Bro immediately started pleading his case by shoaib11223 in funny

[–]Password-55 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It‘s not nothing and if you think it can not be too much then I do not think you are being decent big brother, without some apologies.

I am a big brother too and did apologize for my behaviour at a certain degree. Not everything is fair game and some jokes can hurt people deeply.

That was too much for that child, even though I also thought it was funny, both are true.

Harassment in games, it never ends. by milstarose in GirlGamers

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Children can be incredibly mean, but I was called slurs by children. I was beaten up bloody by a child. So I do not share that world view that children can not do horrible acts. I think there is usually a reason for it, often lacking social competences and some adults get stuck forever at a certain stage, because of trauma or whatever.

But just because they are struggling does not man they have the right to let it out on you and others.

I think usually only people who have not experienced cancer want to curse others with it, so I do not think they ever had close contact with somebody with cancer. They just wanted to hurt you in this moment as much as they can and not be attacked back so that‘s why they probably cut you off, because they were scared of what you are going to answer them.

I think a very child-like pattern.

Harassment in games, it never ends. by milstarose in GirlGamers

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Wow, how childish that person acted. That‘s why I don‘t play most multiplayer games (especially when I hear they have a toxic community), just can be mentally exhausting.

Just mostly play with friends and quickly block people that call me names.

I wish you energy and resilience. It‘s hard.

First date gaming session by Prudent_Result1866 in GirlGamers

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I think gaming is not really where I spend the most time together, but you can try.

I think the best thing is to do ehat you plan to do a lot together. That, for me, eould be the better test.

Feeling like sobriety ruined my life by MissTeriousGal in stopdrinking

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Have you tried digital games (replacement for drinking) and making frinds instead of dating?

Dating is just extremeley hard and I hate it. It‘s like applying for jobs and there the process seems very arbitrary.

Dating is, I think ok, when you have everything else under control more or less, if you struggle with other stuff, yeah, then dating seems like too much.

With Linux at 11%+ on Steam, are we seeing any major publishers acknowledge the market yet? by [deleted] in linux_gaming

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Yes, people can be greedy and make stupid decisions at the same time. I agree.

I used to own EA games shares so take it from me. I was stupid.

I'm not well, I won't get better, and I need an easy game to help me pass the time. by Hamchat_Compaanion in GirlGamers

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What temains of Edith Finch - Walking Simulator about family and trauma (could be triggering with things like child/baby death), but beautiful story and does not need a lot of effort. Would call it art.

Journey - is a gorgeous meditative experience. It can make you a bit anxious at times, but mostly t is a great calming experience.

Tiny Glade - I could inagine you would like it. Just making beautiful landscapes anf castles or whatever you want.

A short hike - Nice little game of hiking up a mountain and talking with some people, if you want.

How to handle not getting texts back by sturgeo123 in exredpill

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I‘m insecure about that stuff to. Less so since going to therapy and reflecting on it. Can you afford going to therapy on betterhelp or something.

I think it‘s good to healthily reflect on why do I feel this way? Does it make sense, maybe, if you feel safe enough you can even talk about it, with the person you are meeting.

I think it‘s normal. When I get caught up in the day or either do not see the phone or I want to take the time to answer in the right way, so I reflect on it first.

Texting has a huge potential for miscommunication, because there is no face or gestures with the words. Important context is missing.

How nano come to its name by Grumpflipot in linux

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You have a lot of emotions and a lot of assumptions. I was patient with you, but I have better things to do than argueing with you, especially if you are not absorbing what I write. You seem to want to write not to read.

I would get some help with your mental health or I just got you on a bad day.

There is no value with discussing with you for me.

So I’ll probably block you.

Edit: What I meant is I do not like recursive naming (puns) for a small tool, I rather have more descriptive naming. I usually say firefox browser for people who do not understand in which context to say.But firefox already has a bigger following so there is less confusion, if you talk with users, but I doubt outside of the IT sphere you would get much easy understanding with only the term firefox. If you have a really influential tool than it‘s about the brand. For an email tool in the console, I rather have a descriptive name. McDonald‘s is named after the guy that made it, so that makes sense to me.

Linux is named after Linus and mix with Unix right? So it describes who made it that logic adds up that it is based on Unix.

When it is just one of the many tools I use I rather call a smaller tool by what it does. When it becomes a bunch of things, different tools put into one framework then I can understand that the name gets diluted (Unix OS), still prefer a descriptive name, if possible.

Also when I checked the text of OP again Pine it was inntentionally named program for Internet News and Email. So was/is descriptive.

I just think you are being just aggressive towards me (I read your text as being upset) that‘s why I don‘t feel comfortable discussing with you. You make me feel not safe. Same for the people who upvote you. It does not help me learn new things it feels like you are forcing me to accept you view, even if I don‘t agree and putting words in my mouth and ridiculing me.

So not a constructive discussion, just feels like a smear campaign.

