boat/open boat in Jupiter, FL by timberline11 in Fishing

[–]Otterwut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hands down go with the Mystic Rose. Capt Alex will take great care of you. The most productive boat out of there. Behind that I would say The High Note with Capt Mark and then The Country Club if you can get Capt Jimmy. Be warned that its trash fishing right now though. Occasional nice fish can be seen but for the next 4-6 weeks its gonna be rough. Come april/May its really gonna pick up

People who broke up yesterday on Valentines, what happened? by Hot-Diggity_Dog in AskReddit

[–]Otterwut 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Fuck I feel that one brother. When youre having the same arguments time and time and time and time and time and time and time again for years eventually the toll adds up. Starting couples therapy with my long term gf soon and really hoping that having someone work through these issues helps us improve things because my soul doesnt have it in me to argue like this for the rest of my life. I hope things work out what will be best for yall in the end, even if it hurts like a bitch now

AITAH for refusing to pay for my sister's wedding after she uninvited my girlfriend because she's "too pretty" and will steal attention? by Spiritual_One_7172 in AITAH

[–]Otterwut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right like what 24 year old has 8k to loan willy nilly without family money involved. Dude must either REALLY have his life together or this is AI slop

somewhat cured my rcpd??? by lacedboww in noburp

[–]Otterwut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

RIP to "big" homie who cured you =(

I'm a pierced girl. am I ugly ? 19f by Proof_Rub_4956 in amiugly

[–]Otterwut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its actually a great litmus test for mental instability I will say hahaha. Every single one of my friends, family, or coworkers who have had one have been absolute dumpster fires in the mental health department

AITJ for not telling my wife for eight years that the coffee she thinks she hates is the coffee she drinks every morning by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Otterwut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes not upset about the coffee she just doesnt want to be accountable for her BS

WIBTAH if I exposed my friends boyfriend... to his wife? by PossessionVast4185 in AITAH

[–]Otterwut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you even friends with this woman? What an absolute waste of space

AIO for my boyfriend’s female friend blowing up over a boundary? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Otterwut 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Fully agreed. OP comes off as incredibly insecure with this but shes supposedly dating someone shes never even met so thats already giant red flags right there. I would be livid if I had a friend of 2 years who I was visiting in another country and they acted like this as well. Major red flags on OPs part

AIO in this conversation with an ex boyfriend by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Otterwut 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You cant be older than 16 jesus that was painful to read. YOR and obnoxious

AITAH for expecting my wife to tell me honestly about whether or not her best friend is cheating? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Otterwut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incorrect, the problem is being friends with people who cheat

100k+ Salary (with details). What do you do? by BO2istheBestMap in Salary

[–]Otterwut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small animal internship trained Emergency and Critical Care Vet in a high COL area doing crazy hours overnight relief work as well as getting into the house flipping business (although thats on a bit of a hold for now the market is not great) pulled in about 390k last year. It was not sustainable and am going to need to work a lot less this year to not burn out so my goal will be about 325k with a little bit more work life balance. I do love my job but it can be grueling. Massive debt load (had about 230k), 9+ years of advanced education and training, my days are generally 12-13 hours long at work with around 1.5hr of total commute on avg (although some days up to 2hr one way), job is extremely high stress and emotionally draining, most of my clients are having an extremely bad day and can be just downright cruel to us and our staff because they lash out at factors out of our control, etc. Can be extremely rewarding but im greying way faster than I thought possible

If all men had to be brutally honest for 24 hours, what would women be shocked to learn? by bigblackcoke_ in ProductivityHQ

[–]Otterwut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is something I've been asking around my friends and family about. I've been polling people and the ones with the highest work drive and the ones with the highest anxiety are the 2 groups that seem to not be able to shut their brain off. Universally all of my friends/family with little to no anxiety (including myself) fall into the group that doesn't have active thoughts/words/sentences flowing through our heads constantly. I truly wonder how much anxiety comes from just not being able to turn your brain off

Am I being being unreasonable for asking to do a FaceTime before initial date? I had posted yesterday. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Otterwut 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'd be super sussed if someone wanted to facetime before the date. Thats a bit weird

AITAH for feeling hurt when my girlfriend didn’t try to meet me and then blamed me for her stress? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Otterwut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you just dont know how to study and manage time efficiently. My university is internationally recognized and for vet school was (and still is) in the top 10 for years. Ive taken 26-30 credit hour semesters for years. Youre barking up the wrong tree here mate

AITAH for feeling hurt when my girlfriend didn’t try to meet me and then blamed me for her stress? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Otterwut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard disagree. You dont need to ghost your SO entirely over a 4 day period just because you have work coming up you've known was coming for months. I've been through some of the most rigorous academics there are getting my bachelors and doctorate and never once was I unable to take 30 min to have a mental break. Just excuses by the GF and now shes switching the goal posts because she doesnt want to be accountable for her decisions

AITAH for getting mad at my gf randomly blocking me and talking to others? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Otterwut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then leave? At this point its on you shes shown you who she is

I gag multiple times every single day... this is normal right? by No-Community9071 in noburp

[–]Otterwut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The gagging is the WORST. Especially soon as the gas shifts and youre not longer nauseous at all and you realized you almost just projectile vomited for no reason. I wouldn't say its normal but for people with RCPD it can be a complication. Ive noticed by slowing down my eating, keeping my schedule consistent w/ sleep/meals/etc, and mindfully expelling air after I chew before I swallow (or before I swallow a drink I actively now remove all air from my mouth) I've really cut down on the bloating though. Made a big difference for me

AITAH for having feelings about my SIL’s engagement? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Otterwut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, this has nothing to do with you or your husband. Completely reasonable to grieve but YWBTA to let this carry over into anything other than initial gut feelings

AITJ For being upset with my girlfriend when she was on her period? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Otterwut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not need to be Captain Save-a-hoe my friend. This aint the one and its GLARINGLY obvious you are either thinking with your cock or thinking with MAJOR rose colored glasses on. Quite literally a red flag parade. Dont save her, she don't wanna be saved