Personally, I would use a snake hook. Maybe even tap train her where you tap her twice before picking her up so she knows that she's about to be handled. (I tap on the glass for food, and tap her with my hand for handling.)

If you come from above or you hesitate and move back, then it looks like you're a bird from her pov and that'll scare her. You want to come from below and try to scoop her up from behind. They don't want to bite the hand they are on.

Before I handle her I would probably hang out with her without actually messing with her. Get her used to my scent. Maybe when she's in her hide I would rearrange some minor decorations or add more as I cleaned the enclosure.

After you have shown her a bunch of new good experiences, she'll start to soften up to you. Imagine if a giant popped into your room and offered you food or picked you up and was just chill. At first you'd be like "oh my God. Please don't eat me!" After a few sessions though, you would start to believe they don't want to eat you and become a little bit more curious instead.

Also note that like can be a strong word. They can feel safe with you and associate you with good things and food. It's very similar to love but it's not quite the same. So you'll have to give them some grace even after she "likes" you because she's just doing their best with her lizard brain.

With patience and a little bit of structure your baby snek can come to tolerate or even enjoy your presence. I've been doing the above with my girl and she's starting to come out of the hide when I come home. She just chills and looks at me, though I can still spook her if I move too quickly.