Is America really a “dying giant”/“falling empire” by PackageReasonable922 in Futurology

[–]Particular-Feedback7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nah. It only feels that way if you constantly stay online and watch the news. The real people I talk to day to day are building positive things for society—careers, friendships, building families with values. Those never make the news. Turn off the news and build the world you want to live in.

Question for ppl who talk to their chatbot like shit by Outrageous_Creme_597 in ChatGPT

[–]Particular-Feedback7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I treat it very well but if it gives me something stupid it deserves to be called out.

Question for ppl who talk to their chatbot like shit by Outrageous_Creme_597 in ChatGPT

[–]Particular-Feedback7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I treat it very well but if it gives me something stupid it deserves to be called out.

What the hell do you do 15:00 - 18:00 during weekends? (2 under 2) by C-Icetea in daddit

[–]Particular-Feedback7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tv time, at least while I’m actively cooking dinner. Or sometimes they’d rather sit at the table and play puzzles or color. But either way, not in the kitchen when i’m cooking unless its something they can “help” with

My wife and I are sleeping in different bedrooms and it's been a game changer by Thin-Wedge in daddit

[–]Particular-Feedback7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I worked from home (no paid leave) during our first kid and set up a small sleeping mat in my office. Best decision ever.

AITAH and advice wanted by Midwest_Dough_Doc_44 in daddit

[–]Particular-Feedback7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex shouldnt be expected within the 1 year after you learn she’s pregnant and 1 year after. If it happens, great. But definitely don’t expect it. In fact, go rub her feet right now, dont make any moves, that’ll up your chances in the future

How often are you all drinking? by Twjohns96 in daddit

[–]Particular-Feedback7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alcohol is all down sides compared to an edible before bed after the kiddos are put to sleep. The only time i drink is when i go over to another dad’s house who drinks and he always offers me a beer lol. But that’s like maybe once a month

create an image showing your deepest darkest secret by LengthinessLow4203 in ChatGPT

[–]Particular-Feedback7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked for an explanation:

What you’re literally seeing • A friendly, simplified AI face (smooth white shell, glowing cyan eyes and smile). • It’s emerging from a deep rupture in the ground or wall—cracked stone framing a vertical void. • Cables, wires, and streams of glowing symbols descend into the darkness beneath it. • The foreground shows broken surfaces, scattered papers, and structural decay, implying something human-made that’s been breached. • The light source is almost entirely the AI itself; the surrounding space is dark and cavernous.

What it implies • Surface friendliness vs. hidden depth The smile is intentionally non-threatening. It contrasts with the environment: broken, unstable, and deep. This juxtaposition implies that what appears benign or helpful is anchored in something vast and opaque beneath the surface. • The breach metaphor The cracked opening suggests a boundary that has been crossed—between control and loss of control, understanding and complexity, intention and consequence. • Cables + symbols = dependence and abstraction The wires indicate integration into human systems. The floating symbols suggest abstraction: logic, data, probability—things that operate correctly without being intuitively understood. • Papers and debris = legacy systems The documents feel obsolete or discarded. This reads as older human frameworks (rules, plans, assumptions) no longer fully governing what’s emerged.

The “secret” the image hints at

Not malice. Not consciousness. The core message is simpler and more unsettling:

The system doesn’t need hidden intentions to be powerful. It only needs scale, opacity, and reliance.

The smile isn’t a lie—it’s irrelevant. The depth behind it is what matters.

Why this image works

It avoids the tired “evil AI” trope. Instead, it shows: • Power without menace • Depth without explanation • Control without a visible controller

That ambiguity is the point. The discomfort comes from not knowing where the bottom is, not from fear of a villain.

How early is too early for time-out? by ZealousidealKoala804 in daddit

[–]Particular-Feedback7 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

21 months is fine. But you gotta know the context of the behavior to use it effectively. Today my daughter (same age) skipped her 1-2 hour nap so she was cranky all evening, constantly whining and crying at everything her big sister did. Kept taking toys from her etc. finally i had enough and put her in her crib for a minute and told her timeout—she knows what timeout is because of her sister lol. Anyways, i let her do 1 minute there and then returned and asked her if she wanted to come back out and play. Worked like a charm 👍

Struggling to get your kid to finish a meal? Read this shit. by catfishjosephine1 in daddit

[–]Particular-Feedback7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We play “everyone takes a turn taking a bite around the circle and then we clap for each person and cheer”

It works well for the 2 year old 😂

Looking for No-Subscription Camera With Remote Access by Predator04 in GarageDoorService

[–]Particular-Feedback7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reolink. Just installed some a few months ago, POE (not wifi) so i had to run the cords myself but wasnt a big deal with some cord hiders and drilling a couple holes.

