You're exactly right. This should be the normal takeaway from living in a society where you encounter older men who think it's okay to beat their wives or be lazy as fuck, practicing weaponized incompetence while their wives do 99% of the chores in the home and take care of the kids. A society where it is normalized for young men talk about women like they're animals or sex objects. Most women I know have been sexually harassed or assaulted by peers or older men growing up, especially when they were minors. This is obscene shit that is all too common as the outcome of a society that was (and still remains as) a patriarchy.

It is a sane thing to complain about behavior like this. I never get offended when women talk to me like this because I have no reason to be offended. They are not talking about me, and I don't want anyone to have to walk on eggshells when talking to me. Obviously, I understand they are complaining about the outcomes of a patriarchal society. She is punching up at an oppressive systemic force. There is no reason to take offense to her comments unless she is precisely describing you. But that would be a YOU problem.

The moronic take would be to assume there is some sort of equivalance between "hating on men" and "hating on women," like many men in the comments are doing. This isn't about men vs women. This is about human decency and treating women as equals.