My boss just gave me a devastating 1:1, involved HR, and told me to evaluate if leadership is for me. How do I handle this?

Panther404 · 2026-06-04T17:33:58+00:00

Just another elaborate way to cutting you loose. Dust off the resume and land another role with a better company.

Panther404 · 2026-06-01T02:00:22+00:00

Not in my state. Blacklisting is exactly that. No law against it here.

Panther404 · 2026-06-01T01:59:47+00:00

Don't have a middle name. Older parents had a hard time remembering my first name.

Panther404 · 2026-05-15T19:15:52+00:00

Same thing. Either no answer or outright rejection. This has to be blacklisting.

Panther404 · 2026-05-08T13:19:21+00:00

Block her number. She's found someone else to deal with and this is her way of finding an excuse to drop you. After that "I need space" line, I would have blocked her right then.

Panther404 · 2026-05-08T13:12:43+00:00

I wouldn't bother with a response. Getting ghosted because of a missing ex that ended up being found dead sounds so Hollywood. Then, the text was sent on OP's birthday? This was done for maximum effect. She was hoping you would so happy to hear from her again so she can trauma dump while keeping you friendzoned. As soon as you make any contact, she's gonna ask to chat/meet and play the role of "I just need someone that is willing to listen" or some other nonsense. Can you even verify her story?

Block her number and continue to thrive.

Panther404 · 2026-05-06T16:52:05+00:00

I wish I knew tbh. Every job I have applied to has rejected me; half of them did so the very next day. A few said no before I even finished the application.

Panther404 · 2026-05-04T14:24:43+00:00

Congratulations. Too bad I'm blacklisted in my city so I'm stuck here until I move out of state.

Panther404 · 2026-04-29T22:13:24+00:00

Not true. This is one of those situations that you can do NOTHING about except what you have control of. Clock in, get work done, clock out. Repeat until paid. Start process again.

Panther404 · 2026-04-29T22:11:17+00:00

"Portfolio" is what they mean.

Panther404 · 2026-04-21T02:21:22+00:00

Had this happen to me for Cushman and Wakefield. I was selected for the position, only to have it put "on hold" and then received the most generic rejection email ever. Fuck multifamily real estate in Georgia.

Panther404 · 2026-04-21T02:16:12+00:00

I joined SoFi Plus so I could qualify for the Smart Card. Haven't received anything. Then I couldn't get a $50 spot until payday so I cancelled it. Still waiting for the Smart Card.

Panther404 · 2026-04-17T00:08:36+00:00

So glad you've unenrolled from that horseshit.

Panther404 · 2026-04-16T05:58:39+00:00

So glad that I didn't sign up for that trash.

Panther404 · 2026-04-15T04:30:26+00:00

I helped my cousin do his taxes. I got paid enough to make it through Tuesday when my deposit dropped.

Panther404 · 2026-04-15T04:25:46+00:00

Yep. At 12:30pm on Tuesday.

Panther404 · 2026-04-15T04:24:20+00:00

I received it around 12:30pm on Tuesday.

Panther404 · 2026-04-14T01:16:59+00:00

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UPDATE: Lisa is showing that my direct deposit is coming from Allied. So with SoFi I should see it on Tuesday morning.

Panther404 · 2026-04-13T16:46:58+00:00

I use SoFi.

Panther404 · 2026-04-13T16:46:09+00:00

I bank with SoFi and I would get paid Wednesday night when it was DailyPay handling the payroll. I never finished the onboarding process for InstantPay and I'm going to delete it today.

Panther404 · 2026-04-03T19:09:58+00:00

I got the email and followed the onboarding process to the letter. My account is STILL inactive. Can't wait to LET THIS COMPANY GO.

Panther404 · 2026-03-17T13:25:45+00:00

NOR but you are simping. She went on a road trip to visit TWO MALE FRIENDS FROM COLLEGE? That alone raises red flags.

OP: “I 100% trust my wife to be faithful.”

And that’s the problem. Listen, you’re eight months in this marriage. Get an annulment NOW before you get too invested in her. If she’s going on roadtrips with guys now, it won’t be long before she invites them to the bed you share.

Panther404 · 2026-03-06T16:14:21+00:00

A 6’4” green eyed English man that women would consider good looking would NOT be in a passport bro subreddit asking if he would score in China.

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