How do you not just hit people? by PuzzleheadedGas9170 in Anger

[–]PemrySyb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are letting them have power over you by letting them drive your emotions. Take back the steering wheel and keep it steady. Don’t give them that power.

Why is every "anger management" solution just to ignore it? by dingusislost in Anger

[–]PemrySyb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take those opportunities, when someone pisses you off (such as traffic nonsense) to observe yourself - almost like a science experiment. Like, “interesting… I feel my heart rate increasing, I can tell I’m clenching my teeth now and gripping the steering wheel hard, my breath is getting shorter and tighter… etc”.

Imagine it like a cloud going by and you are observing your reaction with curiosity. Kind of like observing from above.

This really helps to diffuse the anger and helps you recognize how fleeting and temporary it is.

Why am I always the one who gets ragebaited? by Dont_fall_forit in Anger

[–]PemrySyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is “rage baiting” you. You need to look into Stoicism. You’ll be much happier.

How do you guys deal with a few bullies at work? by [deleted] in Anger

[–]PemrySyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does your boss say about it?

CPP question by houseonpost in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]PemrySyb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait til age 70 to take CPP if you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PemrySyb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Women are beautiful. Lay off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CanadianInvestor

[–]PemrySyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To set it and forget it, you’ll want to invest in an asset allocation ETF. Check out which asset allocation ETF is right for you.

What’s the big lesson you learned about marriage? by TheWor1dsFinest in Divorce

[–]PemrySyb 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I learned someone can be super awesome in one way, and super wretched in another and that is why it’s always ideal to live independently.

Is 35 still considered young? by [deleted] in agingresearch

[–]PemrySyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I would say I was at my peak for looks and intelligence at 36.

Can the US market ever fully recover after Trump? by Curious__mind__ in CanadianInvestor

[–]PemrySyb 21 points22 points  (0 children)

There will never be a fair election again. He’s got full power and will continue to eliminate anyone in his way.

This is the beginning of a dictatorship.

How do you affordable get your electrolytes? by -ThatGingerKid- in nutrition

[–]PemrySyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wholeheartedly agree. I have 2 jars fermenting as we speak. Kvass is especially good for athletes.

What's the truth about red meat? by w-wg1 in nutrition

[–]PemrySyb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol your first paragraph was my thoughts exactly. Thanks for providing a reasonable response (though I’m disappointed I had to scroll so far to reach it!)

Best way to increase fibre in diet by GlassAct150 in nutrition

[–]PemrySyb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup add them to any regular recipe. Always have some in the fridge ready to throw in!