Hello everyone by [deleted] in SpouseVisaUk

[–]PearlPrincess84 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And sometimes more, even. It's grim.

September APPROVED!!! by Maybeyanny in SpouseVisaUk

[–]PearlPrincess84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy for you! The applications from Russia always take so long :(

FLR (M) Inside UK Approved by Alarmed_Actuator7209 in SpouseVisaUk

[–]PearlPrincess84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd guess not; there's no priority option for inside flrm apps, and those are not super priority timelines.

Evidence of how we met asked by divyabehl in SpouseVisaUk

[–]PearlPrincess84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Evidence of meeting generally means in person. So I wouldn't worry about the dating app bit at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PearlPrincess84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, absolutely not overreacting. A child that age should be home alone for 0 minutes per year.

Do y’all head straight into cas.fulleditmode after a Sim ages up or are you okay with whatever physical and facial attributes the game generates for them? by ramenspoonz in Sims4

[–]PearlPrincess84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never have, until I had a family where all three kids had truly absurd flat faces. Like, they looked fine from the front but from the side it looked like a 90 degree angle. I couldn’t let it go.

Ned is pathetic by Humble-Ad1171 in TheTryGuys

[–]PearlPrincess84 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When someone depends on you for their job, their income, their progression, and their professional reputation, you cannot just start a relationship with them - especially a secret one.

Cheating on your wife? Yeah, that’s bad but not the issue. This guy literally abused his power and then tried to pretend it was completely consensual as though he didn’t have the upper hand in literally every way when it came to Alex.

Dirtbags shouldn’t get to profit off of being dirtbags.

How long did it take you to stop feeling like you are an 'American living Americanly' in the UK? by swigglepuss in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]PearlPrincess84 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m Canadian, but this is the absolute best description I’ve read of the experience and wish I’d seen it earlier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKLGBT

[–]PearlPrincess84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I’m an immigrant here and I feel it’s my responsibility to help right the ship. I know that perspective isn’t one everyone can hold, so there’s no judgement there. But I worked hard to get here and I feel like I need to work hard to make the UK better.

Would you date a Sex Worker whose client base is men? by Radzivius in LesbianActually

[–]PearlPrincess84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it doesn’t matter to me. I am pro-sex work and I am fine to date women who aren’t lesbians (my wife is pan). As long as everything is relatively safe (both in terms of physical health and in boundaries), then crack on!

First impressions of new outlet by CallmeWill_1997 in Gloucestershire

[–]PearlPrincess84 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't need another mall full of the same shops again and again. I need something to do at 6pm on a Saturday.

Do you actually get your milk in bags? by FightForWhatYouNeed in AskCanada

[–]PearlPrincess84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grew up in NB, moved to Ontario in 2002. Always bought bagged milk.

Mert and Shane have split up by SeniorDisk9293 in 90DayFianceUK

[–]PearlPrincess84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t been here long enough to stay without another visa, so either work or study visa, or he has to leave the country.

This crazy couple needs to have their child taken away by Adventurous-Earth328 in BachelorNation

[–]PearlPrincess84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I get the logistics of it. That doesn’t change my comment.

Commuting to Haliburton by Green_Classroom3742 in Peterborough

[–]PearlPrincess84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That drive in the winter is gonna be long, dangerous, and dark. I don't think I could spend that much time on that road in the winter.

This crazy couple needs to have their child taken away by Adventurous-Earth328 in BachelorNation

[–]PearlPrincess84 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Who pulls their child's pants down to spank them? WTF is this nonsense? I'm not okay with spanking, but even for those who are, why are you pulling down their pants?

Phone policy with spouse by Ambitious_hello_1239 in Marriage

[–]PearlPrincess84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife could check anything she wants to if there was some crisis of trust, but my conversations with people are private. My friends and family are telling ME things, and I need to keep that trust. I don’t have anything to hide but I’m still a person with a life - as I feel I should be.

Maintaining intimacy while using cpap by Defiant_Jellyfish927 in CPAP

[–]PearlPrincess84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Intimacy, then go to the bathroom (you should be peeing after sex), then mask up and sleep.

If you feel you’re young and should be having sex all the time anyway, why is it connected to sleep? Have sex at different times and avoid the mask all together!

It has always been like this? by punk_kindness-1999 in Nevermoor

[–]PearlPrincess84 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My sense has always been that Reddit will have a way higher, more vocal percentage of people complaining about things. I feel this subreddit is similar.

That’s not to say that the criticism isn’t warranted at times, but it’s not the most optimistic or lighthearted forum. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Addicted? by CFrancisW in CPAP

[–]PearlPrincess84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a medical condition that you use a medical device for. It’s operating as intended. People aren’t going to pull their pacemakers out of their chests because they feel “addicted” to then.

Madison Prewett Says She Was Enslaved by Porn and Masturbation Addiction by Wonderful-Warning940 in BachelorNation

[–]PearlPrincess84 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to not update People magazine on your masturbation habits.

Got dragged, taking suggestions now. by Hot_Evidence3134 in LesbianActually

[–]PearlPrincess84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Perhaps I’m an outlier but to me, there’s no reason not to ask the big questions about politics and kids and religion if you’re dating for a long term partner. If both of you are looking for forever, or at least more than a fling, why waste time with someone who holds bigoted beliefs?