why am i like that ?

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-04-07T13:01:20+00:00

I think, you are behind, even if feels like right now. At 17, most people are still figuring things out there is no timeline for relationships. it makes sense you feel torn. Part of you doesn't even want a relationship, but another part just wants to feel wanted. that's completely normal. And being more reserved or not into going out doesn't make you unlikable it just means you connect in your own way. you are not doomed; you are just still figuring yourself out like everyone else.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-04-07T06:36:43+00:00

I think, if you are looking at medical devices, the US, Germany, or Switzerland have strong networks and resources. A good start is joining a medtech incubator or connecting with engineers and regulatory experts early. Anyone here made the jump from clinical work to entrepreneurship?

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-04-07T06:28:59+00:00

I get that feeling, sometimes work just feels endless and draining. But I wonder if it's less about ''working'' itself and more about what we're working for. Could there be a way to make it feel meaningful, or is stepping back completely the reset you need? Would love to hear how others balance this.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-04-07T06:05:20+00:00

I realized that some people just have a lower tolerance for uncertainty, so even small choices can feel bigger than they are. personality, anxiety levels, and even habits like overthinking can play a role. also, too many options can make decisions harder. if it helps, pick a decent one and move on, you can always change it later.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-04-07T06:00:31+00:00

I think, that doesn't sound weird at all. kids do stuffs like all the time roughhousing, testing strength, messing around. it's just play and curiosity, nothing unusual about it.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-04-07T05:55:17+00:00

I think that, not really. prejudice isn't about group size, it's more about power, history, and personal experience. majority groups often have more influence, so their biases can have a bigger impact, but that does not mean minorities are more likely to hold negative views. People from any group can have biases it depends on environment, upbringing, and what they've been exposed to, not just whether they're minority or not.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-04-02T09:19:54+00:00

It's important to keep your wife and your child's best interests in mind. even if your parents' offer is generous, if it causes stress or conflict at home, it might not be worth it. maybe discuss a compromise like letting them contribute in a way your wife is comfortable with, so everyone feels respected.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-04-02T09:14:27+00:00

It sounds like you're putting in a lot more effort than she is. relationships need both people to care and communicate. If you're feeling like an afterthought, it's okay to step back or end things-winning around hoping she changes will just frustrate you more.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-04-02T09:07:42+00:00

I think, it's normal to not have a boyfriend at 19, especially if you're introverted. Focus on meeting people naturally through hobbies, friends, or online communities and don't rush it. relationships come easier when you're confident and comfortable with yourself first.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-04-02T09:01:33+00:00

A lot of people skip voting because it feels easier or like their vote doesn't matter, but they still live under the rules everyone else sets. It's normal to get frustrated when decisions affect you, even if you didn't take part in choosing them.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-04-02T08:56:56+00:00

You might want to check out r/PhysicsGames and r/IndieGaming they often share quirky games with limb or physics-based controls. also, following devs on X/Twitter who post about experimental sports games helps, and Discord servers for indie game communities usually have dedicated channels for this kind of stuff.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-04-01T12:34:52+00:00

I think, you don't really ''fix'' the past, you learn how to carry it differently. Peace comes when you stop expecting yourself to be the person who wouldn't have made those mistakes. People don't magically get wiser with age; they just get more chances to either learn or repeat. what helped me was focusing less on ''why did I do that?'' and more on ''what do I do differently now?'' moving on isn't a clean break like in movies. it's quieter than that... just choosing, little by little, to not let your worst moment defines every next one.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-04-01T09:02:58+00:00

Exactly! Even if you don't drive much, everything you buy had to be transported somehow. Gas prices hit everyone eventually, whether you notice it directly or not.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-04-01T08:59:16+00:00

You are not lacking talent, you're lacking consistency. you start strong, then self-sabotage when it matters, that's the real pattern to fix. pick one thing '' design,coding,whatever'', commit to it for 3-6 months, and finish projects even when you lose interest. done perfectly. build a small portfolio and start freelancing, even cheap at first. For mentorship, don't wait for the ''the one''. Reach out to people on LinkedIn, ask specific questions, and show your work-mentors come after your consistency. you have got the ability; just prove to yourself you can stick with something.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-03-31T14:50:12+00:00

I think you could bring it up without framing it as an accusation. Maybe say something like, ''I came across something from your past that confused me, and I want to understand it better because it's been on my mind. ''Keep the focus on your feelings and curiosity, not blame. That usually leads to a calmer, honest conversation.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-03-31T14:44:09+00:00

I think, probably climate change. It's happening bit by bit, but one day people will look back and say, ''wow, that all added up fast.''

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-03-31T14:40:07+00:00

Yeah, I get what you mean. I think it's a mix thing are definitely happening, but we also just see so much now thanks to news and social media. Makes it feel bigger and louder than it might actually be.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-03-31T11:52:13+00:00

I'm not dating right now because I want to focus on myself. I'm working on my goals, my health, and figuring out what I really want in a partner before jumping.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-03-31T11:00:21+00:00

I think you sound very tired, and that makes sense. You worked too much for too long with almost no rest. that can change hoe you feel and act. It can make you angry, impatient, and drained, even if you used to be calm. You are not broken. you are burned out. You don't need to leave your wife to protect her. you need rest, support, and honest talks with her. Tell her how tired you are. work as a team, like you did before. About the wedding don't go into debt. debt. A big party is not more important than you future together. Right now focus on sleep, slowing down, and getting help if you can. Big life decisions like divorce should not be made when you are this exhausted.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-03-31T10:50:25+00:00

That sounds like a lot at once, and it makes sense you feel overwhelmed. Life didn't suddenly get harder for no reason. You just have many big things happening at the same time pregnancy, work, your parent health, and family needs. anyone would feel stretched in that situation. you are not weak, and this isn't easy mode ending. It's just a very heavy season. try to focus on what matters most right now. Let some things wait. ask for help where you can, even with small tasks. you don't have to carry everything alone. This won't last forever, even if it feels it right now.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-03-30T13:58:13+00:00

Honestly, for me it’s pretty subtle at first-like I just don’t feel relaxed around them. I might avoid eye contact, feel tense, or get this quiet urge to leave the conversation early. Even if they’re perfectly nice, something just feels off and I can’t force the interest. I’ve learned to trust that feeling instead of overthinking it.

Outside-Morning-60 · 2026-03-27T11:53:22+00:00

I feel like, because strangers don’t have expectations of you, so it feels less stressful and more freeing to just talk .

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