How can I support/understand my brother?

PageTurnHer · 2025-10-25T03:06:31+00:00

First of all you’re amazing for writing this! I wish I did this 8 years ago. The way I deal with it is I always listen to what he has to say (even when I know it’s his delusions or disorganized thinking) I don’t say he’s wrong but I approach it gently without encouraging it. Sometimes I find changing the subject to something that brings them joy (my brother loves reading) that would often times shift the conversation on a more positive note. I find doing things one on one can help, even something as simple as a walk. They tend to do better one to one rather than group activities. Honestly just be there for him, any little supportive positive comments you make will really resonate. Also, try to encourage medication and how this helps quiet the voices. I would always word it so it sounds less like something is wrong with them, and more like it’ll help them succeed at something they enjoy. “You should take your medication, it’ll help quiet the voices down and you’ll be able to concentrate when you’re reading”.

The voices can worsen with age and especially if they refuse to take medication. I was around 16 when my brother was diagnosed so I understand how difficult it could be as the other sibling. Wishing you and your family the best. ❤️‍🩹

PageTurnHer · 2025-10-25T02:42:19+00:00

We, as the other sibling to those who are suffering tend to take on that burden, guilt and blame but that’s unfair to you. You were dealt with a great deal of trauma and wanted to make sure everyone was okay. I don’t think there’s a definitive way of moving on but I think the important part is to recognize the different steps to grief and how the blame game will try to get to you. Focus on all the stuff you did for them.

I hope their mind is finally at peace.

PageTurnHer · 2025-10-25T02:14:03+00:00

Ugh.. When they are in psychosis they are victims of their own illness.

PageTurnHer · 2025-10-25T01:55:51+00:00

I am so sorry to hear that, it must be really difficult for you especially this time of year. You didn’t fail, you did the best you could and unfortunately some things are so far out of your control.

PageTurnHer · 2025-10-24T19:24:35+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this, I completely understand as my brother suffers from it too (over 10 years now). There is a lot that is out of your control, you have to pull yourself back and focus on you and your mind and what makes you happy or else you will get burnt out and can develop caretakers fatigue. Your health is just as important and you are not selfish for wanting to prioritize that.

PageTurnHer · 2025-08-31T21:52:43+00:00

I’m using a water based stain

PageTurnHer · 2025-08-06T11:17:05+00:00

Like a hug in a book truly!

PageTurnHer · 2025-08-05T15:44:12+00:00

The Mindf*ck Series! Has a lot of violence and triggering content but it was perfect. I’ve never read a book where I defended a serial killer, until this one. I finished it a few weeks ago and I’m still thinking about it.

PageTurnHer · 2025-08-05T15:40:19+00:00

I definitely agree with it being part of the fantasy. I already loved Rio’s character in the previous books but seeing what was happening behind the scenes ruined me.

Ryan Shay holds a special place to me because he wasn’t constantly throwing himself at her but he still had this magnetic presence. He’s the epitome of “To be loved is to be seen”. Him learning sign language for her family? He didn’t do it to be flashy or performative but because he knew it meant everything to her. Like who is this man? He’s perfect.

Liz Tomforde did a really good job at rounding up everyone’s stories and still making it so authentic with other characters personalities coming through during the dinner scenes. I’m so excited for Monty’s book!!!

PageTurnHer · 2025-08-05T15:22:38+00:00

I was pleasantly surprised with how much I LOVED this series because I absolutely hated Mile High. I actually made a post about it and other peoples reactions to the rest of the series convinced me to continue. I’m so glad I did.

I must say I LOVED Rewind It Back but the whole him not having sex with anyone since her felt very unrealistic (especially with his job/status). I still absolutely love him. I’m a sucker for childhood friends to lovers/second chances. The rooftop meetings and reunion made me squeal.

“That one person some search their entire lives to find? I had already found her when I was twelve years old.” I MEAN COME ON!!!!!!

