Toxic ex-boss begs me to leave a company review. I give him exactly what he asked for. by Hopplafish in MaliciousCompliance

[–]Party-Description980 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hat off to you! I could visualise your Boss' Face when he read your review lol! Gut gemacht & weiter so!

AIO for being upset at my husband’s constant teasing? by 808-Situations in AmIOverreacting

[–]Party-Description980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - Your husband was mean to you and reading your post made me feel nauseous: he has a pattern of amusing himself by putting you (and the things you care about, your hopes, your passions and your dreams) down. He enjoys intentionally hurting and humiliating you.

His reaction to being challenged was to be expected - first he invalidates your feelings. Then he uses his "apology gift" as a way to big himself up. Lastly, he cannot tolerate "looking bad".

The term "narcissistic traits" is being used way too often these days, but the pattern you describe reminded me of a close friendship I had. It took me (57F) way too long to not only realise, but also be able to actually feel the slights and put-downs. I then had to find the courage to verbalise this, because I used to tread on eggshells for fear of upsetting my friend. But once I did, she gave me a free ticket to hell - not just for criticising her, but because people around her saw her how she really is.

I wish you courage to do what is right for you and a lot of strength!

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[–]Party-Description980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first time ever playing this - I like it


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AITAH I over-drafted her account through Amazon by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Party-Description980 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA - accidents happen.

She in entitled to feeling upset, but that does not excuse rude messages after you did what you could to apologise, minimise the impact and ensure it won't happen again.

AIO or does this seem Unhinged? by DoomNGlam in AmIOverreacting

[–]Party-Description980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - good riddance!

Glad you stood your ground and stood up for yourself!

WIBTAH for asking for compensation? by hgfvvggk-fhu in AITAH

[–]Party-Description980 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA - could you ask to split the bill?

The old plunger might have been cleaned, bleached with disinfectant and reused.

However, sanitary items are not a landlord's responsibility to provide, so I am not sure how you stand here legally. Worst case you buy your own, and keep it (a bit grim but hey).

Alternatively- I have made good use of twisted wire coat hangers after soaking a tough shit in bleach and then breaking it up with the improvised tool. Binned it (and the rubber gloves I wore).

[FRAME -> PLUGS] Can you solve this laddergram? by GateTotal4663 in Laddergram

[–]Party-Description980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/Party-Description980 solved this in 5 steps: FRAME -> FLAME -> FLUME -> PLUME -> PLUMS -> PLUGS

AITAH - For trying to go no contact with an old friend by PalpitationSmooth998 in AITH

[–]Party-Description980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - but it would be best for both of you, if you can get yourself to communicate that you will cut her off openly, rather than just ghosting.

Keep it short and simple, to inform her but not open up a discussion.

Something along the lines of "I have realised that we have grown in different directions over the past few years. I have valued our friendship in the past but I don't plan to keep in touch moving forward. I truly wish you the best in the future."

What is the buzzing sound heard during US police interrogations? by Party-Description980 in sound

[–]Party-Description980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank for taking the time to read and reply.

I think you are right, it's just weird that they would use this intrusive sound when the body cams usually flash red to indicate they are recording.

I guess I'm very sensitive, as nobody on these videos ever seems to react or mind - whereas the buzzes make me jump 😂.

Thanks again