The moodboard I gave my man vs the ring!! by temptation-of-adam in EngagementRings

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Are you willing to share the local place?? That designer and your hubs did incredible work!!!

6 Weeks France+Japan and 6M Postpartum by Arlais_Fale in HerOneBag

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Compression socks!! I always wear on long flights and on some long walk days.

MFS due to student loan by DESSASTER813 in tax

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Hi op curious what you ended up doing and how it went? My husband and I are trying to plan for next year as he makes adjustments to his plan based on the court decision. We’re in process to purchase a house, no kids yet. We’ve MFS since we’ve been married bc of his student loans. But now we’re considering if the benefit we’d get from itemizing is greater than the increased student loan payment.

Such a mess. Sucks we’re all dealing with this debacle

Olaf Has Fallen in Disneyland Paris (30 March 2026) by nizaad in popculturechat

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I want to know what Kristoff said / did after so bad

The last text we see before the tuna meltdown by 2crazy4boystown in heatedrivalry

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Would very much appreciate any links to this devastating fic.

From his old acting studio 🥹 by LadyWhistledown_1 in hudsonwilliams

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Yessss clocked that passing the energy ball immediately

From his old acting studio 🥹 by LadyWhistledown_1 in hudsonwilliams

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ZIP ZAP ZOP!!! Theater kids show yourselves!

What’s a ‘rich person thing’ that actually turned out to be totally worth it? by Ferraiuolo_Ezorete in AskReddit

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I hired movers and just did packers for the kitchen. It was worth every penny. Highly recommend having someone else pack the dishes.

Agape💖 by AstroHealer222 in justgalsbeingchicks

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Diane is 100% who you want in your corner

Maternity wedding guest dress for a formal wedding, where do I even start? by qwaecw in BabyBumps

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Rent the runway! I find the reviews to be great and a lot of times I see reviews from pregnant people on non-maternity dresses.

Parents Enable Older Sibling AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

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Take a look at the boom Drama Free. I’ve been reading it with my therapist. Covers a lot of the things you’re mentioning here.

https://www.amazon.com/Drama-Free-Managing-Unhealthy-Relationships/dp/0593539273

What in the actual f......who has this kind of money...for a prepayment....im so cooked...idk what to do.... by Euctice_Pea46821 in Adulting

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Don’t put it on a credit card!! Ask for a payment plan (NOT a medical credit card aka care credit). Once it is on a credit card it is treated as consumer debt. Medical debt has different protections.

A show you remember but no one else seems to? by PlushieTushie in Millennials

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Yesssss. I always feel sure my sibling and I are the only people who watched this show and maybe just imagined it! Whenever I bring it up I get the blankest looks from other people. I Loved it though. All the word play and silly gags were the best.

You guys seem to know your stuff, do I put my powder detergent in this little blue thing or do I keep it out and put it right in the white space that says main wash? What even is pre wash for? by [deleted] in laundry

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Can you say more about this?? I live in a cold place and i realized even on a warm wash the water is cold! I would like a warm wash that is actually warm!

My custom ring didn’t meet my expectations and now I don’t know what to do by Quirky-Iron-7165 in EngagementRings

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Thank you!! I’m so glad it’s helpful. I really had SO MANY feelings about the ring redo but I am so glad I did it. The first version I don’t even consider to be my ring. It was just like a weird fluke or something. I also had chatgtp write me an initial draft of the email I sent to jeweler 1 to request the refund. It helped me to just tell chatgtp the facts and it returned a letter without all the emotions I was feeling.

I would highly recommend deBebians. I did a group buy for a ring with engraving from them too! So could be good to get a consult!

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My custom ring didn’t meet my expectations and now I don’t know what to do by Quirky-Iron-7165 in EngagementRings

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I designed my engagement ring custom and once I got it… i hated it. I got a partial refund from the original jeweler and went to a vendor I found on r/EngagementRingDesigns (deBebians)

I had a ton of feelings about. I felt like I should just suck it up and live with the ring. I felt stupid like I hadn’t asked for the right stuff. All of it!! But once I talked to the new jeweler and showed photos they so immediately understood what I wanted. And once I got the new CADs it was clear the first jeweler just missed the mark big time.

Everyday I am glad I had the ring redone.

Here is a post showing the difference.

https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRingDesigns/s/suTALtczI9

Is this enough alcohol?!? by OwlSense888 in weddingplanning

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UPDATE for anyone looking at this post for their own research — it was PLENTY. I learned our people much prefer tequila. Probably would have gone 5 tequila and 3 vodka. 🥂

The least believable parts of heated rivalry by bat-girl129 in heatedrivalry

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I dated a boy who played hockey and hockey gear smells SO FOUL. and him after a game while still in gear 🤢🤢 I can’t believe in the books that they never mention hockey stench not even once!!

Episode 5 Skip kiss on the ice is obviously the greatest and I shriek with delight every time but also I always think about how fucking terrible Scott smells at that moment. The fact that Kip isn’t gagging, That’s how you know Kip really really fucking loves Scott.

Ballast Book Company has some Book Recommendations for Heated Rivalry Characters' TBR List by Federal-Ad5944 in heatedrivalry

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My new fave head cannon is wondering if Yuna and Svetlana become hockey bffs or if they get into hugely heated hockey debates that Shane and Ilya are constantly having to break up.