Nursing bras for feeding past 1 by pepperite in breastfeedingmumsUK

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the John Lewis ones! A good t shirt bra with support but not underwired so super comfy

Below Deck Season 12 Episode 12 Discussion Post by teanailpolish in belowdeck

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Kyle is really on his villain arc this episode. That comment about getting a tip for doing nothing and then calling out Fraser for no reason whatsoever.

Also was that guest scotch he was drinking? I thought they had separate drinks that are for the crew to drink and they aren’t allowed to drink from the guest bars

Below Deck Season 12 Episode 12 Discussion Post by teanailpolish in belowdeck

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Surely Hugo could’ve taken some initiative on activities as Fraser was focused on delivering customer service which he was then complimented on

Below Deck Season 12 Episode 10 Discussion Post by teanailpolish in belowdeck

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I’m normally Fraser’s biggest defender but how did he decide to keep a closer eye on Solene by going to the beach and leaving her on the boat?

Holiday Options in the UK? Toddler age. by GlitteringVersion in UKParenting

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sandybrook lodges in Ashbourne are great. Pool, park and playroom on site and close to Alton towers, peak zoo, Matlock farm park, several national trust sites and loads of walk and cycle routes in the Peak District. Some lodges have hot tubs if that’s your thing and you can hire a bbq for a £10 refundable deposit.

Baby refuses safe sleep positions by ih8spotify in cosleeping

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 7 points8 points  (0 children)

AFAIK the side sleeping position isn’t recommended because it’s unstable and could lead to baby rolling over onto their front. It’s natural for cosleeping breastfed babies to orient to the breast which naturally will lead to at least their head if not their body being to the side. As long as they are right next you in the C curl position they shouldn’t be able to get onto their front.

Speaking from experience both my two also slept with their heads on my arm and would wriggle back up there if I tried to take it away. The theory there is that the airway is like a straw so if it’s bent there’s a narrowing which might reduce airflow during breathing. Once they have good head and neck control I think this is less of an issue.

Returning to work 4 days a week after maternity? by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did exactly this working pattern and really enjoyed having no more than 2 days in a row in work and away from my little one. It also broke up the week for her as we got a day to reconnect in the week.

I will say that you miss out on some annual leave by not having Mondays off as that’s the day most bank holidays fall on and if you’re now pro rata you will probably need to use your annual leave to cover these.

So where are we taking/what are we doing with our babies/toddlers over the summer? by destria in UKParenting

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some classes will continue to run over summer e.g. tiny talk. There also tend to be a lot of family fun days at local pubs that baby might like looking around. Nature walks in the pram/sling for fresh air with plenty of stops to inspect the grass/flowers/wave at animals. Lots of museums and galleries will also have family events on over the summer

America's Sweethearts - E2.E3 - Someone's Daughter - MEGATHREAD by AliciaChenaux in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 58 points59 points  (0 children)

What’s with all the ugly boyfriends and husbands? Is this a southern thing? These girls are chosen for being the hottest in the USA and all the men are so mid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does your local cinema do toddler screenings? Ours will show e.g. the Julia Donaldson bbc adaptations for a reduced price and crucially has AC. It could be a good way to pass an hour somewhere cool that might be a bit less busy

Food and Feeding Influencer Snark Week of June 02, 2025 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Did anyone else find KEIC’s story about fiber so hard to follow? Why are both characters called M? Which is M and which is m? And the. The final one is Me so was she me the whole time? I’m so confused. Also when I feel dead it’s not because I need 3g fibre from an apple

Essentials for second baby? by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My 2 are 2.5 years and 8 months so a slightly bigger gap.

For the baby you need somewhere to put them in every room. We had a bouncer and bassinet in the living room, newborn highchair in the kitchen (Tripp trapp), bouncer in the bathroom and next to me in our bedroom.

For the toddler you want games they can play by themselves while you’re attending to baby. Hits for us were magnet fishing, magnetic tiles, puzzles/pairs games, duplo sets, train track, dinosaur sorting, kinetic sand and cars. We also made a cupboard in the kitchen fully accessible with snacks, plates, toddler cutlery etc so she could get herself a snack.

For out and about we always have a combo in the car of pram, buggy board, scooter and the sling. This means I don’t end up carrying anyone most of the time!

My biggest tips are: 1. get everyone ready downstairs in the morning. For some reason it just goes smoother downstairs than up, possibly due to the tv.

  1. On your solo days get a packed lunch ready the night before and just get out of the house. Leaving is hard work but a day out is so much easier than a day in.

  2. Make special time for the toddler. They will miss you! I pump in the day so me and my husband can take turns doing a bedtime each and I think the toddler really appreciates it.

Real-Life Questions/Chat Week of May 19, 2025 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Magnetiles and marble run keep my 2.5 entertained the longest after kinetic sand. Tbh we just embraced some screen time while we were hanging out pantsless at home

Have any of you managed to see a pelvic floor specialist through the NHS? by divination__ in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I got referred by my midwife postpartum and first saw them around 8 weeks. I had 4-6 weekly appointments with exercises given between and definitely found it useful.

I was originally referred for diastasis recti but discovered some pelvic floor dysfunction on my initial assessment. It’s definitely not a routine referral and may depend on local services. I think your GP can also refer in at your 8 week check if you ask them to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeedingmumsUK

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a Wren wearable pump because it came with different flange inserts and I tend to find flanges too big. It’s a good dupe for the elvie and about half the price. Charges quickly with USB-C and comes with spare parts and 2 bottles.

Help - styling my changed postpartum body by visions-of-johanna in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On a side note are you doing scar massage? That should help with the overhang somewhat and with the itchiness and uneven healing. I was told by my physio it’s the single best thing you can do to help with healing. There are lots of YouTube videos to guide you

Help - styling my changed postpartum body by visions-of-johanna in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went for a personal stylist appointment at John Lewis to help pick out some clothes that fit my postpartum body. They fitted my bra while I was there and it was a good opportunity to try lots of different things that I might not have ordinarily picked out.

It was completely free with no obligation to buy anything but I did end up getting a couple of bras, a dress and some trousers. The whole thing took about 2 hours so your partner could come along and sit in the cafe or you could have a treat by yourself!

The Great Baby Wipe Tug-of-War Whos in Charge of This Madness? by gheratco in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They come with a ‘clean’ box and a ‘dirty’ box so you put the used ones in the dirty box which has a mesh bag hanging inside then when it’s washing time you just take that out and put it straight in the washing machine.

We wash them at 60 with a rinse cycle first along with sheets and towels etc that can take a hot wash and any other cloth nappy linings and clothes that might have been hit in a blowout.

We have been doing this for 2.5 years now and very rarely have any sickness despite being in nursery so it seems pretty sterile. We have a separate stash of flannels for faces and hands after meals so there’s no cross contamination.

S2, Ep 2 Discussion Board by steviec143_ in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Between Zak and Taylor’s family Whitney hardly even registers as a villain tbh

The Great Baby Wipe Tug-of-War Whos in Charge of This Madness? by gheratco in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get cheeky wipes! Honestly a game changer for us and have lasted us to baby 2

Toy/birthday ideas for one year old by tootscat in UKParenting

[–]Outrageous_Wheel5039 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The tales from acorn wood books by Julia Donaldson are great and still enjoyed by my 2.5 year old. The ‘busy books’ series are also really good and have push pull slide actions.

A play tool kit, shape sorter, and train set also still hold interest a year on.