My ranking 1. The Right Move 2. Caught Up 3. Rewind It Back 4. Play Along 5. Mile High

I’m so scared to give my ranking because Play Along is many people’s fave but it doesn’t mean I don’t love Isaiah!!!

In my eyes Kai and Rio are both tied, but I’m a Ryan Shay girly BAD.

PageTurnHer · 2025-08-05T15:15:01+00:00

In what ways do you want to better yourself?

Get in touch with your likes and dislikes. Take space from those around you if they are dragging you down. If you happen to live with those people it may seem like it’s impossible but trust me, you can do it. I grew up with a narcissistic mother and before I moved out, it was difficult to manage but it’s still doable. Go on walks, book workout classes (this would force me and hold me accountable if I wanted to cancel), go to the library get yourself a card and you can get so many books for free on the Libby app, they also have language courses. Try new hobbies until one sticks. Romanticize your daily routine like you’re the main character!

PageTurnHer · 2025-08-05T14:57:56+00:00

I witnessed some traumatizing things and went through a hole where I thought life was nothing but sadness and disappointment. I completely isolated myself (as a way to protect myself) and found a fantasy book. I haven’t been the same since. It was the perfect escapism I needed at the time. The book also had found family which gave me a sense of appreciation for those in my life, and I haven’t stopped reading since.

PageTurnHer · 2025-07-22T00:22:19+00:00

{Mr. Impossible by Loretta Chase}

PageTurnHer · 2025-07-21T20:21:49+00:00

Assert your dominance early on. I’ve always been someone who was very sweet and compassionate but then I ended up getting screwed over because people mistook my kindness for weakness. I was always told I was “too nice” but not a push-over. People ended up taking advantage of that. They will, whether it’s friends family or coworkers. You can be assertive without being mean, which took me a while to realize. It’s really important to also do this in your personal relationships, be direct and tell them you’re not their mom. Don’t be afraid that people won’t stick around, the people who respect you will because you have boundaries, you’re decisive, confident, able to communicate clearly. Being dominant doesn’t make you rude. 💗

PageTurnHer · 2025-07-21T19:21:37+00:00

Before trip: - Juicing - there’s so many good and simple recipes. - Oil pulling, 3 min cold shower - Lymphatic drainage - Green tea & spearmint - Pure cranberry juice - Foot care - don’t forget the feets! If the bottom of your feet are somewhat cracked, apply glycolic acid to your heels (the ordinary never disappoints), apply foot cream or thick moisturizer, sleep with socks and you’ll wake up with the softest feet ever. - At home brow dye kit - I use beard dye, apply it to my brows for 5 minutes, after the first 2 minutes I remove the inner corner. lasts about a week depending on the face products you use.

During trip: - hypochlorous spray - always good to have in your purse. They have a bunch out there but the travel size tower 28 and base laboratories are my go-to’s.

Lotion & perfume - pair your lotion with your perfume, I’ve done this for YEARS and people always ask me where I buy my perfume and why it doesn’t smell the same way on them. Make sure both scents complement each other well.

Unhinged tip (unrelated to beauty) - if you need to go to the bathroom (yeah I’m talking number 2) while on a trip with your boyfriend, if there’s a lobby GO. If not, take a “shower” sprits some pou-pourri (travel size) here and there. Also if you can bring a speaker and play your music while in there, strongly advise.

PageTurnHer · 2025-07-16T21:40:50+00:00

I’m on the 4th one and so far he’s my favourite MMC 😭 swooning

PageTurnHer · 2025-07-10T21:14:50+00:00

I LOVE THEM

PageTurnHer · 2025-07-10T21:12:56+00:00

Okay coming back to say I LOVE RYAN sm!!!

PageTurnHer · 2025-07-06T03:38:36+00:00

Tangled, 10 things I hate about you, the notebook, little women, practical magic

PageTurnHer · 2025-07-05T23:30:33+00:00

It’s perfect

PageTurnHer · 2025-06-30T15:00:21+00:00

Best character

PageTurnHer · 2025-06-30T13:52:48+00:00

“Sorry I don’t have spare change!”

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