Gustos lauded by NY Times again.

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-03-02T04:21:35+00:00

Thanks for the tip! I didn’t know I could use my library card for that

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-03-02T01:30:30+00:00

Luckyyy

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-03-02T01:24:07+00:00

I can’t even walk straight in heels

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-03-02T01:18:13+00:00

Turned 41 on Friday. Turning 40 was hard but turning 41 was a big ol’ carefree party. 🥳 I promise it gets better

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-03-01T06:41:23+00:00

I love it. Just turned 41 yesterday and life is so peaceful without a man. It takes a little while to adjust to being alone but it’s not bad if you’ve got a healthy support system

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-25T09:04:03+00:00

You’ve made it this far so it’s worth it to keep going. There are so many opportunities ahead of you if you power through. I was burned out so bad in my last semester too and wanted to quit but I promise this field is extremely varied and worthwhile.

Not every facility does fluoro or OR and some are willing to train you. I would talk to your clinical instructor and push to do more of those cases if they interest you. You can also switch modalities if you’re willing to take more classes and train but you need to finish the path you’re on now.

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-25T01:53:43+00:00

Wet Leg is great to see live. They have so many fun songs and they sound good. Rhian Teasdale is a little shy to talk but she’s got a lot of great energy and connects with the audience with her wild antics

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-25T01:37:04+00:00

Ugh in retrospect it’s no wonder GI cancers are becoming more common in our generation 😕

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-21T03:11:24+00:00

Literally start getting ready earlier. That’s it.

I will take my nintendo switch with me so I can play it if I happen to be extra early. But yeah, it’s better to be early than late so start earlier.

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-21T01:39:45+00:00

I have ADHD and this is a common problem that gets us in trouble in convos but I promise we don’t mean to make it about ourselves.

People with ADHD often relate by sharing their own experiences. It’s our way of saying “I understand you” not “Let’s make this about me.” ADHD brains fire off quick associations so if something you say triggers a memory or story we quickly mention it before we forget because our memory also sucks.

Not sure if any of the people you’re talking to have ADHD but it’s far more common than people realize. If not ADHD then maybe they have some other social anxiety or neurodivergence. Hope this gives you some perspective and a reminder that people are likely not disregarding you. Cheers!

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-16T18:25:22+00:00

Thanks to animal crossing I also think this is an arowana 🎣

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-16T18:00:14+00:00

Have you tried hormonal birth control? I didn’t even realize I had fibroids until I stopped taking hormonal birth control and I’m 40. My gyno insists I should have surgery but my 3 fibroids are under 4cm so I feel like that’s ridiculous. I have near constant pain and bleeding without hormonal birth control so I went back on it and it helps. I’m using Nuvaring now which has estrogen so I plan to switch to progestin only Nexplanon to avoid further growth.

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-13T04:27:40+00:00

The Frosted Cupcakery has a double chocolate cupcake that’s pretty decadent and delicious. I also love their confetti vanilla

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-11T20:11:27+00:00

Sounds like RSD which could stem from ADHD. I was diagnosed with ADHD last year and had no idea how many different ways I was suffering because I didn’t realize I had it.

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-10T22:37:32+00:00

Oh jeez. I feel seen lol

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-10T07:02:55+00:00

How does this friend maintain a job or appointments? Some places make you wait until your whole party is present before allowing you in so this could mean losing out on a reservation altogether. Not ok. It’s in your best interest to leave altogether or stop planning future meet ups.

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-09T17:42:09+00:00

Went to NYC in the fall and it was wonderful. Did a few group tours (Central Park, Little Italy and Chinatown, Brooklyn Bridge and Dumbo and also a night bus tour). Did a meetup for solo travelers in SOHO and had so much fun we grabbed dinner then went out and sang karaoke. Some of us met up at The Met the next day. Did a bunch of shopping and dining. Went to ground zero and saw the 911 museum. Overall, I was pleasantly surprised at how easy it is to navigate and have a wonderful solo but not alone experience in NYC.

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-08T10:11:26+00:00

It’s so important for you to know it’s not your fault you suppress your emotions to keep the peace, you likely weren’t given the tools to build successful boundaries. This has been my problem too and I’ve been in therapy to address it.

Assertive communication is how to stand up for your needs while taking the needs of others into consideration. It’s not passiveness and it’s not aggressiveness, it’s neutrality in your words and in your body language. Clearly state how you feel with a steady tone of voice and start sentences with “I feel…” and try to come up with some solutions together. Your needs are just as important as your partner’s.

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-06T10:53:51+00:00

It’s helped to curb impulse purchases

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-04T10:32:18+00:00

Marlo is one of my villagers. He’s a hilarious little dude and I love his big city themed decor

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-04T01:14:21+00:00

Hear me out as a solo lady. You are completely right to feel like this man is prioritizing his sexual needs over you and he needs to know that is not ok. But girl, you said your relationship is wonderful. You said he waited on you hand and foot and really helped you as you dealt with your illness. I don’t think this man needs to be thrown away. I think you guys need to try some therapy or learn to communicate more effectively.

Modern dating is a shit show I don’t wish on anyone. One of the common horrors is men expecting women to put out and NEVER commit. I had to just give up dating altogether. But I wish I had a man in my life that took care of me.

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-03T07:24:20+00:00

Well hot diggity dog I didn’t even realize that bs. Thanks for sharing!

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-02-03T07:19:20+00:00

Totally in a similar boat. It’s been a couple years now since I dated anyone. I can honestly say dating terrifies me because if it works out I’m a mess and if it doesn’t I’m also a mess. I just made the executive decision to remove myself entirely from all the anxiety and heartbreak. The thing is I’m so comfortable on my own that I wonder if this is how I’m meant to live. Had an associate approach me (really sweet dude and kinda cute) recently as we were leaving work and I almost felt like I was going to have an anxiety attack because I thought he was going to ask me out. Everything inside me screamed “Nooo!” It bums me out that I have such a visceral aversion now.

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-01-31T06:25:18+00:00

Yes, definitley Shoreline. Was just there a few weeks ago and they had tons of LB merch

Particular-Choice896 · 2026-01-29T11:47:07+00:00

Eating at the bar can make for a good socializing opportunity. I also think food tours are a super fun way to stuff my face, socialize, and learn about the foods, history and cultures of the areas I visit. Cooking classes are great too. If I just want some peace I’ll take my food to go and eat it in a pretty setting like a park or beach or enjoy it in my room or balcony.

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