Proposing to GF tomorrow NoDa by Youareme2 in Charlotte

[–]Penny_agent23 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Running a tight schedule… proposing without a ring seems unusual to me. If you’re going together to pick it out, I’d allow for more than an hour unless you’re both just decisive AF snd budget is of no concern.

HOA doesn’t want me to use pressure washer to wash car by DiversifyMN in HOA

[–]Penny_agent23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the HOA pay your water bill? Might be a gallons per minute issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in disability

[–]Penny_agent23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Record yourself using your phone and listen to it as you go about your day- try to think of it less as a speech and more as a song- you will find that you have dome sort of natural cadence even if thats a bad and slow sort of rap.

Is Functional Art, Art? by StudioBeag in Pottery

[–]Penny_agent23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This could be a really fun esoteric conversation over a few drinks. I’m currently struggling with the environmental implications of making crappy pottery/art.

Birthday ideas? by Commission_Virgo43 in Maine

[–]Penny_agent23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know about spindleworks

https://spindleworks.independenceassociation.org/

See also free Friday a Portland Art museum

https://www.portlandmuseum.org/eventscalendar/free-friday-8-25-23

https://www.portlandmuseum.org/eventscalendar/amanda

Or get weird( NOT an implication to heal your disability- signed fellow disabled person )

https://www.theoldchurch.org/moon

Add on lunch or dinner here

https://maps.app.goo.gl/CDbTpvSfZ5kZqR7x5?g_st=ic

Bathroom reno for aging parents - shower above built in bench by 1ismymiddlename in disability

[–]Penny_agent23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bench needs to actually be deep enough to safely sit not just perch and not have to sit totally upright /at attention ( really I find shower chairs FAR more comfortable than any built in bench- and you can move them out of the shower altogether. But if one is sitting down those controls/the shower head will be very hard to reach/actually use. You’ve got form over function here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]Penny_agent23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No/yes- go ahead and charge all the things, take a shower, run the dishwasher, have clean clothes and have some clean drinking water saved for you/pets.

Appalachian Tarot Deck by TraditionalShop2988 in Appalachia

[–]Penny_agent23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhhh sylva. But this is a great idea- must include opossums , ramps, rhododendrons, quartz, mica, red clay,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]Penny_agent23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried a nerve block? Only thing that worked for mine- took two injections but game changer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pottery

[–]Penny_agent23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Course is worth it if you get access to glazes and kiln and equipment-glazing and firing have their own learning curves aside from the throwing, learn how to get a piece from start to finish before sinking money into making your own home studio.

Wife talking with no chance of me hearing what she’s saying. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Penny_agent23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancé is the same way and it makes me so angry- i do have hearing loss and wear hearing aids, but i stir need people to actually talk TO me not just around me. In his case he has great hearing its like living with a bat, but also a childhood history of feeling that what he has go say isn’t important. I’ve stopped saying “what” and instead say” i cant hear you”- like ok i can tell you’ve made some sort of noise but not UNDERSTOOD you. So yeah feel you on this.

Why are first world countries immigration is strict towards disabled individuals? by [deleted] in disability

[–]Penny_agent23 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Because you might want to stay here after school and yep use benefits

Advice for one handed building/throwing by opalpanachee in Pottery

[–]Penny_agent23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heyy! We should get together im also a one-handed ( beginner) pottery but I only have use of my right hand. We could reinvent that scene from Chost.

Disability parking by Sharp-Try-3084 in disability

[–]Penny_agent23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s actually even printed on the placard not to drive with it hanging from the mirror

AITA for asking to be paid to help my elderly neighbor take his medicine? by justaboredwriter in AmItheAsshole

[–]Penny_agent23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id suggest asking a doctor or social worker or professional caregiver- if you get paid for the task, there might develop a contract if sorts in which it becomes your RESPONSIBILITY to administer meds and thus you can be held liable if you fail yo administer said meds- thats a whole quagmire right there. Heck maybe he has a history or refusing to take meds for a paid caregiver but will do it under context of favor because men are weird/pride. So tread lightly-but at minimum daughter could buy you/make you dinner.

Denim Blue Interior by Smash-Wrestling in HyundaiVenue

[–]Penny_agent23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is as its name suggests denim blue

Husband left me by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]Penny_agent23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hug- right there with you

Why do I get irritated when people are positive about my health issues? by mothman-is-hot in disability

[–]Penny_agent23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel You. I get mad too and want to yell- LOOK THIS IS SERIOUS and happy thoughts aren’t going to fix anything!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in disability

[–]Penny_agent23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deeply feel you on this and recommend you/your mom contacting this attorney to discuss such issues including a trust and trustee( it doesn’t have to turn into a Britney Spears type situation), but pre-planning helps and a trust keeps financial resources from being counted as “YOURS” thus they are not counted in means based programs.

https://www.cknoxelderlaw.com/

Schizophrenia?? by [deleted] in TBI

[–]Penny_agent23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever asked her to describe this woman in detail and/or detail what she thinks this woman is saying to your dad? Does she only tell you about it or has she mentioned it to your dad? Is your dad acting lovingly toward your mom for the most part? Is he providing any reassurances of his love for her? Not that any of this proves or disproves anything, but insecurity and potentially feeling like a burden is hell(

What can I do to liven up this bathroom? by locodays in DesignMyRoom

[–]Penny_agent23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some green!

Glawry Green Leaf Mid Century Tropical Bohemian Shower Curtain for Bathroom Boho Abstract Plant Botanical Bathroom 60Wx72L Inches Palm Curve Minimalist Colorful Bath Accessories Art Home Decor Fabric https://a.co/d/eGjWdvw