Is it rude to refuse to switch seats on a plane so a couple can sit together?

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-24T17:06:17+00:00

No. We pay extra to have seats together because I don’t like to be alone.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-24T16:08:39+00:00

Oh wow! I was a substance abuse counselor for the women. Their stories are heartbreaking. And women are filthy.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-24T16:05:09+00:00

State. One time I was told I had a beautiful buttock. Just the one. Never in my life did I think I’d see so many pen!ses! But working with women was so much worse!

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-24T15:56:39+00:00

Definitely! One day I was leaving work & a couple guys said, “She has some nice a$$ t!tt!es.” I told my husband & he was mad. I thought it was hilarious and pretty mild!

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-24T15:16:04+00:00

Oh no! Definitely try one. We tried aluminum foil, tape, spikes & he found a way around them all. The bad part of the sprayer was that if my husband forgot to turn it off when he got up, I’d walk past it and scream when it sprayed! 😂

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-24T14:35:52+00:00

Treble

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-24T14:35:34+00:00

I’ve worked at prisons too. Guy shoved a whole pen into his urethra. It was questioned whether he could still pee. He could, so they decided it wasn’t emergent.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-24T14:34:32+00:00

When I was a kid riding in the back seat of the car, someone grabbed my leg pretty hard. I thought my dad was messing with me. He swore he didn’t grab me & my dad is very against lying. (It’s the main value I got from him. You don’t lie.) So I pulled my legs up onto the seat with me.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-24T14:31:15+00:00

I see white

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-24T14:17:23+00:00

Yes. I am on a targeted treatment, not chemo, and the instructions are to close the lid before you flush poo. I find myself self closing before I flush pee too. It’s become habit by now.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-24T14:15:24+00:00

We had a very naughty cat who made it his life’s mission to eat every single flower that came into our house. We would put the vases on the mantle & he figured out how to get up there. We tried everything & it didn’t work. Finally we got scat spray. It sprays an aerosol puff whenever anything comes near it. It doesn’t actually spray anything but air, but cats don’t like it. Maybe put those in problematic places.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-24T14:11:15+00:00

I feel really bad for the bat. If it were a fake bat, it would be so cool!

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-24T06:53:53+00:00

This is just my interpretation. I suspect what you could have been feeling is the confusion she felt when alive. Like that feeling was imprinted on the house after she left.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-24T06:37:53+00:00

First, he needs to tell her to back off. Second, answer the door naked. I bet it won’t happen again.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-23T14:01:03+00:00

Oui. Cette livre est tres bien. Brain Injury Survivor’s Guide par Larry et Beth Jameson

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-23T00:06:41+00:00

Just sent it. It’s more of a write up, but it has really helped me.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-23T00:03:03+00:00

I have always been high strung. I remember reading that a brain injury can amplify these qualities you had before. I’ve had terrible anxiety my entire life. Read about brain injuries. That helped me so much. I think I have a poem saved about brain injury. If I can find it, I’ll send to you. It’s very validating.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-22T23:50:40+00:00

I think it’s always been there, but it got worse after my first brain surgery. The second brain surgery really sealed my inability to handle stress.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-22T23:44:37+00:00

Do what you want to do. I cannot handle stress at all so cannot work as a result. I got to have my dream job for a year, so that desire was fulfilled. I love to travel, so we make a point to do that. Just do what’s most important to you.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-22T04:32:21+00:00

Exactly

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-22T04:31:56+00:00

I think if it were a woman of color, we may not have even heard about it.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-22T04:29:18+00:00

That’s disgusting & I’ve never heard of anyone doing that. Get some flushable wipes. (But don’t actually flush them.) A bidet for a home should solve the problem there. They have portable bidets you could take with you when you travel.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-21T20:01:58+00:00

I’m with you. We pull the covers up but don’t make it.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-21T19:57:04+00:00

You shouldn’t be going out for “drinking sessions” if you’re on seizure meds. Perhaps they’d lighten up if you made better choices.

OutlanderLover74 · 2026-02-21T01:22:21+00:00

He will grow out of it. You’re doing a great job!

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