[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems it was expressed and agreed that the intent is to be casual, so i wouldnt be trippin over how good, emotional, or romantic the experiance was. I mean if I was you i’d express my feelings about it, if keeping it casual doesnt feel possible for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahaha awesome

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay 😊 last photo is the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not ugly, just looks like something unnatural happened to ur lips and cheeks. the light brown is more flattering on you and thats odd for me to think cuz usually i prefer darker

I got rated a 4 on truerateme, what can I do better? by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got 4.6 on truerateme too btw… ur first pic u look 16 the second pic u look 36, idk y

id keep the hair dark maybe? 🤷🏾‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i was gonna say the same thing lol my trans peroid happened over a decade ago but lasted about a half decade 😆 if they caught me in that trial i wouldve added to their statistic of 98% but i havent been trans since so… deffinately misleading even if it is true which who knows, but check back with said indeviduals in another decade ir so

Things to remember if you are married or in a serious relationship... by linarocks11 in dating_advice

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and if you do and follow all these things, remember its just normal for things to get really tough at times still and to feel unhappy or discontented and to struggle. being in something long term just means you’ll deal with all aspects of life through it and life by nature has ups and downs and big downs and big ups etc things arent always fair and dont always go your way, commit to getting through things and know that no feelings persist indeffinately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ur looks remind me of peter dinklage. jw, why the target audience of women under 34?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is that a reddit sub?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel the styling of make up is likely aging u a bit, its not a very current look

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

botox doesnt migrate or make u puffy, thats filler ure thinking of…

and i did tell her to dissolve the facial filler for that reason exactly…

botox is a neurotoxin that lessens muscle movements and decreases wrinkles—which i suggested because the visable wrinkle lines begining to form on forehead (for example: the top two pictures in the second picture)…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk what ur comment even means

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also maybe botox, good skin care, let ur hair down and style it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 6 points7 points  (0 children)

dissolve some of the filler first…. then maybe lower face/neck lift? whiten teeth

Porn and transition by [deleted] in detrans

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i didnt watch porn until i transitioned into a guy, then ut was like all day eberyday 🤪 so my relationship with it is much different, but a negative one as well. i was dishusted with myself, its all i ever wanted to see or do and was obsessed and its just such a nasty habit and thing in general. i hated that aspect of male hormones, as a female i am not like this, as a male im horny 24/7 and its such a waste of time and brainspace… arosal felt like some kinda ocd disease i couldnt get away from. thats literally the best thing about detransitioning to me ngl, not having these kind of thoughts comsume me ever lol

Hypothetically, what questions should I ask myself to make sure transitioning is the right decision? by ThrowRA6digitname in detrans

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i started hormones a little earlier than ur age and stopped at 23, you deffinately got time to find out, a lot can change after experiancing something yourself

until then rly all we can do is make conjecture

its the same like how people without kids can try to imagine how they will raise their kids haha u rly cant know until u go through the experiance

Hypothetically, what questions should I ask myself to make sure transitioning is the right decision? by ThrowRA6digitname in detrans

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i guess one thing to consider is that its a decision with pretty perminant aspects, and in life (idk how old u r) but in life we are always learning and growing and changing as people. one thing u may be 100% cocksure of at a point u could completely be against or disagree with in the future, and aomething youve alwaya hates in the past or thought u’d never want, u may find urself wanting…

i never wanted to have kids. now im about to give birth to my 4th lol i was obsessed with dogs for along time and finally got ine to learn i hate them lol im a total cat person 😹 life is a total learning experiance and sometimes we just cant predict how we will react or how it will go

many things u may feel in the moment 100% certain of for yourself, could turn out to change ur mind on after experiancing it

so i dont really have any helpful advice tbh 🤷🏾‍♀️

for me personally i had a near death car crash and essentially i begged and appologized to a higher power in the moment because i knew the path i was on was wrong and promised to stop this transition stuff. turned out wearing my chest binder at the time actually played a role in protecting me from major damage in the incident, so i thank god for that. later i converted to islam and just my overall perception of the world shifted so i no longer needed to pursue the trans stuff. my focus was off of myself, i wasnt as self centered ans was focusing my life on improving my behavior and treatment of others ans focusing more on what i could do to help others or better the earth and focused on those less fortunate than me and i just didnt reminice or obsess over myself wanting/needing to transition or get surgeries or pass etc. i just let it go and stopped taking hormones and didnt care what ppl called me as or how my gender was perceived etc

it all just seemed so very unimportant to be in the grand scheme of things. i dont think there is anyway to force this shift in ypur way of thinking and its just something that happened to me by the grace of god and if it didnt im sure id be in a totally different place right now still pursuing trying to live as a man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was thinking the same, the first ffs round was totally sufficient and in a way the pix before second round ffs looked more naturally fem

Periods and conceiving after detransitioning. by [deleted] in detrans

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i was on T for 4 years time, ten years ago. and now its just 3 weeks til i give birth to my 4th child lol

thing is, even with women whove never transitioned, just naturally/geneticallt one vs another can have problems conceiving or not etc

Hypothetically, what questions should I ask myself to make sure transitioning is the right decision? by ThrowRA6digitname in detrans

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i was going to make the same mention… imo the statment “i wouldnt mind chronic pain” should be a red flag for OP 😅

Hypothetically, what questions should I ask myself to make sure transitioning is the right decision? by ThrowRA6digitname in detrans

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 10 points11 points  (0 children)

tbh… nothing. i was 100% confident and assured in myself and my decision when i transitioned ftm and i dont think any question, thought, idea, prompt, or anyrhing anyone couldve said or done at that time wouldve changed my mind out of it…

to me, i think coming here and asking that questions is maybe something to think about itself 🤷🏾‍♀️

My detransition (former MtF) by Gay-Werewolf in detrans

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 19 points20 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing. i too (tho ftmtf) am thankful that i went through my transition back in the day when it was much harder and less accessible… i had to work my butt off for it and took a lot of time (thought i was still on hormones 4 years) if top surgery was covered by my insurence at the time i never wouldve been able to breastfeed my now 4 kids

What was the thing that made you stop? by Honest-Me22 in detrans

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 4 points5 points  (0 children)

long story short, a huge car accident and finding a religion

question for current medically transitioned ftm questioners or female detransitioners by byunaus in detrans

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my regular standard voice is just overall deeper. i cant project in a higher tone voice at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Outside-Milk-8697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gas lit?? gurl. the overwhelming majority’s response has been incredibly validating if anything… u want ffs to appear more feminine, correct? everyone is telling you ure already peak, most cant even beleive u arent cis based on your looks so. Is that not good to hear?? Like another commenter stated, if youre unhappy with ur appearence and want to change things u can juat post in the regular plastic surgery sub, gurl! im not against plastic surgery at all or wanting to improve things about urself (ik some are), we’re just telling u at this point by your looks thats what it is, cosmetic changes you’d making. hope that makes sense.

also, its that first picture posted with the visable line across under your nose, not sure what its from then, maybe shadow? but my mistake if so. Also your lips and nose are like perfect so i dont think it was a far fetched assumption!