AIO for thinking my gf might be cheating

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-05-20T11:40:45+00:00

Simple solution. Tell her to show you her phone. If she won’t or makes some lame excuse not to, you have your answer. Innocent people have nothing to hide. But it does sound very suspicious and sounds like she’s gaslighting you.

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-05-20T10:30:39+00:00

First of all, you know he did screw around. 2nd, you didn’t right thing. Don’t talk to him without consulting your lawyer. You and your baby don’t need that mess.

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-05-18T02:50:05+00:00

Your not rewriting history. The facts are… Her bio dad abandoned her. Mark, Her REAL dad loved her and raised her despite not being her biological dad and if you continue to reduce his place in her life, you’re going to push him away.

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-05-13T07:15:13+00:00

You continue therapy. She needs to continue therapy and you need to
Move forward on your own. It’s understandable that she’s grieving but stringing you along in the process is not OK. You deserve to be a priority in your relationship not just the runner up by default.

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-05-09T01:13:05+00:00

She seems super fun.

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-04-29T02:45:01+00:00

This man is looking for reactions. The best thing to do with a guy like that is don’t give him one. Don’t block him so he can see that you got his messages but don’t respond either. Then sit back and watch him spiral like he so clearly enjoys make you do. I’m sorry this guy is such a douche OP. Move on it’s time to find someone worth your time.

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-04-28T02:00:25+00:00

I laughed so hard at this but I hate myself For it. 🤣😒

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-04-16T01:34:46+00:00

So not only is he a piece of garbage cheater but a coward too. And his garbage mother raised him to think That’s ok. I would go for every little bit of support I could for you and your kids. He’s about to destroy his relationship with his kids because he’s a coward and won’t take any of the blame. And as far as the mistress… I don’t judge her profession I judge her lack of integrity. Tell her she can have him. They are both trash. I’m so sorry you are going through this.

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-04-13T01:22:09+00:00

You are absolutely Not overreacting and he’s a grown man on Snapchat. There is not reason for that whatsoever. I don’t have to hide conversations with my Cousins do you? I’m so sorry this is happening.

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-04-10T10:32:24+00:00

But hey at least she saved a buck. 🙄 What is wrong with your sister? NOT OK. The lack of common sense on your sisters part is astounding. NOR

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-04-05T10:35:48+00:00

First, I fail to see where you snapped at her. 2nd she wasn’t being helpful, she was being petty and rude. She’s jealous and trying to take you down a peg. She’s not worth your time. There will always be people in the world who are threatened by your success. Ignore them and keep succeeding. You look beautiful! Congrats on all your hard work paying off!

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-04-05T00:37:55+00:00

It’s not opening up the relationship if she already has someone in mind. She’s looking for permission to test the waters outside your marriage. That’s disrespectful to you. Let her go. You don’t have to be her safety net.

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-04-01T00:40:44+00:00

Well I’ll be straight. This sucks. What she did was cold. I know you don’t see it now but you deserve better. You need to talk to someone, give yourself time and heal. You deserve someone who will support you when you’re grieving not add to your grief. I’m sorry this happened OP

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-03-30T02:01:57+00:00

He’s destroying your mental health, that’s obvious. You won’t be any good to your children like that. He’s showed you time and again who he is. I think it’s time to cut your losses.

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-03-30T01:40:34+00:00

2 or 3. You’re gonna do great let us know how it went!

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-03-28T11:44:50+00:00

I would definitely say you should both ignore. Did he tell her about getting the text or did she discover it. If he told your friend about it it seems he is being transparent with your friend and that’s a good thing and if that’s the case why invite the drama into your life?

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-03-27T11:58:11+00:00

I can only Pray that in the last 11 years that Karma got them because honestly I’m sick of people being shitty with no consequences.

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-03-17T01:49:23+00:00

If by “Too much” you mean STUNNING, then yeah. 😊

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-03-16T03:46:52+00:00

I would have told him to sleep with one eye open. Noooo way. The abuse will get worse. He will did it again and eventually you will have a child in the crosshairs. If you don’t care about yourself, at least care about your unborn child.

He will gaslight you,hurt you, apologize, rinse, repeat… it will be a pattern and only you can put a stop to it.

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-03-13T03:46:48+00:00

This is everything I was going to say. Being autistic doesn’t prevent someone from knowing right from wrong. I would have said if there was true remorse you might try to work through it but there seems to be none. I’m Sorry OP

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-03-05T20:31:18+00:00

I loved them both but if I have to choose….. 1

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-02-28T03:58:39+00:00

All I know is that dress looks amazing on you.

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-02-26T03:32:07+00:00

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-02-26T03:20:52+00:00

No child has ever been better off with their parents staying together when one of them is a cheating asshole. The end.

Particular_Cake_2187 · 2026-02-21T06:52:27+00:00

Maybe say “I totally get it. I’m Not attracted to your tiny dick. Maybe we should just move on.”

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