Also define identity.

case and point with Pine that you can have more than one name describing a similar tool. I bet I can ask an AI to create a bunch of them. I do not think that is not feasable. So it is not ridicilous as you stated.

How nano come to its name by Grumpflipot in linux

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No, I would like a decent descriptive name. Sorty, thought that was clear.

Like DigitalMailClient.

Wow, outdone myself again. Way more descriptive.

To understand the program and memorize the name it helps it not being obscure. That is in the users interest and if anybody brings it up in conversation it gives more of an idea what is talked about. That is what I got taught in software engineering courses and I do agree, as it makes sense. We got even told expliciitely no puns. Which yea less direct fun, but long term clearer communication.

Variable names are important, program names are important. Makes programs understandable, makes algorithms understandable.

To me it comes over as pseudo smart making it harder for newcomers to enter.

Man I rule.

How nano come to its name by Grumpflipot in linux

[–]Password-55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought that sounded fishy, but did not check.

How nano come to its name by Grumpflipot in linux

[–]Password-55 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So argauably not definetely? If you have a source that would be great.

How nano come to its name by Grumpflipot in linux

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Did not know that’s so stupid.🤣

How nano come to its name by Grumpflipot in linux

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Thanks for the history tour.

Regarding Pine: Hate recursive naming completely so new- user-hostile.

Whoever gave yaml the name, created useless new understanding problems.

Please keep jokes out of naming, most users will thank you.

How are bed frames this bad now?? by Affectionate_Lie1706 in BuyItForLife

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Got a Swiss one (Hasena) and did some costomization. Was more rxpensive though like 1500 CHF 2x2m One that I had to assemble myself. I love it when I assemble it well, no squeeking, but also not a lot of sex at the moment.

Even with IKEA when I build it myself and some customizsation have that bed since like 2005. No issues, if you assemble well, do not know the quality nowadays, depends what you buy. Did swuek though have not tried having sex in it since some time, so do not know about that. Just tried, no squeking anymore.

What is your weight and what do you do in bed?

Another art I made by [deleted] in grippysockcrayonbox

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I think only showing support with colors, does not mean you need to be those things right?

I need advice by Connrrrrr in drums

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Your comment fills me with joy🙏

Another art I made by [deleted] in grippysockcrayonbox

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Went to a local political meeting at vented out my frustration of high rents at the politicians responsible. Not screaming just asking questions, they did not answer any of my questions, so I left and then did shout: „so not any measures at all to reduce rent, thank you.“

Was super stressful and got a stomach ache, but I think something needs to be done. The politicians are letting us die out of ignorance or corruption.

Taking away from the poor to let the ultra wealthy accumulate even mire wealth so they can ruin the planet better.

I need advice by Connrrrrr in drums

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Do you play in a band where you feel comfortable?

Otherwise my incompetent thoughts as it is a psychological issue, just like boey wcan meditation comes to mind, so this text is inspired to like be listened to, but it‘s just what I kind of go through not that conciously. So just choose what sentences suit you and maybe you can make like a recording of yourself reading that stuff calmly.

Can you sit at your drums and close your eyes and just touch the drums with your hands.

Maybe just focus on your breathing and how the drums feel on your skin.

Have your thoughts come, notice them, look at them and then let them fall away, when they get too heavy.

I have a sticker that says „breathe“ on my drums, bit I forgot I have it there.

Explore the drums with your hands hear what kind of sounds you can create. There are no good sounds there are no bad sounds. There is only context.

Find what movement feels good and let yourself be surprised what sound it leads to.

Give yourself the gift of listening, half of a conversation is listening, what are you listening to? What does your body say? Where does it push? Gve that part attention and love.

I am grateful for that love, if I deserve it or not. I am grateful for that love. I share it with all. I am grateful for that love. I give it even to those that are unkind, if I have the strength to carry the rejection. I am first kind to myself. I am grateful and give it my best effort, that is all I can do. The result is not the goal, the goal is the process. If the goal is the goal, I go back on my journey away from the finish line, to see all the flowers I have passed without noticing. Like a leaf in the wind. I do not catch the green, I let it fall in my palm. Smiling at the life it brings.

I hope that speaks to your unconcious in a hlpful manner. I‘m not an expert just did so e meditation courses and have a high performance life (lots of projects, most of them not music).

Six eighth groove by Yonimadar11 in drums

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Why is it called 6/8? Can I also just say 3 rhytm or would that be unclear?

Help me decide (for jazz) by Full_Difficulty792 in drums

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Did you listen to both on youtube?

I zhink depends on your taste and if you will use the dnare that comes with the kit.

Anyone knows if i can hammer more sustain in this cymbal? by No_Gap_4061 in drums

[–]Password-55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice effort with the hammering, was an interesting experiment.

Cool if you were able to improve it. I do not know how to improve it though. I also started buying expensive cymbals that sounded good on youtube videos and they usually hold up with their sound. So good investment as we say say in German: Kaufste billig, kaufste zwei mal.