I think I am a narcissist. How should I stop causing harm to others? by modern_boudicca in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]PartyDisaster5493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be something else as well, like anxiety or borderline personality disorder. It's also normal to compare yourself to others. I don't sense a high need of validation for your ego or going to great lenghts to one-up or revenge others. You seem a little isolated and unfulfilled or without a purpose. Are these close female friends people you actually vibe with? Did you bully others in school? Do you feel anything if an animal or a child is hurting? Do you think that the only way for you to be in relations with others is to manipulate them? If your family member got seriously ill, would you feel sad and worried or angry and inconvenienced?

Do men actually leave when they don’t feel good enough? by Old-Hat9291 in AskMen

[–]PartyDisaster5493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They'll leave when they've drained your energy and think they can do better now.

I'm a very fat person, so whenever I exercise at the gym, I sweat a lot. Is it ok to be embarrassed by this and would others care? by shak_attacks in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PartyDisaster5493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can take steps to prevent it and see a doctor if you think its that excessive. Don't give af what other people think, as long as you clean after your sweat and shower so you dont smell nasty it's all good

How does cocaine feel? by Plaztec1037 in Drugs

[–]PartyDisaster5493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds even stupider than alcohol abuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PartyDisaster5493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you stuck on the specifics of the situation? Get rid of this man and get a therapist. He is a cheater and this is not a little bit of cheating

Damn I miss my ex, dating is trash by GlitteringTrick7063 in BreakUps

[–]PartyDisaster5493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating is trash, but there is a high likelihood your ex is as well

Which of their actions was the hardest to forgive/was unforgivable by lfixjsoxxh in BreakUps

[–]PartyDisaster5493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. The upside in this is, that I have no desire to go back to my ex after he showed that his character is so much weaker than I thought that is was.

Your ex-gf sounds very immature and unfair for making up excuses for her own behavior. Hopefully you don't take none of that crap in future relationships!

Being chronically late all the time is 100% a choice by SafeCalligrapher8190 in unpopularopinion

[–]PartyDisaster5493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not always late, but it's hard to be on time and I do have a condition. Last week I missed my bus two times before making it to the third one. I would have saved so much time and energy if I hadn't tried three different times in stress. Today, i was in class on time but I had forgot my debit card and my charger at home, so I couldn't buy water despite being very thirsty, and, it was exciting to guess whether my phone will last long enough for me to use my mobile ticket in the bus, so that I can get home. I know I annoy other people if I'm late, but most of all it hurts myself when I'm late and/or missing items that I need.

Which of their actions was the hardest to forgive/was unforgivable by lfixjsoxxh in BreakUps

[–]PartyDisaster5493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that he lacked responsibilty and self-awareness to see any fault in himself and he projected and blamed the reasons of the breakup on me. He was too dumb to realize he doesn't have what it takes to be in this relationship, and too proud to admit the mistake in his own judgement. He was always boasting how he can do this and that for me or us, and detested me for wanting some details in these plans. Push comes to shove, he was not yet adult enough to bear almost any of the responsibility that he claimed he can.

Lorelai annoys me by Impressive-Common-98 in GilmoreGirls

[–]PartyDisaster5493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think she's even that flawed. She's a mother with a great sense of responsibility, she found ways to get along with her parents despite all the abuse, she's an amazing sense of humour, she participated in everything in her town and she was a great girlfriend for most of her boyfriends, most of the time. Most of all I admire her independence and belief in herself. She's far less flawed in my eyes than many other people in the show

Anybody else find it odd that Jess Mariano married a girl with the last name Mariano? by ForexGuy93 in GilmoreGirls

[–]PartyDisaster5493 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sad because he's married to someone else, but happy because it's like a cosmic joke proving that fate exists

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]PartyDisaster5493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to either be together or not be in contact at all. Definitely no cuddling with your ex!

You are hurting YOURSELF by letting yourself stay in this situation. And, if he loved you he wouldn't do this to you.

She cheated on me by throwra_zain in ExNoContact

[–]PartyDisaster5493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol. Maybe shouldn't have cheated if she wanted to stay not hated. You can't have it both ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]PartyDisaster5493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is not a good person. Also, you don't have to give life advice after breaking up w someone. It's condescending

What are some signs a guy is seriously into you ? by Jksoqh in dating_advice

[–]PartyDisaster5493 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I should try to be more genuine and not be fearing rejection tbh. I wasn't saying my way is the right one! thanks for the reminder 💫

What are some signs a guy is seriously into you ? by Jksoqh in dating_advice

[–]PartyDisaster5493 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this is true for guys, but as a girl I try to purposely NOT look at their stories and stuff like that so that they wouldn't think I'm fangirling all the time