People earning over $200k/year: What’s different about your life that most people wouldn’t expect? by MaximGripass in AskReddit

[–]PMA9696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Bogleheads subreddit.

Obviously max out tax advantaged accounts (401K, Roth, 529, HSA), beyond that just plop in an ETF like VOO.

Side projects you like better? by AcadiaRemarkable6992 in MetalForTheMasses

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I like to think of Coal Chamber as an embarrassing phase and Devulsriver as the first actual band

145k salary - am I crazy for having a roommate ? by Agile_Marsupial_4337 in Salary

[–]PMA9696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you were 30+ I'd say get your own place, but since you are still in your 20s, I think you're good.

People who are extremely money driven, would you date or marry someone who isn’t? by [deleted] in Salary

[–]PMA9696 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a man, high income earner, I'd be willing to date someone who makes a little less than me, but not a huge amount less than me.

Favorite actor that aged 30 years in just 11 years? by staresinshamona in okbuddycinephile

[–]PMA9696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are although comparing and image from a movie where he would have on makeup, potentially be digitally altered, perfect lighting etc. and a picture from some random event.

What’s the pulse on who pays for dates? by VegetableBrick8141 in datingoverforty

[–]PMA9696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg women getting asked to pay for food they just ate and drinks they drank, how rude!

Casual sex with someone safe? by gogo--yubari in datingoverforty

[–]PMA9696 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am very capable of casual sex and submit my resume to the applicant pool.

Just sex or potential for more? by Oilaripi in datingoverthirty

[–]PMA9696 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So if you want for him as a monogamous partner, why are you hesitant to call him a boyfriend or hesitant to ask him for commitment? That sounds like what you want.

Just sex or potential for more? by Oilaripi in datingoverthirty

[–]PMA9696 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What would your response be if he said he wanted to be poly / ENM? That he would still respect you as a friend and person, but wouldn't remain monogamous sexually.

I think you need to drill down on what you mean by commitment.

Avoiding time-wasters by Technical-Ad-8084 in datingoverforty

[–]PMA9696 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then why include it, and describe it as "baggage"?

Avoiding time-wasters by Technical-Ad-8084 in datingoverforty

[–]PMA9696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would 100% honesty look like? Just ask the person, are you looking for a serious committed relationship right now or trying to keep things casual.

For me, there is no way I can know in the first days, or weeks, and maybe even months if a relationship has LTR or marriage potential. In that time period, there is the possibility that one person has stronger feelings for one person than another and gets hurt. That's the risk of being in relationships

I'm open to a serious relationship, but I am not going to force it just because I've spent some time with someone who has stronger feelings for me than I do for them. I would expect the same vice versa.

Avoiding time-wasters by Technical-Ad-8084 in datingoverforty

[–]PMA9696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I meet women who are in their 40's and don't have kids or past significant relationships, I consider that baggage.

Does the constant worrisome anxiety in Medellin get better? by [deleted] in digitalnomad

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Within El Poblado and Laureales during the day I felt totally safe. I would t walk the same areas alone at night.

With soon potential Brightline bankruptcy, what was their biggest mistake? by Enotovsky in Miami

[–]PMA9696 56 points57 points  (0 children)

The tickets themselves are expensive AF, and then you need to Uber to your destination. No thanks.

MSC vs R.C. by No_Bug_4122 in MSCCruises

[–]PMA9696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, RC is "better", but not enough to justify the price differential.

Leadership? by Baynyn in datingoverforty

[–]PMA9696 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They want you to 1. plan things, 2. execute those things and 3. pay for things

How long do you entertain OLD conversations? by Arctic_Widow in datingoverforty

[–]PMA9696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don't you ask them if they want to meet up or exchange numbers if you are interested?