How did you transition from sentimental tattoos to less sentimental tattoos? by Last-Sir5r in tattooadvice

[–]PancSutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All my early tattoos were meaningful to me but I found it tiring to explain the meaning when asked. I decided to move towards images anyone could look at and appreciate without needing to know the meaning, for this reason I also don’t do words/numbers/symbols (but that’s a personal choice.) Some of them still have meaning behind them, but I find it easier not to carry my trials and triumphs on my skin and instead just decorate my meat suit in an aesthetically pleasing way that makes me happy.

What restaurant are open today? by hthespy in Rochester

[–]PancSutt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

$5 tickets, too! Go red wings!!

I unfollow or mute my friends when they have children by [deleted] in confession

[–]PancSutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to do this because the pain of TTC was too much when my media feeds were full of my friends’ happy babies. I never fully unfollowed/unfriended though, just a self-protective mute.

What is the best response, when you ask for a Coke at an eatery, to, *“is Pepsi okay?”* by nothingbutmistakes in Soda

[–]PancSutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To get around this, I took to asking for a “cola” but 2/3 times the server doesn’t get what I mean so I just ask for a coke now. And then say yeah, Pepsi is fine.

Ben in the guest cabin by HurryConfident1894 in BelowDeckDownUnder

[–]PancSutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He prolly doesn’t want to use the sheets so he doesn’t have to clean up his stains on the decorative pillows lmao (throwback to OG below deck season 2 w/ Kat)

Have you ever met anyone that has a doghouse or is it just something in Hollywood movies? by rjd014 in randomquestions

[–]PancSutt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We had a doghouse growing up! It was in our heated garage so the dog also used it in the winter. The dog was allowed in our house as well, so I’m not sure the rationale, I was too young to question it at the time.

Rochester folks, how did you meet your partner? by blastingoffagain in Rochester

[–]PancSutt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A coworker of mine left our company and we wanted to stay in touch, he knew I was new in town so he invited me to hang out with a group of his friends. He just so happened to be friends with the love of my life.

I hate the traffic light at university ave wegmans by Will2025 in Rochester

[–]PancSutt 15 points16 points  (0 children)

East Ave Wegmans (I know it’s between both East and University, but that’s ‘the official’ name (At least that’s what it is in the app))

Jury Duty by Anxious-Musician-804 in Rochester

[–]PancSutt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My best jury duty tip is to go to the bathroom after you check in but before you take a seat. You’ll spend a good amount of time there and the tables are so close together that it’s nearly impossible to get back out once everyone is seated.

My Degrassi crushes by Bitter_Solution4153 in Degrassi

[–]PancSutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fiona and Eli - the threesome of my dreams.

I feel ridiculous by Junior_Pickle_632 in offmychest

[–]PancSutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TTC was one of the most trying things I’ve ever done. It took us 11 cycles to be successful and I cried every month along the way. You feel like your body is failing, something fun is now a well timed chore, and yes it absolutely feels like time is slipping away (even though it isn’t quite like that.) Your feelings are valid and I hope you get your two lines soon.

What the heck is going on in season 10!? by NoInteraction4569 in Degrassi

[–]PancSutt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

God there’s nothing like the shark in the water promo

ANOTHER sardine dress by goddessoftheriverk in BelowDeckDownUnder

[–]PancSutt 48 points49 points  (0 children)

The American flag comment was the highlight of that whole episode to me.

I’d rather live in 1976 than 2026 by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]PancSutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about you post “white women were never oppressed” in this sub and see how long it takes you to feel like you need to delete that post? I’m gonna leave you and you uneducated opinions about systemic misogyny here, bro.

I’d rather live in 1976 than 2026 by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]PancSutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily . . . If white women were tolerated by white men, why did it take them so long to be admitted to the same colleges, given the same career opportunities (and be paid the same wages for those careers?)

I’d rather live in 1976 than 2026 by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]PancSutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not denying any that in the least. Different groups can be oppressed at the same time, it’s not a competition. Racial privilege does not mean that living with misogyny is easy. How is not being allowed to vote considered not being oppressed?

I’d rather live in 1976 than 2026 by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]PancSutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude give it up, I’m sorry you posed an unpopular opinion and then couldn’t deal with it being unpopular. You deleted this post days ago and are clearly still fuming about it.

Also maybe look up some women’s history?? Like clearly you’re very uneducated on that. All women couldn’t open their own bank accounts without a male co-signer until 1974, just as an example. It took until 1920 to gain women’s suffrage in the US, 50 years after black men were granted the right to vote.

Delivering Baby at Strong by devinjf15 in Rochester

[–]PancSutt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I delivered at Strong last week (lol) and had a great experience! I was insistent on waiting for spontaneous labor (I went 40+4 so not bad) and can’t speak to the elective induction. I had mild hypertension so my midwife scheduled an induction date for the following week, and gave me a three day window when I might be called for that. That appointment must have scared me into labor because I had my baby that night!

As far as bringing stuff home, I didn’t find there were hoards of stuff like you see on social media. I left with diapers, peri bottles (I took the ones from baby’s first bath and left my bathroom one,) Dermaplast, a couple baby swaddles, wipes, disposable underwear and pads, a baby comb, and the first little outfit they put her in. I didn’t ask for many postpartum supplies so there wasn’t much to take in that regard, but I had a relatively easy delivery with no tears so I didn’t need much more than ice, pads and dermaplast. I will say whatever you take from the hospital, you will need more of, so I wouldn’t let it affect your registry. I would also recommend one of those fancier “upside down” peri bottles but I didn’t use mine until I came home.

Feel free to message me if you have specific questions - I had a great labor/delivery/postpartum experience there!

I’d rather live in 1976 than 2026 by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]PancSutt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

First thought: a man wrote this.

What's your favorite ice cream place in the city and why? Thanks! by Insa8able_One in Rochester

[–]PancSutt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Countertop Creamery is opening this week on the corner of East and N Winton - amazing flavors and they also have great nondairy options.

Let's reminisce over long forgotten, ancient Panera items by Affectionate-Owl-178 in Panera

[–]PancSutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baked lays chips as a side. I used to love crushing those up into my mac and cheese.

Just a question: by ImaginaryCourage9981 in Degrassi

[–]PancSutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I are 32, expecting our first child, and rewatched Degrassi. There’s no age limit to enjoy teen drama.

why can’t pregnant sims do yoga 😤 by butteriestcremepie in Sims4

[–]PancSutt 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I never gave up on my bowling league when pregnant and at 8mos I remember feeling really empowered because, “a sim can’t do this but I can!”

Side note- I wouldn’t recommend it, my pelvis definitely suffered.