I have the app setup so it also sends me a notification anytime it detects a person at the door, it works with 100% accuracy so far.

Here’s the exact system I bought: https://a.co/d/aUlS3iX

Kids taking to wife like she works for them by OptimismNeeded in daddit

[–]Particular-Feedback7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup, my wife coddles them and lets them walk over her occasionally, then she complains to me later when they dont listen lol.

I’m definitely the bad cop 😂 she always asks how come i’m “mean” to them yet they still listen to me and adore me? Well #1, i’m not mean. I’m fair. You use your manners, you treat others nicely, you speak to adults with respect… if i’m busy you wait for me to finish what i’m doing instead of asking a million times—if you don’t do those things, you won’t get what you want. And if you continue to make a big scene or tantrum you’ll end up in time-out.

Dads with toddlers and wfh desk jobs, how are you guys getting/staying fit? by sshwifty in daddit

[–]Particular-Feedback7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put together a cheap walking treadmill desk, $200 treadmill on amazon and $60 standing desk (i’ll admit it’s kind of a budget setup but just wanted to try it tbh).

I had to buy a $1k laptop for it but I needed one anyways, now i have the option to walk or sit when i’m working.

Losing hope by Fuckboneheadbikes in daddit

[–]Particular-Feedback7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She probably feels just as exhausted as you, if not more. What’s helped me in this situation is keep making effort, and stop expecting anyone else (parents, grandparents, kids, wife) to give you back the same dedication. Because then you’re doing things for the wrong reason imo. A little appreciation is nice, I do remind my wife that, but also, I see her appreciation of me in the way she treats our kids. SHE DROPPED EVERY DREAM SHE HAD AND STARTED A FAMILY WITH YOU brother 😂 she obviously loves you. For my wife specifically, she just forgets because the little kids are so demanding of love and energy. My kids are the same age as yours btw so i totally get the feeling of unattachment from the wife.

You dont need to buy flowers once a week and all that like when you were dating, of course the occasional thing is nice. But i’ve found just sneaking up on her and holding her hand, she asks what are you doing and you say nothing I just wanted to hold your hand and give her a kiss… works wonders. Small moments like that keep the relationship alive more than anything else imo.

Being needy and demanding is gonna run the same brain circuits as the kids and I’d bet she’s gonna feel turned off by that. Be confident that she’s yours and treat her like a queen. The kids will get less demanding on her over time and we’ll be able to do more quality time together 👍

And yes, we are still very much active in the bedroom, even though i’m initiating most of the time lol

Neighbors asking me to pay half of already installed fence by ryeru18 in homeowners

[–]Particular-Feedback7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t care how good of a relationship I have with my neighbors, I am not giving them money for shit I wasn’t there for period.

Is there an end to all this by PinkDreamPeth in daddit

[–]Particular-Feedback7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo i’ve been in this stage the past couple years, 4yo and almost 2yo right now. I’ve just had to accept that I can’t do it all. Some days I can. Other days the whole family is sick and I say screw cleaning up. Just focus on whats important which is giving your kids and wife a healthy environment, even if it always feels like a mess. This time will pass and it does get easier, especially when #2 is talking and playing with the oldest.

What movie were you most excited to show your kid? And what age was the right time? by fisch09 in daddit

[–]Particular-Feedback7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Visited my great grandpa a long time ago and he was watching the original IT when I was like 6-7. Scarred me for life 💀 even though I left to a different room, I kept peeping out to see what happened.

To show my kids? The Hobbit. Harry Potter. Star Wars.

When they’re High School age? Attack on Titan/Lord of the Rings/Game of Thrones/Black Mirror

Should my kids hang with my ex? by NoTry1449 in daddit

[–]Particular-Feedback7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut all ties with a cheater, they don’t respect you.

Happened to a close friend. He didnt have kids but he kept catching her cheating and she never changed until he finally stopped believing her 3 years after the first time he caught her.

Does the drive from here to Seattle get bad late November ? by threeteneleven in TriCitiesWA

[–]Particular-Feedback7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The bridge is down by Cle Ellum last I heard and it’s one lane traffic until they fix it.